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  • Moses Shuttlesworth
    AB>
    • Aug 2006
    • 9435

    #421
    Re: Wife left me for another man

    Threads like these make me truly realize what great people there are on OS.

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    • rdelizo35
      Rookie
      • Jul 2008
      • 148

      #422
      Re: Wife left me for another man

      Originally posted by longshadow11
      Wow, thanks for asking, guys!
      Life is much better now, but hard. I have primary custody of my girls; my ex pays child support. I sold the big house we had in the country and bought another in a much more convenient neighborhood. My VA loan came through wonderfully. I moved in without paying a dime.

      I'm engaged to a woman who is very sweet. We pushed the date back indefinitely because it has become apparent that I'm not quite ready. I have some anger and pain left over from what my ex did. Speaking of her, she is as mean and crazy as ever...verbally attacked my fiance and absolutely hates me for some reason. She married the dude she ran off with...he can have her. My girls go to their house every other weekend, and I sure don't like that.

      It's shallow, but it's a nice bonus that my fiance has, without a doubt, the hottest body I've ever seen outside of a Victoria's Secret catalog. It's kind of cool to be 43 and with a woman who looks better than any I dated in college.

      Thanks again to everyone here who gave me advice and prayers. Honestly, it's still a struggle at times. 18 years of marriage and family is hard to put to rest. Mostly, I feel awful for my daughters. There was a stretch when they didn't see their mother but a few hours a month, and she continually puts herself and her new husband ahead of them.

      Thanks again, guys! I will never trade or give up The Show '10. I am planning to have the cover framed and hung in my office as a reminder to help others and of the good in people.

      Gary
      Gary,

      I just sort of stumbled across this thread and read your story about what happened with your ex and your family. It literally made my stomach turn with disgust to hear that you went through so much hell and you and your kids were hurt so much. I am grateful though that you made it through and found someone special to share your life with. God bless you, man, and I know that things will continue to be better and better for you as life goes on.

      All the best,

      Ray

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      • Matt Diesel
        MVP
        • Mar 2003
        • 1637

        #423
        Re: Wife left me for another man

        You're a good man. Your ex doesn't deserve you. Keep taking care of your kids and enjoy your hot fiancée. Everything happens for a reason.
        Return of the Mack

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        • Herky
          Working for the weekend
          • Jun 2004
          • 4715

          #424
          Re: Wife left me for another man

          Glad to hear things are looking up for you man.
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          • longshadow11
            Pro
            • Mar 2004
            • 901

            #425
            Re: Wife left me for another man

            Getting married tomorrow! Actually today in about 19 hours. We're having a small wedding at my house.

            Thanks again to all who supported and encouraged me when I was down. I have recovered and am better than ever. I'll never forget you guys getting The Show '10 for me when I was on the verge of food stamps. Wow, life can change in a hurry. My fiance just inherited a small fortune. Life is very good. I have been blessed.

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            • USF11
              C*rr*ntly *n L*f* T*lt
              • Jun 2003
              • 4245

              #426
              Re: Wife left me for another man

              Originally posted by longshadow11
              Getting married tomorrow! Actually today in about 19 hours. We're having a small wedding at my house.

              Thanks again to all who supported and encouraged me when I was down. I have recovered and am better than ever. I'll never forget you guys getting The Show '10 for me when I was on the verge of food stamps. Wow, life can change in a hurry. My fiance just inherited a small fortune. Life is very good. I have been blessed.
              This post just gave me the biggest smile ever.
              "Good music transcends all physical limits, it's more then something you hear, it's something that you feel, when the author, experience, and passion is real" - Murs (And this is for)

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              • Chaos81
                Hall Of Fame
                • Mar 2004
                • 17150

                #427
                Re: Wife left me for another man

                Originally posted by longshadow11
                Getting married tomorrow! Actually today in about 19 hours. We're having a small wedding at my house.

                Thanks again to all who supported and encouraged me when I was down. I have recovered and am better than ever. I'll never forget you guys getting The Show '10 for me when I was on the verge of food stamps. Wow, life can change in a hurry. My fiance just inherited a small fortune. Life is very good. I have been blessed.
                Congrats man!

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                • Flightwhite24
                  Hall Of Fame
                  • Jul 2005
                  • 12094

                  #428
                  Man this is great!!!! Congrats

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                  • LingeringRegime
                    Hall Of Fame
                    • Jun 2007
                    • 17089

                    #429
                    Re: Wife left me for another man

                    Great news! So happy for you and your children!

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                    • ODogg
                      Hall Of Fame
                      • Feb 2003
                      • 37953

                      #430
                      Re: Wife left me for another man

                      Talk about a comeback, great job!!
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                      • TheMatrix31
                        RF
                        • Jul 2002
                        • 52901

                        #431
                        Re: Wife left me for another man

                        Great, great news!

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                        • TheShizNo1
                          Asst 2 the Comm Manager
                          • Mar 2007
                          • 26341

                          #432
                          Don't know what to say except congrats. Glad to see everything work out for you and your family!
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                          • TarHeelMan
                            Th* H*mb*rg*r P*mp
                            • Jul 2002
                            • 7853

                            #433
                            Re: Wife left me for another man

                            Longshadow11 = Comeback Playa of the Year

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                            • SportsTop
                              The Few. The Proud.
                              • Jul 2003
                              • 6716

                              #434
                              Re: Wife left me for another man

                              One of the better stories I've had the pleasure of reading on OS.

                              Congrats man. You deserve all the happiness in the world.
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                              • GAMEC0CK2002
                                Stayin Alive
                                • Aug 2002
                                • 10384

                                #435
                                Re: Wife left me for another man

                                Congrats man.

                                Can I sell the rights to your story to Disney?

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