Wandering Eyes...

[Graphik]

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but to most women, looking is just the same as touching..

Yea, she freaks out about it as if I find her insignificant when I do it. Honestly I dont do it intentionally, I guess its some type of habit. I would definitely hate if she checked out guys all day so she has some valid points. I really thought I could control it but it seems impossible. The jamming the fork in the eye idea sounds great.

Also, its not like I break my neck to look at tail when I'm out with her. Its just a quick glace at boobs and butts that she says she notices me do all the time.

I wonder if she thinks watching porn is like cheating?

[Rainey]

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Since, no one has done it yet... and I mean no ill intent.

When she grows up she won't care as much

[Graphik]

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Since, no one has done it yet... and I mean no ill intent.

When she grows up she won't care as much

My thoughts exactly to tell the truth. She ranks this wandering eye thing up there with cheating. She really has no clue how there are much worse things I could be doing in front of her as well as behind her back. Its definitely disrespectful but you know women, sometimes the insecurties shine bright when there is competition in the vicinity.

[Scottdau]

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Start dating someone your own age! Just kidding yeah it is bad, but it is hard not to look. Once you do it for awhile you get better at it. Any time I am with my wife and I have to look I do it real sly! lol 10 years of pratice does help though!

[Husker_OS]

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Just tell her you're enjoying God's creations. There's nothing wrong with checking out other girls so long as that's all you do.

[ndeezlo]

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Wear sunglasses.

[Scottdau]

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Let's flip around. How would you feel if your woman was checking out another guy, like we do other women? I don't know how I would feel.

[mgoblue]

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Let's flip around. How would you feel if your woman was checking out another guy, like we do other women? I don't know how I would feel.

IMO it's all about being comfortable, secure, and trusting in your relationship. If I fully trust my girl I don't care if she checks out some dude's *** or abs at the beach, because I'd know where she sleeps at night, ya know?

It just seems like Graphik's girl is somewhat insecure, but knowing Graphik he might be doing it all a bit too much/obviously to deserve the slaps upside the head I'm sure she gives him.

[Double Eights]

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It just seems like Graphik's girl is somewhat insecure, but knowing Graphik he might be doing it all a bit too much/obviously to deserve the slaps upside the head I'm sure she gives him.

The way I interpreted it, was that he was always checking out other girls. I don't see the problem with a look here and there, but it sounded like he couldn't keep his eyes away from other women.

I could be wrong though.

[The C]

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I thought this was going to be about Stuart Scott.

[mgoblue]

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The way I interpreted it, was that he was always checking out other girls. I don't see the problem with a look here and there, but it sounded like he couldn't keep his eyes away from other women.

I could be wrong though.

yeah, there's a difference between noticing a hot girl and undressing every damn woman in the room with your eyes for 10 minutes...

[Graphik]

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IMO it's all about being comfortable, secure, and trusting in your relationship. If I fully trust my girl I don't care if she checks out some dude's *** or abs at the beach, because I'd know where she sleeps at night, ya know?

It just seems like Graphik's girl is somewhat insecure, but knowing Graphik he might be doing it all a bit too much/obviously to deserve the slaps upside the head I'm sure she gives him.

Good point MGo. Me personally, if she checks out other guys when I'm around or not, I know where she checks in at the end of the day like you said. I've seen her check out dudes before and I could actually care less cause she doesn't make a bad habit of it. It really is human nature for any sex to look at something they like. Me, I happen to like T&A.

Also like you said, I deemed it insecurity at first till she explained in detail how much and how often I do it. Then it hit me. I have been discreetly peeping bootie out. I just didn't know I had it so bad. In her exact words, it was "consistently looking at other womens t***** and ***".

Its obviously a problem for me because of my job. I walk around downtown all day and I've had jobs like this for the last 7 years. Bootie just sorrounds me at every angle and I've adapted to looking at as much as I possibly can while at the same time, learning slick ways to peep *** without being so obvious. Now this habit has spread into my relationship and I find it tough to stop. I really need to though, I'm not the type to flatout disrespect my chick so I've been practicing while alone and with her.

[Graphik]

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Let's flip around. How would you feel if your woman was checking out another guy, like we do other women? I don't know how I would feel.

I'd honestly be mad as hell if she was blatant with it which she says I was. I'm nowhere near insecure but I definitely see why it was such a issue for her. And especially given the way dudes think, if she was willing to give guys the eye while she was with me, this pretty much gives a guy free will to invade whenever I'm out the picture.

[ehh]

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"I appreciate beauty, hunny. Why do you think I'm with you?"

[Scottdau]

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"I appreciate beauty, hunny. Why do you think I'm with you?"

Yeah that works for a minute! I told mine I am going to look and that is just how it is. I will try not to do it as much in front of you, but I am human. I do see her point and agree, but I don't want to stop. There is nothing better then hanging out with your friend and seeing some hot chick. lol Or better yet going to Hooters. if you havn't seen the South Park episode called Raisins check it out. lol