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Please don't lie to her and tell her it's OK if her step sisters tag along. That's NEVER a good idea.
It is a date between you and this girl, not you, this girl and her crew. The best thing you can do is tell her no, don't do that and if she doesn't like that then tell her to kick rocks. And if the thirst is still THAT bad, well there are girls who you can pay who can easily quench your thirst for you, if you catch my drift.#RespectTheCultureComment
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Damn i was trying get a threesome going but never mind lol.Seriously I'll let her know no sister and I'll tell you guys when she responds.Comment
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I'm not so in agreement with the other guys here about the no-sister thing. At least for the initial meeting I'd not mind her bringing her if it made her feel uncomfortable without her but not for the whole date.
If this is a sticking point for her maybe offer her to have her sister come separate, meet you for drinks or coffee or whatever and then she can leave for the rest of the date.Streaming PC & PS5 games, join me most nights after 6:00pm ET on TwitchTV https://www.twitch.tv/shaunh20
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If she's uncomfortable going on a date with someone, she shouldn't be going on dates with someone.
I understand your point of wanting to make sure she's comfortable, but this isn't dropping your kid off at kindergarten. She's a grown adult trying to meet someone. She needs to get over it.
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Just tell her that if you were a rapist and/or murderer, you could just as easily do those things on a 2nd, 3rd or 4th date.
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Re: Anyone try online dating sites?
I told her no sister.She said ok but her sister is a big apart of her life.She meets guys she plan on getting serious with.(In my mind I'm like bitch we going get coffee.)Any who Starbucks Thursday at 12 EST she pushed it said she have time.
So no sister just me and her.This will be my first date with someone online.Sex hasn't been brought up yet so I'm guessing she a low key freak or she had to fill me out first.Ill give you guys my play by play tomorrow after we are done.Comment
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Why would sex be brought up before now?
And I get the whole "family is important" thing, but bringing her sis along on the first date/meet? Damn.
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Must be the age I guess. Never talked about sex before meeting and even then it just happened.
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Yeah it's rare I meet a girl on a dating site who isn't willing to talk sex in less than 2 days. Since I'm looking for a relationship, I tend to be attracted to the ones who are aren't willing to engage in that conversation. It's very tough though to transfer real life dating do's and dont's to online dating as you do so much more communication before an online date than you would for a real life date. That is bad in two ways as you could give all your mystery away before the date even begins or you could find out that the person is totally different than how they were online.Comment
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Sex comes up in a more playful way pretty quickly. I can admit that I will purposely find an ice breaker in something a woman has said and bring it up.
It has never caused an issue for me and every female usually rides with it because truthfully they were thinking the same thing too.
I should add this depends on the person and if one isn't open to that playful talk, I likely wouldn't even go on a date with them."It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace
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So I started talking to this one girl on POF and I think I may have hit a home run with this girl; she's cute, has a great job, awesome personality, and she told me something last night that made my week(it's very dirty so use your imagination).
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I've only been on one date with a girl I met online, but it was through MySpace when I was a senior in HS.
It ended terribly. The girl was really annoying and boring the hell out of me, but I was trying to overlook that because of how attractive she was.
So, we're at Chic Fil A (keep in mind this was HS) and we're eating before going to watch a movie. A friend shoots me a text and asks me what I'm doing and we text a few times. Then I send him a message that says something to the tune of, "This girl is annoying as hell..."
I put the phone back down on the table and she looks up from her phone and says, "So, I'm annoying as hell ?"
I just kind of stared at her for a solid 30 seconds and I didn't have the ability to say anything at all and I never really gave her an answer. I went back to my chicken sandwich and we got back in the car and I said, "I can take you home if you want". and she said that was fine with her..
Not a word was said on the way to her house or when she abruptly got out of the car. Looking back, I probably should have said something funny.
I won't even get my phone out on a date these days. I think it's rude to be texting people when out with someone. I didn't care back then.
I was about to venture into online dating again, but ran into my current GF and things have been going pretty smooth for now. It's scary what we have in common. I'm just afraid the military is going to shut things down for us in a few months. Right now I'm just trying to enjoy it. I agree that there's pros and cons to online dating. If I cleared the air and got most of the usual first date talk out before even going out, I'm not sure what I would ask or talk about at dinner.
One other thing I've learned over the past few years.. I refuse to go to the movies on first dates from now on. I'll do dinner and maybe a movie at home or something, but you really don't learn anything sitting in a movie theater for two hours when you can't even talk.
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if your'e cool with it then go ahead
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