Anyone try online dating sites?

[Fresh Tendrils]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Not too dark. Gotta see what he's working with.


Sent from my mobile device.

Yeah. Don't want no good light/bad light broad.

[MrOctober430]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Exactly, I don't want the Seinfeld's two face girlfriend experience.

I just ending up asking her out for coffee. Just figure it's the first meeting and I can take a sip for awhile. Hopefully we hit it off. Been talking for nearly a month now non-stop.

As kingkilla said, maybe use it as my advantage. Any leverage I can get.

[NDAlum]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

I went the coffee route and 4 years later we're doing well. I didn't even get a coffee...went with a green tea.

[VTPack919]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Public parks are great places for weird, creepy, stalkerish people. She probably thinks you are going to watch her from your Van.


Just roll with the coffee shop. They are the perfect place for this sort of thing.

[Fresh Tendrils]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

I dig on Super 8.

[seasprite]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

That's code for "Someone else got these sugar walls"

Only lasted a few days............

[TripleCrown9]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Man I hate first dates. I have one on Saturday. Don't get me wrong, I'm looking forward to it. But I hate everything that goes into a first date. Trying to look good, trying to be overly entertaining, the awkward back and forth questions.

And on top of that, you have the scariest part of dating.

Spoiler

You either lose that person too soon, or you spend the rest of your life with them.

The good news is the girl is actually really cute.

[VTPack919]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Man I hate first dates. I have one on Saturday. Don't get me wrong, I'm looking forward to it. But I hate everything that goes into a first date. Trying to look good, trying to be overly entertaining, the awkward back and forth questions.

And on top of that, you have the scariest part of dating.

Spoiler

You either lose that person too soon, or you spend the rest of your life with them.

The good news is the girl is actually really cute.

Don't try to be overly entertaining.


Also, the question aren't awkward if you ask good ones.


I miss first dates.

[TripleCrown9]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Don't try to be overly entertaining.


Also, the question aren't awkward if you ask good ones.


I miss first dates.

I just mean awkward as in like

Person A-So where do you work?
Person B- *place of employment*
Person A- Oh cool.
Person B- Yeah, you?
Person A- *place of employment*
Person B- Nice
Person A- Yep
Then both people sit there until someone comes up with another question

At least that's how it always seems to happen to me.

[VTPack919]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

I just mean awkward as in like

Person A-So where do you work?
Person B- *place of employment*
Person A- Oh cool.
Person B- Yeah, you?
Person A- *place of employment*
Person B- Nice
Person A- Yep
Then both people sit there until someone comes up with another question

At least that's how it always seems to happen to me.

Don't get stuck in that rut. Google "first date questions" or something. I mean that's good to start out like that, but once she starts mentioning specifics just make her go into more detail. Women love talking about themselves and the more she talks the less you have to. PLUS she will think that you genuinely care about all she had to say.



"Where do you work?"


- Job


"What led you down that career path?"


- Life event which involves family


At this point she will start telling you things about her personal life that she doesn't normally tell people on a first date. She will say something like "I don't know what it is about you, I just feel like I've known you for a while" or "For some reason I feel like I can trust you".


Now she is essentially the Millennium Falcon, and you are the Death Star. Just keep pulling her in.

Once you get there, profit.


I oversimplified that a lot, of course.

[ubernoob]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Don't ask any questions. Just stare intensely at her until she starts conversation.

Can't play your hand too early.

[TripleCrown9]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Geez, how many questions does OKCupid ask? I feel like I've been answering questions for like 5 or 6 hours.

[SuperBowlNachos]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Geez, how many questions does OKCupid ask? I feel like I've been answering questions for like 5 or 6 hours.

Pretty sure there are literally thousands of questions. It's not like some other sites where it asks you a set few of questions. Unless you are doing it out of boredom you are better off just answering questions that someone you are interested in has answered from now on.

[Bobhead]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Uhhh yeah you aren't supposed to just sit down and answer questions until you finish.

lol

Just answer like 10-20 at a time or whatever you feel like doing.

"Geez, how many pages does Google have? I feel like I've been clicking links for hours"

[TripleCrown9]

Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

Pretty sure there are literally thousands of questions. It's not like some other sites where it asks you a set few of questions. Unless you are doing it out of boredom you are better off just answering questions that someone you are interested in has answered from now on.

Uhhh yeah you aren't supposed to just sit down and answer questions until you finish.

lol

Just answer like 10-20 at a time or whatever you feel like doing.

"Geez, how many pages does Google have? I feel like I've been clicking links for hours"

Lol well I mean some sites only have like 20 or 30 questions, and then they let you know "You've completed the _____ section of your profile".

Not OKCupid.