Question about "friends"..

[Cebby]

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Never trust a female on no scale

Stick with your real friends.

[jmood88]

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Never trust a female on no scale

Stick with your real friends.

Real friends as in the one's who don't like him because he's friends with that girl?

[VTPack919]

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Uhhh...care to elaborate?

The story just doesn't make sense. I'm not sayin its definately right. It just seems from what you told us that they may have other reasons for not talking to you. In other words something just doesn't up.

uhhhhhh happy?

[Cebby]

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Real friends as in the one's who don't like him because he's friends with that girl?

His friends are shallow as hell, but he obviously needs them to feel good about himself or else he wouldn't be asking the question. Plus there's probably a reason they don't like the girl.

[Brandwin]

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A couple things I will warn you about from experience about the Girl Best Friend thing... because I had one for a lot of years.... #1... any future girlfriends will have a HUGE problem with it.... #2... if you have sex with her, you'll try to say that it doesn't change things... but it does. It always does.

Yep pretty much.

How about sitting down and talking to them about it.

[The GIGGAS]

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If they're willing to stop being friends with you over one friend you have, they're not true friends. **** them, just find new people to hang out with.

That's it.

[BunnyHardaway]

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Yep pretty much.

How about sitting down and talking to them about it.

Because they're the most irrational people I've ever met and never take anything seriously. I thought about saying something to them, but it wouldn't get me anywhere.

[mike01]

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maybe they just figured you were busy hanging out with her, they didn't want her around, so they finally just stopped calling you to hang out?

if you want to still be friends with them just make an effort to call them and see what their plans are and try to get back in the game

[BunnyHardaway]

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maybe they just figured you were busy hanging out with her, they didn't want her around, so they finally just stopped calling you to hang out?

if you want to still be friends with them just make an effort to call them and see what their plans are and try to get back in the game

That's possible, but it's not like I was blowing them off. Every time they called me to do something, I went.

[SlimKibbles]

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If they're willing to stop being friends with you over one friend you have, they're not true friends. **** them, just find new people to hang out with.

I agree. JJ, those guys aren't true friends at all. You'll discover as time goes on who your true friends really are. If I was in your situation, out of my friends, I know which ones would still hang out with me whether they liked the girl or not. Does your female friend have a crew she hangs with?

[BunnyHardaway]

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I agree. JJ, those guys aren't true friends at all. You'll discover as time goes on who your true friends really are. If I was in your situation, out of my friends, I know which ones would still hang out with me whether they liked the girl or not. Does your female friend have a crew she hangs with?

Me, her, and her one girl friend. That's about it. Ever since that whole prom deal her friends kinda got mad because of what she did to me, so they're not as close anymore.

[JohnnytheSkin]

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Will JJ reunite with his high school buddies, at the expense of his platonic non-sexual girlfriend...next time, on the OS "Days of our [high school] Lives"



Seriously bro, just bail on them. Follow Clay's advice about the perils of female friendship, and wait until college. From my high school and college years I keep in touch with about five folks...and none physically (since you move away post-grad). They are good friends, I like talking with them, but don't get beat up about it. Hell, in college you can re-invent yourself as whomever you wish!

[oklahoma19]

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I dont get why your boys dont like her... Maybe Im missing the whole story?

I mean, I had a gf who all my guy friends hated, and I always shook them off for her. And in the end they were right. She was a lying cheating slut, and I wish I had listened to them. Because they only had what they felt was best for me in mind.

If they are mad cuz you always wanna be with her, then they kinda need to grow up. But if its deeper than that, I cant really fault them. If she jacked you over, then its only them being good friends for not liking her.

[dieselboy]

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This somewhat reminds me of some HS BS my friends put one of our closest through.

We had a core group of friends, four of us. We did everything together. We had all been really close friends, some for 5-6 years, others for 10. Then one of our friends got this girlfriend. It wasn't a big deal that he had a girlfriend, it was just a combination of things.

First of all, two of us didn't even know who she was before they started dating. Well, long story short, they broke up after a little while, but they remained best friends all through HS, dating off and on, blah blah blah.

The problem is a little different than with you though. In ours, it wasn't that he would ditch out of plans with us, it was just he was never available for plans that we had made. Or, he would want to bring her along to those plans. Plus, she didn't drink, which was a big problem with us at the time.

Anyways, it ended up causing a bunch of problems in our friendship and in the end, post-HS, he doesn't even talk to her, and we are still the best of friends.

My questions are...how long have you been friends with this girl? Do you have any physical feelings for her? Or her friend you hang out with? Are you going to potentially double up?

I firmly believe in "Bros before Hoes".

[Husker_OS]

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You've got 1 more year of this HS crap. Suck it up, choose your friends for 1 more year and then go off to college where you'll get an entirely new, and better, group of friends. Don't worry, this kind of crap doesnt happen in college.