I don't normally post my problems but I really like this girl and this is my situation. Does anybody here think I have a shot?
A co-worker of mine told her single cousin about me and that I had just gotten out of a relationship. She told her cousin that I was a great guy and her cousin told her to tell me to request her on myspace. I do and we exchange messages and I eventually get her number.
She says to call her anytime I'm not busy so I wait a day and a half and I call at around 10. She doesn't answer. She then leaves me a message on myspace saying that she sorry she didn't answer and she didn't see the missed call till late and she didn't want to call back late. I call again the next night and no answer. I tell my co-worker about this and she says she's very busy and it's even hard for her to get a hold of her and she says to try it again. My co-worker also tells me she is shy and that the women in her family play hard to get.
On Friday I call again and get her on the phone and we talk for a few minutes and I ask her out on a date. She says yes and I tell her we can go out next Saturday cuz I'm busy this weekend and she agrees. Anyways the date day comes along and my co-worker tells me her cousin is nervous cuz she's never met me and people don't look the same as they do in pictures. (It's basically a blind date.)
We finally go out and have great conversation and we enjoy each other's company. We went to go get a bite at a cafe and we stayed for around 2 and a half hours talking. She even tells me I look better in person than in pictures. When I get back to work on Monday my co-worker tells me that her cousin told her she had a good time on the date. On Tuesday, I call her and ask for a second date and she says maybe??? I tell her that means a no and before I hang up she says "maybe" does not mean no and she just has to think about it a little. She says good things take time and to be patient. I'm thinking I just want a second date.
The situation is that she is 20 years old and i'm 24.
She is a single mother of one.(It was a high school mistake)
She works and goes to school full-time.
There are no other men in her life right now.(I know cuz my co-worker told me)
One thing that does bugs me is that I always initiate contact. Be it phone or text message. I know this is a killer but her cousin did say she was shy and when we do talk or message each other we have great conversation and she doesn't ignore my texts. She always answers back.
Oh and i forgot to mention that when we were on our date, she asked me when my last relationship was to which I answered a little over a month and a half. When I asked her, she said 3 years!!! It's weird because she is ultra beautiful but my thinking is she hasn't been in a relationship because of her baby. My co-worker also told me she's had bad luck with guys in the past which is why she introduced my to her.
Is there any hope????????
A co-worker of mine told her single cousin about me and that I had just gotten out of a relationship. She told her cousin that I was a great guy and her cousin told her to tell me to request her on myspace. I do and we exchange messages and I eventually get her number.
She says to call her anytime I'm not busy so I wait a day and a half and I call at around 10. She doesn't answer. She then leaves me a message on myspace saying that she sorry she didn't answer and she didn't see the missed call till late and she didn't want to call back late. I call again the next night and no answer. I tell my co-worker about this and she says she's very busy and it's even hard for her to get a hold of her and she says to try it again. My co-worker also tells me she is shy and that the women in her family play hard to get.
On Friday I call again and get her on the phone and we talk for a few minutes and I ask her out on a date. She says yes and I tell her we can go out next Saturday cuz I'm busy this weekend and she agrees. Anyways the date day comes along and my co-worker tells me her cousin is nervous cuz she's never met me and people don't look the same as they do in pictures. (It's basically a blind date.)
We finally go out and have great conversation and we enjoy each other's company. We went to go get a bite at a cafe and we stayed for around 2 and a half hours talking. She even tells me I look better in person than in pictures. When I get back to work on Monday my co-worker tells me that her cousin told her she had a good time on the date. On Tuesday, I call her and ask for a second date and she says maybe??? I tell her that means a no and before I hang up she says "maybe" does not mean no and she just has to think about it a little. She says good things take time and to be patient. I'm thinking I just want a second date.
The situation is that she is 20 years old and i'm 24.
She is a single mother of one.(It was a high school mistake)
She works and goes to school full-time.
There are no other men in her life right now.(I know cuz my co-worker told me)
One thing that does bugs me is that I always initiate contact. Be it phone or text message. I know this is a killer but her cousin did say she was shy and when we do talk or message each other we have great conversation and she doesn't ignore my texts. She always answers back.
Oh and i forgot to mention that when we were on our date, she asked me when my last relationship was to which I answered a little over a month and a half. When I asked her, she said 3 years!!! It's weird because she is ultra beautiful but my thinking is she hasn't been in a relationship because of her baby. My co-worker also told me she's had bad luck with guys in the past which is why she introduced my to her.
Is there any hope????????
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