I've been having a bit of a problem lately. My lady brought to my attention that consistently, my eyes roam at T&A at an alarming rate when I'm out with her. She first told me about this about a month ago so I tried to make a concious efford to not stare at other women but since then, she's had to tell me about this nasty little habit on two other occasions. Bottom line, its really pissing her off. At first I thought she was a little insecure about the whole situation because I knew for sure that I wasn't blatantly eye-raping females when I was out. Then she pointed out to me with a thorough demonstration as to what I do and I was shocked to learn that I still do unconciously sneak peeks at bootie.
Now, last thing I want to do is be disrespectful to her or any female so I'm asking my OS brethren is there any possible way to discipline oneself from such a habitual practice thats been apart of my livelyhood for as long as I can remember. I've tried a few methods but quickly realized that as a man, I just like to see T&A. Working in downtown chicago has groomed me to the point where it feels impossible to stop or even calm it down. There are simply to many dime pieces floating around and even though I neglect to talk, I simply cant help but stare.
Anyway, this wandering eye issue of mine seems to be losing trust with my lady for some reason. As much as I assure her that she's still #1 in my book, my actions say otherwise. Now I see why my babys mother never developed any trust for me. So what do you OSers think of this issue? Do you think she's kinda overreacting over the whole issue or is it a really bad form of disrespect on my part that I need to take care of? Believe me, I want to stop it but looking at T&A is an addiction. I like women. I like porn. I like breast....booties....legs.....sometimes faces............even though my lady is on point, I cant stop it.
Now, last thing I want to do is be disrespectful to her or any female so I'm asking my OS brethren is there any possible way to discipline oneself from such a habitual practice thats been apart of my livelyhood for as long as I can remember. I've tried a few methods but quickly realized that as a man, I just like to see T&A. Working in downtown chicago has groomed me to the point where it feels impossible to stop or even calm it down. There are simply to many dime pieces floating around and even though I neglect to talk, I simply cant help but stare.
Anyway, this wandering eye issue of mine seems to be losing trust with my lady for some reason. As much as I assure her that she's still #1 in my book, my actions say otherwise. Now I see why my babys mother never developed any trust for me. So what do you OSers think of this issue? Do you think she's kinda overreacting over the whole issue or is it a really bad form of disrespect on my part that I need to take care of? Believe me, I want to stop it but looking at T&A is an addiction. I like women. I like porn. I like breast....booties....legs.....sometimes faces............even though my lady is on point, I cant stop it.
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