RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

[DC]

At what point should those things be thrown away? I know many women that like keeping "things" (pics, stuffed animals) from past relationships.
Do they continue to keep these things even after they get married?
At what point should they go?

And as the "new dude" is this something that you should address?

[deaduck]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

I think you could go insane trying to figure out what women "should" do.

[CMH]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

My opinion only and if you don't agree that's cool, but you have to be really insecure to even give a crap.

It's a teddy bear. If my future wife kept a teddy bear from a past relationship, oh well to me. She's with me, not with that guy. The Teddy Bear is a part of her past and everyone should have an opportunity to remember it. She's not with the guy and no matter what, she'll also remember why she isn't with him. She's with me and that's what matters at the end.

Now, there are things that I don't think a person should keep. I wouldn't want my future wife to have a picture of her naked ex-boyfriend or something like that. It's not a security deal either, it just feels wrong. I mean, if she has them, then hide them from me. I've done a good job of keeping photos of chicks from the past, but I'm not stupid enough to show them to a new girl or even give her a chance to know where they might be. (also, it's all emailed photos so it's not like I have these pictures in a shoe box or something).

[pfunk880]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

My opinion only and if you don't agree that's cool, but you have to be really insecure to even give a crap.

It's a teddy bear. If my future wife kept a teddy bear from a past relationship, oh well to me. She's with me, not with that guy. The Teddy Bear is a part of her past and everyone should have an opportunity to remember it. She's not with the guy and no matter what, she'll also remember why she isn't with him. She's with me and that's what matters at the end.

Now, there are things that I don't think a person should keep. I wouldn't want my future wife to have a picture of her naked ex-boyfriend or something like that. It's not a security deal either, it just feels wrong. I mean, if she has them, then hide them from me. I've done a good job of keeping photos of chicks from the past, but I'm not stupid enough to show them to a new girl or even give her a chance to know where they might be. (also, it's all emailed photos so it's not like I have these pictures in a shoe box or something).

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[Whitesox]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

:clap:

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It's : appl :

[pfunk880]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

It's : appl :

Dangit, I was fixing it just as you were replying. Too fast for me.

Rookie mistake on my part.

[Whitesox]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

Dangit, I was fixing it just as you were replying. Too fast for me.

Rookie mistake on my part.

I love OS real time.

[buttsakk]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

My opinion only and if you don't agree that's cool, but you have to be really insecure to even give a crap.

It's a teddy bear. If my future wife kept a teddy bear from a past relationship, oh well to me. She's with me, not with that guy. The Teddy Bear is a part of her past and everyone should have an opportunity to remember it. She's not with the guy and no matter what, she'll also remember why she isn't with him. She's with me and that's what matters at the end.

Now, there are things that I don't think a person should keep. I wouldn't want my future wife to have a picture of her naked ex-boyfriend or something like that. It's not a security deal either, it just feels wrong. I mean, if she has them, then hide them from me. I've done a good job of keeping photos of chicks from the past, but I'm not stupid enough to show them to a new girl or even give her a chance to know where they might be. (also, it's all emailed photos so it's not like I have these pictures in a shoe box or something).

Agree 100%

[onlybygrace]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

If she has a teddy bear from a past relationship, it should just be a bear, meaning...

how would you know it was from a past relationship?

Unless she told you?

And if she told you, why would she tell you--if not to test you???

Women.

[JBH3]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

Now, there are things that I don't think a person should keep. I wouldn't want my future wife to have a picture of her naked ex-boyfriend or something like that. It's not a security deal either, it just feels wrong. I mean, if she has them, then hide them from me. I've done a good job of keeping photos of chicks from the past, but I'm not stupid enough to show them to a new girl or even give her a chance to know where they might be. (also, it's all emailed photos so it's not like I have these pictures in a shoe box or something).

I was...

[RAZRr1275]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

My opinion only and if you don't agree that's cool, but you have to be really insecure to even give a crap.

It's a teddy bear. If my future wife kept a teddy bear from a past relationship, oh well to me. She's with me, not with that guy. The Teddy Bear is a part of her past and everyone should have an opportunity to remember it. She's not with the guy and no matter what, she'll also remember why she isn't with him. She's with me and that's what matters at the end.

Now, there are things that I don't think a person should keep. I wouldn't want my future wife to have a picture of her naked ex-boyfriend or something like that. It's not a security deal either, it just feels wrong. I mean, if she has them, then hide them from me. I've done a good job of keeping photos of chicks from the past, but I'm not stupid enough to show them to a new girl or even give her a chance to know where they might be. (also, it's all emailed photos so it's not like I have these pictures in a shoe box or something).

My thoughts exactly.

[CMH]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

I was...

Oh, you stupid, stupid man.

[Whitesox]

Re: RSS Email Question About Keeping "Things" From Past Relationships

I was...

So, your girl found pictures of a previous girl, and then became the epicenter of a nuclear blast? , not gonna let that happen.