Wife and I are hurting.

[Scottdau]

Re: Wife and I are hurting.

Congrats man. Sounds almost how it happened for us, we had 2 miscarriages and then weren't trying, got pregnant again, and my son is a healthy 14 months old now.

Good luck and enjoy every moment!

that is awesome!

[stlstudios189]

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We know it's in God's hand and have all the faith in the world it's just still a little scary knowing that it could happen again. I know God will give us only as much as we can handle but, please don't make us go through this again.

Last week at church it was a nice message that felt aimmed at our situation when our pastor said something about God saying "Don't your trust me, look around and see all that I have created, I can and will take care of your needs" I left church renewed and energized and my wife and I are just going to be excited as we can be and doubt or fear take control of us.

[Scottdau]

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That is awesome bro! My friend who had a miscarriage also about 5 month ago. I just found out they are pregnant again and it has been 4 months now. So it looks good. And my best friend I found out they had a miscarriage too, but they are still trying.

[stlstudios189]

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well I thought I would update everyone here. This Monday is the 1 year mark of our loss of Noah. It's going to be a hard day. It is hard bacause we have a new child and we love her so much but she wouldn'tbe here if we didn't lose him. God has big plans for her and Noah stepped aside for her to be great! It's going to take some time to heal as my wife and I are done having children and our only son is in heaven. My wife and I are still together stronger than ever because of this loss 1 year later. I would like to thank you guys as this site was a huge help during that time, you guys are awesome.

[DaveDQ]

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That's great to hear. I wish you and your family the best.

[SPTO]

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That's great to hear that you two are as devoted and strongly tied together as ever. The Lord works in mysterious ways and i'm sure your daughter will live to go on to bigger and greater things.

Good luck in future years my friend.

[GAMEC0CK2002]

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good to hear man. stay strong.

[Scottdau]

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well I thought I would update everyone here. This Monday is the 1 year mark of our loss of Noah. It's going to be a hard day. It is hard bacause we have a new child and we love her so much but she wouldn'tbe here if we didn't lose him. God has big plans for her and Noah stepped aside for her to be great! It's going to take some time to heal as my wife and I are done having children and our only son is in heaven. My wife and I are still together stronger than ever because of this loss 1 year later. I would like to thank you guys as this site was a huge help during that time, you guys are awesome.

That is right, when you go through something like you did and you trust you know who; he makes your marriage stronger. You and your family are in my prayers bro.

[12]

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Hey guys. I don't know why I'm posting this except I'm hurting and just need to get it out. My wife and I were expecting our 3rd child this year and we were both very excited. We already have 2 wonderful daughters and could not wait to see what God had in store for us this time around.

Friday she had some problems and we were in the Hospital for 9 hours. She was told it's an infection and to take it easy.

Saturday I am at work and she is feeling better untill around 5 am.

Sunday I take our 2 girls to the store and she is trying to take a nap and while I'm gone she losses the baby at 18 weeks pregnant. It is the worst day of my life and I can't stop hurting inside. He was a boy and I lost him before I ever got to know him.

I don't know what you guys believe in but, I believe my son is in heaven and I will see him when I get there.

Thanks for letting me get this out guys.

I sent you a PM.

[24]

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I am deeply sorry for the loss of your son. While i may not be a parent there have been a few family members of mine who passed on before i was brought into existence who would i really have liked to meet. I hope your family gets through this tough time and as a firm believer in God I know for a fact that some where down the line he will help you the most in your time of need and desperation.I wish You, Your wife and family the best in this tough time and hope that you will be able to recover.
-James

[JBH3]

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well I thought I would update everyone here. This Monday is the 1 year mark of our loss of Noah. It's going to be a hard day. It is hard bacause we have a new child and we love her so much but she wouldn'tbe here if we didn't lose him. God has big plans for her and Noah stepped aside for her to be great! It's going to take some time to heal as my wife and I are done having children and our only son is in heaven. My wife and I are still together stronger than ever because of this loss 1 year later. I would like to thank you guys as this site was a huge help during that time, you guys are awesome.

Cherish what you have. Glad you and yours have made it through.

[Money99]

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Thoughts and prayers to you and your family stlstudios189.
I can't imagine the emotional roller coaster you've been going through.

God bless you and your family and I'm sure Noah will be looking over you for the rest of this life.

Take care!

[onlybygrace]

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Just prayed for you...

the Lord comforts all who call on Him.

[stlstudios189]

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thank you everyone. Today was the one year mark and my wife and I decided to visit the gravesite. There is a cemetery in Toledo, OH that they bury the remains of miscarried children. It was a good moment sunny, and quiet. My wife and I took our 3 girls out there and that was a big help for everyone involved.