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  • RobtAndProud
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    • Sep 2006
    • 310

    #1

    Long distance relationships...

    What do you think about them? work?

    I ask because my girl doesn't think she is going to be rehired (she is a professional ballet dancer) so she will have to go to another city and be hired with another theatre.

    I think it can work for us but I am just wondering what experiences any of yall have had with it. Just trying to prepare myself for it.
  • bkrich83
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    • Jul 2002
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    #2
    Re: Long distance relationships...

    Originally posted by RobtAndProud
    What do you think about them? work?

    I ask because my girl doesn't think she is going to be rehired (she is a professional ballet dancer) so she will have to go to another city and be hired with another theatre.

    I think it can work for us but I am just wondering what experiences any of yall have had with it. Just trying to prepare myself for it.
    In my experience and including people I know that have tried, 99.9% don't work. Who knows though, maybe you are the exception to the rule.
    Last edited by bkrich83; 02-22-2008, 08:30 PM.
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    • Chaos81
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      • Mar 2004
      • 17150

      #3
      Re: Long distance relationships...

      From personal experience, I have to say it won't work. Like BK said, maybe you two are the exception.

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      • stewaat

        #4
        Re: Long distance relationships...

        I also have to say I don't believe it will work. I thought I was going to be one of the few to pull one off and it was not successful.

        Too many things needed to make a relationship work.

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        • Crown42Royal
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          • Apr 2003
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          #5
          Re: Long distance relationships...

          I met my wife (then girlfriend) in high school and I spent two years away at college across the country. She then moved down to where I lived till I finished school. So, it can be done. We had no issues in those two years but it made those holidays even more important. If it's meant to be then it's meant to be; we've made it 12 years.

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          • Unoriginal Name
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            • Mar 2005
            • 608

            #6
            Re: Long distance relationships...

            I've been in two. The first one didn't work. The second one I am now married with the girl I was in the relationship with. It is a lot of hard work but looking back it was all worth it in the end.

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            • PlayaHataSupreme
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              • Jun 2003
              • 2209

              #7
              Re: Long distance relationships...

              How long have you two been together prior to this point?

              I'm in one now but we had 3+ years of "local" time when I was in school. We are two hours away now at the moment. I'm guessing that's enough to qualify as "long-distance."

              If you two get to see each other at least once a month or so, you two will have something to look forward to during the cold times.........

              Assuming you two have been together for a minute and you have carefully assessed what you're up against, I say go for it............ could make it even more rewarding.........
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              • chestnutz6
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                • May 2007
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                #8
                Re: Long distance relationships...

                Just listen to my favorite band, the naked brothers band.



                you will seriously DIE if you're in a long distance relationship
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                • SlimKibbles
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                  • Apr 2004
                  • 7276

                  #9
                  Re: Long distance relationships...

                  My cousin lives here in Cincinnati and just recently got engaged to her boyfriend who lives in Texas. He had the financial means to fly up here a couple times a month over the last year+. They talked pretty much every day. Sounds like it wasn't easy but they made it work. If two people are right for one another, things will work out somehow.

                  Personally, I can't get a relationship to work with a chick here in town let alone living hundreds of miles away. Long-distance deals scare me.
                  Last edited by SlimKibbles; 02-22-2008, 07:23 PM.
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                  • fishepa
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                    • Feb 2003
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                    #10
                    Re: Long distance relationships...

                    Don't work, I've tried 2 and they both failed.

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                    • mgoblue
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                      • Jul 2002
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                      #11
                      Re: Long distance relationships...

                      I've seen them work but rarely. A relationship has to be very strong, and both people have to be ready to make it work. Those things don't happen too often from what I've seen.
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                      • davin
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                        • Mar 2004
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                        #12
                        Re: Long distance relationships...

                        I'm in one right now, only over the last two months since I transferred down to OSU. We have been able to keep things going very well, however when her dad was almost killed created some friction, but we got over that over a month ago. We only have to spend a total of 5 months apart, and I have spring break coming up in a couple weeks, so probably some different circumstances. We were together for about 2 years before that though, and have worked very hard on our relationship before and during this separation.

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                        • countryboy
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                          • Sep 2003
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                          #13
                          Re: Long distance relationships...

                          My fiance' and I have been apart for 2 years now due to schooling. She is in Athens OH finishing her internship in Psychology. Myself, still here in Indiana and had to stay behind due finishing school and starting my new job.

                          Our long distance relationship is fine. May sound cheesy and I may be in direct violation of a man-law, but when you find that someone, your soulmate, that you just can't live without, then no matter what you are challenged with and no matter what you have to endure, love will pull you through and love will survive.
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                          • joshuar9476
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                            • Feb 2006
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                            #14
                            Re: Long distance relationships...

                            it worked the second time around for my dad ... but mine failed miserably and led to much heartbreak.
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                            • Flyboy
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                              • Jun 2003
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                              #15
                              Re: Long distance relationships...

                              I'm in one right now. It's hard as hell, but it also depends on the two people in the relationship. Not to mention she's considering going out here for school which would make things much easier. I've seen it work - my former roommate was in a long distance relationship with her man's (her living in L.A., him living in Cleveland - they met ONLINE through WoW, true story) and were together for six months before he moved out here to be with her permanently.
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