Yeah I've made so many slider adjustments and strategy adjustments and even CPU goalie global attribute changes to get an enjoyable game of hockey out of 21. I have it tuned to the point where I think taking smart shots and using screens, looking for tips is actually viable, but this isn't even remotely the case on default sliders/attributes.
The most frustrating part is, I think their skating and DSS and checking engines are all capable of producing really good hockey, but the AI is so incredibly bad + the goalies are not in the least bit realistic OOTB that nobody gets to experience it without slider edits.
All EA games are lifeless, superficial experiences as you said. PES blows FIFA out of the water when it comes to immersing the user and actually providing some realistic excitement/challenge to soccer. 2k8 football still provides a more realistic challenge and exactment to the game than Madden 21. NHL 2k8 (and even 2k10) still provide more realistic excitement/un-predictableness than NHL 21 OOTB.
Between their AI being incredibly useless and their OOTB tuner settings, they sure make a decent game look and feel a lot worse than it should. I've certainly tweaked it to the point where I can enjoy it in small doses, but I can still easily look back on NHL Hitz Pro, NHL 2k8, and NHL 2k10 for things that are done better in those respective games which is really disappointing considering we're talking about games 11, 13, and 17 years older respectively.
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