Horrible Day

**ipitythafool25** · 01-20-2007, 02:04 PM

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Thanks again, all the advice is greatly appreciated...I will move on, it hasnt hurt so much as its just made me numb,hard to look at anyone and trust them

I know that i have true friends and thats who right now im gonna surround myself with(and maybe a few beers). As soon as i get back in my hometown which is about 45 mins away ill start settling back in to a good zone,ill be back near friends and back near civilization where i can actually get on my 360 and play online for the first time in almost 5 months and eventually all the hurt will go away

Even since yesterday shes tried a few low blows,like when i went back to the house to get some stuff i needed for work she picked up the phone and started chattering away with a friend about how happy she was now and yada yada just trying to start something,but i didnt let it bother me...i just smiled and took the higher road

im rambling,again thank you all i will always be thankful for the help through all this and i look forward to getting back into the swing of things here

**ipitythafool25** · 01-20-2007, 02:08 PM

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oh and for all wondering.im 25 first time married,we knew each other forever but only started dating about 2 and a half yrs ago..got engaged after yr and a half and then married,no kids so it will be a pretty cut and dry split with some scars that will last a while but theyll fade

**Flyboy** · 01-20-2007, 02:10 PM

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They'll get what they deserve. Hold in there, man.

**Brandwin** · 01-20-2007, 02:30 PM

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he's not worth going to jail over or doing something incredibly stupid.

Good! They're both not worth it.

Sorry you had to go through something like this.

**CaptainZombie** · 01-20-2007, 08:30 PM

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Originally posted by ipitythafool25

Thanks again, all the advice is greatly appreciated...I will move on, it hasnt hurt so much as its just made me numb,hard to look at anyone and trust them

I know that i have true friends and thats who right now im gonna surround myself with(and maybe a few beers). As soon as i get back in my hometown which is about 45 mins away ill start settling back in to a good zone,ill be back near friends and back near civilization where i can actually get on my 360 and play online for the first time in almost 5 months and eventually all the hurt will go away

Even since yesterday shes tried a few low blows,like when i went back to the house to get some stuff i needed for work she picked up the phone and started chattering away with a friend about how happy she was now and yada yada just trying to start something,but i didnt let it bother me...i just smiled and took the higher road

im rambling,again thank you all i will always be thankful for the help through all this and i look forward to getting back into the swing of things here

Why the hell did she start calling a friend and talking that smack? She did the damage, but why add more to it which boggles my mind.

Just take care of yourself man and I wouldn't do anything crazy to go in jail, but that prick deserves something. Like TJ said, I would find a woman that has STD's, and pay her to try and sleep with him only to get the diseases himself. That dude is a prick.

**jmood88** · 01-20-2007, 08:39 PM

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Originally posted by ipitythafool25

Thanks for all the advice, it means alot

As for her actually saying anything else...nah i left this morning as soon as i found out, im staying at a friends house cause i definately dont wanna be around her as that could possibly lead to alot of arguements and at this point she just isnt worth it

As far as he goes..he was nothing to me long before this and he will still be nothing to me, he's not worth going to jail over or doing something incredibly stupid.

The way i look at it is they deserve to be together,she was treated like a queen and after the fling is over ( cause i do know the guy, this is just a fling to him) she will see exactly what she had and it will be to late

God works is crazy ways and i know as much as it hurts now this is part of his plan for me and in the end i will be stronger for it

That's a great attitude. Everything happens for a reason and you'll find somebody who's actually worth the time, don't worry about it.

**westwood** · 01-20-2007, 09:06 PM

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your a better man than I,as i'd be sitting in jail right now. from what it sounds like though your far better off. keep your head up as everything always comes around in the end.

**Scottdau** · 01-20-2007, 09:21 PM

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Originally posted by westwood

your a better man than I,as i'd be sitting in jail right now. from what it sounds like though your far better off. keep your head up as everything always comes around in the end.

You are joking right. No one is worth going to jail for or prison, I work at a jail, so when I hear statements like this it scare me. You are doing the right thing. Just don't get into it with her and just move on. Wow you are 25 and have this good of head on your shoulders. Way to go bro. Keep taking the high road with both of them. good luck. Beating up your friend or your wife doesn't change anything. So keep taking that high road. Pk is right good thing you don't have kids.

**skitch** · 01-20-2007, 09:22 PM

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What a ****ing bitch.

Rubbing it in after she's already in the wrong? Come on.

I'm coming to Georgia, and we're going Green Street Hooligans on this dude.

**Coach Bryant** · 01-20-2007, 11:56 PM

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You're the man! In a tough situation like this it takes bigger man to walk away than to fight. Well played.

**stewaat** · 01-21-2007, 01:56 AM

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I agree with Kredit, the way she's handling it is ridiculous. She must be a little two-faced.

**WTF** · 01-21-2007, 11:44 AM

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I'm sorry to hear this man... I echo everyone else's comments, you have a great head on your shoulders, and it's great that you're able to be above all of the petty nonsense that she seems to be throwing at you.

Keep your head up man, things will get better.

**TarHeelMan** · 01-21-2007, 01:35 PM

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Originally posted by ipitythafool25

Even since yesterday shes tried a few low blows,like when i went back to the house to get some stuff i needed for work she picked up the phone and started chattering away with a friend about how happy she was now and yada yada just trying to start something,but i didnt let it bother me...i just smiled and took the higher road

How old is she? That sounds VERY immature... I'd be willing to bet there was nobody on the other end. The fact that you didn't take the bait probably pissed her off more than anything... I'm glad you responded the way that you did.

**bkrich83** · 01-21-2007, 10:07 PM

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Hey man sorry to hear about all the drama. I never understood why people do things like this. Not to mention act like that after the fact.

Congrats to you for being the better person. Don't worry, karma never fails to come back around. She and he will both get what's coming to them.

**TheMatrix31** · 01-21-2007, 10:08 PM

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That female is a slutbag. Plain and simple.

Horrible Day

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