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  • Gotmadskillzson
    Live your life
    • Apr 2008
    • 23442

    #136
    Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

    Kissing kids on the lips is just.........why ??? Why not the forehead ? Cheek ? But hey I'm not going to knock anybody culture. Because I know some cultures where kids 16 and 17 still sleep in the same bedroom with the parents and still take family showers.

    Or I how know some cultures that allow their kids to drink and smoke at the age of 12 Or how they give their 16 year old daughter away to men twice and sometimes 3 times their age for marriage.

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    • DC
      Hall Of Fame
      • Oct 2002
      • 17996

      #137
      Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

      Originally posted by Gotmadskillzson
      Kissing kids on the lips is just.........why ??? Why not the forehead ? Cheek ?
      Been waiting X amount of pages for that answer.

      The most they can come up with is, "Show your child unconditional love."

      As if that is the only way...
      Concrete evidence/videos please

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      • Gotmadskillzson
        Live your life
        • Apr 2008
        • 23442

        #138
        Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

        Yeah whatever happened to a hug, dog pound, fist bump ??? My dad never kissed me, it was always a dog pound or a fist bump. And my mom only kissed me on my cheek and even that stopped at the age of 7, then it was hugs only.

        And we never did the shower thing LOL. My parents would laugh at people who did that and say I know we poor but we ain't that damn poor that we got to shower together.

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        • MC Fatigue
          Banned
          • Feb 2006
          • 4150

          #139
          Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

          Originally posted by DC
          Been waiting X amount of pages for that answer.

          The most they can come up with is, "Show your child unconditional love."

          As if that is the only way...
          Here's the answer - "Why not?".

          If you're grossed out by kissing your child on the lips, then don't do it. But don't judge other people, tell them they're gross for doing so, or try to ask for a specific reason other than "because I want to" - because that's all they need to say.

          Learn to accept that other people do things differently than you, and try not to be an ignorant, arrogant, closed-minded fool about it.

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          • Trevytrev11
            MVP
            • Nov 2006
            • 3259

            #140
            Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

            Originally posted by Gotmadskillzson
            Yeah whatever happened to a hug, dog pound, fist bump ???
            So your saying show your son and daughter the same level affection you show a friend or a teamate?

            Son, I love you as much as I love our centerfielder Bob after he hits a homer! *Fist Bump*
            Last edited by Trevytrev11; 10-22-2009, 01:57 PM.

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            • muggins
              It is now the SW Era
              • May 2003
              • 5379

              #141
              Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

              For a long time when I was young I'd kiss my parents and my grandparents on the lips. No big deal. If it is your son or daughter you can remember that they're built from a part of you. You don't have to keep up appearances in front of them - your kids don't care if you're harder than a junkyard dog.

              re: showering, I can't really tell yet because I don't have kids, but I do remember showering with my parents when I was little. I also remember showering when I was in Boy Scouts after swimming and dude's dads were in there, and it was 'funny', but I survived and I'm a stone cold killa with no emotions and I haven't cried since my last dog died 24 years ago (I killed it with my bare hands).
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              • Gotmadskillzson
                Live your life
                • Apr 2008
                • 23442

                #142
                Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                Originally posted by Trevytrev11
                So your saying show your son and daughter the same level affection you show a friend or a teamate?

                Son, I love you as much as I love our centerfielder Bob after he hits a homer! *Fist Bump*
                Different strokes for different folks. In my opinion some cultures over cuddle their kids and shelter their kids too damn much.

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                • Trevytrev11
                  MVP
                  • Nov 2006
                  • 3259

                  #143
                  Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                  Originally posted by Gotmadskillzson
                  Different strokes for different folks. In my opinion some cultures over cuddle their kids and shelter their kids too damn much.
                  I agree. I just don't question what other people do because it's different than what I do. There's more than one way to do everything include raise a successful child.

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                  • BigTigLSU
                    H*p H*p 4 H*rs*m*n
                    • Sep 2002
                    • 6506

                    #144
                    Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                    I dont see an issue with it girl or boy but as far as my own personal relationship with my son I dont kiss him on the lips... Closest thing to showering with him is givning him a bath after I finished taking a shower never really thought to take a shower "with" him..

                    one thing though I have noticed is that for a while he thought he should give everyone hugs playground school etc and I had to break him out of that I mean you just dont hug everyone lol... I just think you have to be careful because you have so much influence on how that kid will interact with society so showing affection is cool but community/cuturally its different strokes...
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                    • BigTigLSU
                      H*p H*p 4 H*rs*m*n
                      • Sep 2002
                      • 6506

                      #145
                      Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                      Originally posted by DC
                      Damn @ kissing your fathe ron the mouth @ age 17
                      you say mouth as if its open lol
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                      • Gotmadskillzson
                        Live your life
                        • Apr 2008
                        • 23442

                        #146
                        Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                        LOL I got the image of thuggin love in my head from the Boondocks when you said that.

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                        • DC
                          Hall Of Fame
                          • Oct 2002
                          • 17996

                          #147
                          Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                          Nah I say it as if two grown men kissing on the lips is unacceptable. I didn't imagine their mouthes were open
                          Concrete evidence/videos please

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                          • muggins
                            It is now the SW Era
                            • May 2003
                            • 5379

                            #148
                            Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                            What about two midgets kissing on the lips? Or two ladies?
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                            • BigTigLSU
                              H*p H*p 4 H*rs*m*n
                              • Sep 2002
                              • 6506

                              #149
                              Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                              Originally posted by DC
                              Nah I say it as if two grown men kissing on the lips is unacceptable. I didn't imagine their mouthes were open
                              A kiss isnt simply a kiss... there other things that go into it...

                              There is

                              Kissing your momma kiss

                              and

                              then there is the Im kissing the chick im trying make a momma

                              The intentions behind the kiss means more than anything... and like someone said before how you interact when it comes to affection towards your children usually is predicated by how your parents and older family showed affection to you...

                              That being said little wayne pucking his lips to kiss another man on the lips who is not his biological is G@Y and not that there is anything wrong with what you do in the privacy of your homes the Homo-Thug movement needs to stop....
                              RIP Drucilla S Thomas 1952-2008 "Love You Momma"
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                              • BigTigLSU
                                H*p H*p 4 H*rs*m*n
                                • Sep 2002
                                • 6506

                                #150
                                Re: 2 part question for those with kids.

                                Originally posted by muggins
                                What about two midgets kissing on the lips? Or two ladies?
                                "I like women who like women" T.I.
                                RIP Drucilla S Thomas 1952-2008 "Love You Momma"
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