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  • wsu_gb23
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    • Feb 2008
    • 1641

    #121
    Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

    Originally posted by ABrooks111
    You think a 4-year old bathing with dad is gonna automatically make him gay or something?

    who knows what it will do. I would not be comfortable being the 4 year old or the dad in this situation.

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    • Trevytrev11
      MVP
      • Nov 2006
      • 3259

      #122
      Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

      Originally posted by wsu_gb23
      I don't think a 4 year old needs to be taking a shower with daddy. That's a little strange. Boys don't need to get used to seeing other boys' junk.
      Yeah, he should grow up and play high school or college sports for that

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      • WWF80sKid
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        • Nov 2008
        • 7095

        #123
        Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

        My son just turned 6 and I still kiss him on the lips. I think it would stop whenever one of us was uncomfortable from it.

        I honestly don't take showers with my kids. I have held my son in the shower and bathed him in there, but that was years ago. Usually I just give both of my kids a bath at the same time.

        But the shower question, I'd say there really isn't an age limit, but probably just like the kissing, once it gets uncomfortable. Once you think you should probably stop, I'd say that's when you stop.

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        • PVarck31
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          • Jan 2003
          • 16869

          #124
          Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

          Originally posted by wsu_gb23
          I don't think a 4 year old needs to be taking a shower with daddy. That's a little strange. Boys don't need to get used to seeing other boys' junk.
          Like he will even remember it. Come on now. Some of you guys,(not just directed at you wsu) need to step back and think about things a little deeper.

          If your 4 year old sees your junk, what exactly is wrong with that? Is that gay to some of you guys? Seems to me there are a LOT of guys on here who are very insecure with their sexuality.

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          • Heelfan71
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            • Jul 2002
            • 19940

            #125
            Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

            Originally posted by kgx2thez
            Why not? Most of us on here are sons and are young enough to remember what they did or didn't do when they grew up?
            because you can not even comprehend the love you have for your kid until you have one yourself. It's real easy to say what you wouldn't do when you don't have any kids.
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            • MC Fatigue
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              • Feb 2006
              • 4150

              #126
              Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

              Originally posted by Heelfan71
              because you can not even comprehend the love you have for your kid until you have one yourself. It's real easy to say what you wouldn't do when you don't have any kids.
              Exactly. Anyone without a child has absolutely NO clue.

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              • TheGreatOne13
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                • Aug 2009
                • 200

                #127
                Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                I got a friend that still kisses his pops and he is 17. And his old man is African American.

                Me Myself dont see know problem with kissing your kids on the lips. You helped make them, If it wasnt for you they wouldnt be here. Its not gay to kiss your son on the lips. I dont understand how people can even think that way.

                Showering is a different story. I would bathe my kids but I wont shower with them. I think thats kinda of weird.

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                • Scottdau
                  Banned
                  • Feb 2003
                  • 32580

                  #128
                  Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                  My thinking is you created this child, they have your genes. They are closer to you than probably anyone in this world. You brothers and sisters have your parents genes which you have too. So that is real close too, but this kid has your genes too and in away I think he is closer to than your brother or sister. I will say this until I die. I will kiss my kids on the lips forehead or cheek as long as they let me. I still kiss my dad every once in while. I also realize he will not be on the earth much longer, so you bet I kiss him when I get the chance. I love him. He created me along with God's help. The older I get the older my dad gets. So I will kiss him as long as he lets me kiss him. If that is weird so be it! I will not stop. And I love when my 1 year old kisses me. Those that don't have kids can't understand the love you have for your children.

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                  • bsb13
                    Banned
                    • Mar 2005
                    • 3439

                    #129
                    Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                    I dont have kids but I remember when I was a really young kid my mother and dad used to kiss me on the lips. I cant really remember when it stopped because its been so long ago. I dont ever remember taking showers with my parents but I did take baths with my twin sister when we were really young. I dont think its a big deal.

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                    • Scottdau
                      Banned
                      • Feb 2003
                      • 32580

                      #130
                      Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                      The shower thing I think it is a little iffy. But kissing I see no problems. Shower I would think about 5 would probably be cut off. Maybe younger. I help my 7 year old shower every night. But he doesn't show with me. And my 7 year is a young 7 year. He looks like he is 5. But I think their should be a cut off age for showing.

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                      • grismosw
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                        • Jul 2002
                        • 2655

                        #131
                        Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                        Originally posted by bsb13
                        I dont have kids but I remember when I was a really young kid my mother and dad used to kiss me on the lips. I cant really remember when it stopped because its been so long ago. I dont ever remember taking showers with my parents but I did take baths with my twin sister when we were really young. I dont think its a big deal.
                        So wait...you didn't grow up thinking it was ok to kiss other men?

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                        • DC
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                          • Oct 2002
                          • 17996

                          #132
                          Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                          Damn @ kissing your fathe ron the mouth @ age 17
                          Concrete evidence/videos please

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                          • Chef Matt
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                            • Apr 2008
                            • 7832

                            #133
                            Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                            Originally posted by ProStylez
                            1. Do you kiss your kids on the lips? If so how old is too old to do that?
                            I have a 4 year old son who I kiss on the lips and he does not even let me kiss him on the cheek because he knows I've kissed him like that since he was a baby. I will not kiss him like that by the time he is 6 I'm sure because it might look wrong. I have a baby girl also and I have no clue if I should be kissing her on the lips when she is his age?

                            2. Do you take showers with your kids? If so how old is too old for that?
                            I take showers with my son from time to time and he tells me I have a big fat we-we although my wife may say something different, LMAO! I don't know if I'd be taking showers with my daughter when she is his age?

                            These are my 2 questions fellas. What do you do?
                            1. Only my 2 year old son. And that's just because he wants a bedtime kiss. I have a 6 year old son and a 15 year old daughter. Both grew outta that quickly. i expect the same with the baby.

                            2. Read number 1. Same thing although my wife showered with my daughter when she was little.
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                            • stlstudios189
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                              • Jan 2009
                              • 2649

                              #134
                              Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                              my oldest daughter turns 3 today and she still wants a goodnight kiss and my youngest daughter is almost 2 and she grabs me and kisses me 18x a day they will both grow out of it after a while and when they do I will stop kissing them on the lips but I will always show them affection.

                              I don't shower w/ my kids but the walk in on me naked all the time ( my bedroom door does not lock) and it usually is not a big deal to me or them. That will change soon I am sure. If I have a boy I assume it will be the same way. Each child is different and usually they will let you know when to stop.
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                              • KG
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                                • Sep 2005
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                                #135
                                Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                                Originally posted by Heelfan71
                                because you can not even comprehend the love you have for your kid until you have one yourself. It's real easy to say what you wouldn't do when you don't have any kids.
                                yeah, which is why I said in the 2nd half of my post;


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