About to ask some girl to prom

[Herbsinator]

Re: About to ask some girl to prom

I would demand, at the very least, an H.J. for your troubles. At least a 5 minute cop-and-feel session.

I agree....just out of simple courtesy. Then you could tell your friends that you got some with her and they would get off your back.

[GBrushTWood]

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Who cares if some douchetossers "never speak to you again". You likely will not keep in touch with 90% of the people you interacted with in high school. If somebody is actually not willing to ever speak with you again based on who you choose to go to a high school dance with, he/she is not worth keeping in touch with as a friend.

Think for yourself, and make your own decisions based on your own desires and what you feel is in your best interests. In the long run, people will respect you a lot more if you do that as opposed to bending over to gain the approval of those around you.

I realize this may be difficult in high school (where meeting the approval of your peers is paramount), but you are about to finish high school and move on to a new phase in your life. Stand up for what you believe in, because this is the expectation once you go to college and beyond.

As a side note, you will likely think back to this seemingly big deal in four or five years and laugh at how trivial it looks in hindsight.

Also: don't expect to hook up with this girl during prom. You are unfortunately the cuddle bitch, whether you like it or not. That's the position you put yourself in with this girl. Get over it. Once you go to college, learn from your mistakes, and rail some 18 year old drunk, horny co-ed.

[NoSkillz50]

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My prom situation is pretty ****ed up right now:

So this one girl is pretty cute and in class like randomly asked me to prom. She's like "who are you going to prom with", I said "i dono yet", then shes like "wana go with me" and she was like kinda joking since this was like a month and a half ago but if i asked it be like a for sure thing.

Then theres another girl who I kinda like and is pretty hot but she went with my friend to winter formal and was kinda a bad date. She basically ditched him even though she had said she wanted him to ask her. I talk to her a lot and I don't think it'd be awkward or anything but after what she did to my other friend on formal I dono.

Then this weekend I hooked one of my best girl friend's friend when we were both drunk. I almost took her downtown if u know what I mean but I got **** blocked by some guy who was trying to hook up with her. I haven't really met this girl not drunk but I'm supposed to hang out with her saturday so thats a possibiltiy too.

Hopefully after spring break I'll have figured it out.

[Beantown]

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Go with the hottest one.

Or the easiest one.

If they're both the same...you're in luck.

[MassNole]

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Go with the hottest one.

Or the easiest one.

If they're both the same...you're in luck.

That would certainly be the ideal.

[NoSkillz50]

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The hottest ones the hardest. The one who i hooked up with is the easiest and shes pretty cute but i like dnt know her at all.

[Beantown]

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If she's the easiest, go with her.

[BunnyHardaway]

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Also: don't expect to hook up with this girl during prom. You are unfortunately the cuddle bitch, whether you like it or not. That's the position you put yourself in with this girl. Get over it. Once you go to college, learn from your mistakes, and rail some 18 year old drunk, horny co-ed.

I don't expect to. I know my role, as sad as it is.

[Herbsinator]

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If she's the easiest, go with her.

I agree...ease of access to the honey pot is essential.

[nkhera1]

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Prom is definitely not worth the trouble, for me anyways. The last month has been ridiculous, especially the last two days...check this POS situation out:

A little over a month ago, this one girl, who is pretty much my best friend, asked me if I wanted to go with her, and of course I said yes. For the next 3 weeks I was under the impression that we were going and that everything was normal. Then she decided to randomly drop a bomb, and tell me that my one friend (whom, the week before, broke up with his girlfriend) asked her if she wanted to go with him. Even after her friends tried to talk her out of it, she pulled a completely bitch move and ditched me. Being the "cuddle bitch" that I am, I played it off like I was fine with it, but in reality I wanted to kill both of them.

I finally just said screw it and got over it. Then about a week ago, she kept telling me how she regretted her decision because she heard that my friend was going to try and have sex with her after prom, and how she was afraid because she didn't think he would stop if she told him no. I really don't know why she was telling me this, as if I could do a damn thing about it, but that's not here nor there.

Now the part where it gets really ridiculous. A bunch of us were staying at my friend's house on Sunday night, and I guess they were IM'ing each other or whatever, and he brought up the subject. He basically told me everything that she heard, that he was only going with her for sex and that if he didn't get any, prom wasn't worth it. Knowing that my best friend was worried and scared that he'd try something, I told her, because I thought she had a right to know that someone wanted to use her. She got crazy upset over the whole thing, and told him that she didn't want to go with him anymore and that she'd rather go with me instead. Pretty horrible timing, because the next 3 hours we were there consisted of them calling me a girl, a bitch, etc.. I could hear them saying stuff about me when I was trying to sleep to. It's none of their business really, except for the kid that was going to go with her. I guess they try to find any excuse to go against me, but whatever.

I said I'd go with her again since she was left dateless now, and I didn't think anyone would make a big deal out of it, but when I got to school everyone was on me about it. They basically said if I go with her after what she did to me a month ago, just ditch me, then they'd never talk to me again. So that got me thinking, is it really that wrong that I'm going with her? I thought I was doing the right thing, but now I have some doubts. I have a hard time believing all of this was worth it.

If you didn't really have anyone you wanted to go with, I think you did the right thing. Who cares what the other kids think.

[RockyTop1]

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i love these threads

[NoSkillz50]

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I'm gettin drunk with the hottest one tonight I think. We'll see how it goes. She'll be gone after like 2 shots since I have Bacardi 151 too. I <3 drunk girls.

[RockyTop1]

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I'm gettin drunk with the hottest one tonight I think. We'll see how it goes. She'll be gone after like 2 shots since I have Bacardi 151 too. I <3 drunk girls.

take lots of pictures and don't forget the roofies

[Acid]

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take lots of pictures and don't forget the roofies

QFT.

I wasn't planning on going to prom this year, but now I'm thinking about asking this hot chick I play soccer with. Not too sure though, I absolutely despise dances.

[Beantown]

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Ask Caylee.