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[stewaat]

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Depending on what your goal is. If it's to get some tail for the night then a bar. If it's to wife something, online, at least there's some chance she isn't a slut which can't be said for girls at the bar.

So you can't meet a good girl at a bar? I'm still trying to decide what mine is right now!

She seems to mean well so far...

[ehh]

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I know four couples who have met online and are happily married. I don't know anyone who's in prison for child porn or married someone they met at a bar.

[stewaat]

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I know four couples who have met online and are happily married. I don't know anyone who's in prison for child porn or married someone they met at a bar.

Haha good point.

I think I have too much pride to date online. I'm curious but I don't know what I would tell friends and what kind of looks I'd get.

That just bleeds insecurity right there. Yep I care what people think about me. Plus I view as what's on my arm as a trophy.

But...a trophy is a trophy...whether it be for sweet online message or cheesy pick-up line...

[ehh]

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So you can't meet a good girl at a bar? I'm still trying to decide what mine is right now!

She seems to mean well so far...

All depends I guess, I've only dated one girl I met at a bar and I she turned out to be a dumb whore (literally). But I met her at a semi-upscale Manhattan spot so I shoulda known better. If you meet a friend of a friend at a bar then it's probably cool, randomly people, meh I'm not sold on it.

I met this chick at the bar on Thurs night after watching the games, she seemed all goody goody, came back to my place and we were messing around but she didn't want to do anything too serious. Ended up spending the night, woke up the next morning and all of a sudden it was on like Donkey Kong, she was ready for everything. I was like, "WTF? Six hours ago I felt like I was at an 8th grade dance and now you're DTB?" Bar chicks are just crazy.

[Beantown]

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One of my cousins got married to someone they found online. Don't think I know anyone married to someone they met at a bar.

[Psyblast]

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It was implied with your statement.

Others will 100% agree with me.

How many people who have tried online dating found out the person they were talking to was a cop or guy?

The only people who find cops or guys are surfing myspace trying to hit on underage girls/boys.

I was simply asking a question to OS and you come in here and make a joke of online dating which several people have found their significant others through.

Therefore the online dating you were referencing pertains to searching for illegal activity.

There's this new thing on the internet, or interweb, if you will, called "sarcasm" or "dry humor". It involves making statements that are either overtly ridiculous or covertly ridiculous, the latter implying that the meaning behind them is subtle and may not be perceived immediately. In many cases certain types of people misinterpret these statements as serious because there is no disclaimer indicating that said statement was not intended to be serious and was in fact, sarcastic and designed for humor. Such disclaimers may be, in the case of internet message boards, smiley faces.

Oh, and just so I'm clear this time, I wasn't being serious. See: :wink:

[stewaat]

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All depends I guess, I've only dated one girl I met at a bar and I she turned out to be a dumb whore (literally). But I met her at a semi-upscale Manhattan spot so I shoulda known better. If you meet a friend of a friend at a bar then it's probably cool, randomly people, meh I'm not sold on it.

I met this chick at the bar on Thurs night after watching the games, she seemed all goody goody, came back to my place and we were messing around but she didn't want to do anything too serious. Ended up spending the night, woke up the next morning and all of a sudden it was on like Donkey Kong, she was ready for everything. I was like, "WTF? Six hours ago I felt like I was at an 8th grade dance and now you're DTB?" Bar chicks are just crazy.

The previous night was a test I guess?

Hopefully she looked as good in the morning as night!

There's this new thing on the internet, or interweb, if you will, called "sarcasm" or "dry humor". It involves making statements that are either overtly ridiculous or covertly ridiculous, the latter implying that the meaning behind them is subtle and may not be perceived immediately. In many cases certain types of people misinterpret these statements as serious because there is no disclaimer indicating that said statement was not intended to be serious and was in fact, sarcastic and designed for humor. Such disclaimers may be, in the case of internet message boards, smiley faces.

Oh, and just so I'm clear this time, I wasn't being serious. See: :wink:

Thanks maybe one day I can be on your level of funniness.

HAHAHA hey everyone come check out how funny psyblast is! OMG he's so funny!!!

Hahahahahahaha

[ehh]

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Haha good point.

I think I have too much pride to date online. I'm curious but I don't know what I would tell friends and what kind of looks I'd get.

That just bleeds insecurity right there. Yep I care what people think about me. Plus I view as what's on my arm as a trophy.

But...a trophy is a trophy...whether it be for sweet online message or cheesy pick-up line...

I tried online dating once out of curiosity. The girl was cute as hell, tall & athletic with a very cute face (aka my type to a T). She turned out to be insane; clingy and annoying. On our only date when went out to dinner and then went back to her place, she told me she wanted me to spend the night because it was the best date she'd ever had with someone she met online. I'm like, eh whatever, you're cute enough for me to put up with you for a couple days and see what happens. So she strips butt naked and hops into bed and tells me to come in, BUT I can't touch her. I'm like, uhh..... are you playing hard to get or just crazy? But she meant it, I couldn't touch her. So I hope into bed, test the waters real quick, get shot down and then go to sleep. Hopefully I snored real loud and drooled all over her pillow.

So the next morning she asks if we can stop and get breakfast before she drives me home. I agree, we're gonna walk to this place right around the block from her crib. So we're outside and she tries to hold my hand. WRONG! I tell her I'm not down with PDA especially after just meeting someone and she goes off on this tangent on how insecure I am and all this other BS. LOL, at that point I swallowed my pride, shut my mouth, ate a bagel and let her drive me home in silence - but sure as hell didn't let her hold my hand.


Actually know that I've thought about this I realized I'm forgetting the golden rule: Alll women are f'n crazy - doesn't matter where you meet them.

[TheMatrix31]

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Considering I'm not interested in random hookups which will inevitably turn into a disease, pregnancy, or a clingy tramp bitch and I AM interested in someone who I can care about now and into the future, my choice of online (given these two options, at least) stands.

[ehh]

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The previous night was a test I guess?

Hopefully she looked as good in the morning as night!

Surprisingly she actually looked better, lol. Definitely the first time that's happened to me! Yummy body, but obviously she was annoying (ahem, another bar chick trait).

[Acid]

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Considering I'm not interested in random hookups which will inevitably turn into a disease, pregnancy, or a clingy tramp bitch

That seems like an extreme assumption to make.

[Brandon13]

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That seems like an extreme assumption to make.

Agreed. And all can still very easily apply when you're in a long term relationship.

[Hoos]

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On the other hand, if you meet her online, there's a 97% chance she's a cop. Or a guy.

I voted for a bar, although I'd take OTHER if that was an option. I won't touch online for good reason!!!

I have a friend who has met a handful of women online including his wife...........hmmm, let's see.........there was a girl who looked like she had down syndrome (nothing like her pic), a woman that just screamed "SHEMALE" (he never confirmed that....LOL), a witch (literally) and his wife who I personally think has at least three or four schizo personalities

[TheMatrix31]

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That seems like an extreme assumption to make.

Go to an LA club, lol.

[ex carrabba fan]

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Has to be the bar. You can actually see and talk to the prospect.

1. You can probably smash
2. You can confirm that she's at least a she
3. I don't necessarily buy the "can't meet a keeper at a bar" line.. I mean if I'm at the bar that's saying something. And I consider myself to be pretty upright and suitable.