Mom want to move in with me and my roommates.

[stewaat]

Re: Mom want to move in with me and my roommates.s.

In your situation I'd say no. Then again I'm not the generous type in the first place.

[slickdtc]

Re: Mom want to move in with me and my roommates.s.

She is family, but the way she's treated you the last few years doesn't sound like how a family would treat their own. That's why I don't buy the "She's your mom, you have to help her out" line. And she knows you're probably feeling a bit this way, so she'll likely capitalize on your good nature.

Personally, once she ****ed with my financials, I would've cut her off. It's one thing to be in a fight over some petty stuff, but messing with your credit can seriously wreck you. You gave her a huge break by not pressing charges, now she wants to live with you? The decision to keep her at a distance seems like a no-brainer to me.

I think you should take a look at the big picture here. Put yourself in my shoes, reading this story. It's ridiculous you're even entertaining the thought of letting her live with you with what she's pulled on you so far.

[DocHolliday]

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Damn dude your Mom sound effing crazy. I'm very thankful I have an amazing mother who would do anything for me.

If it came donw to her living in the streets with your brother, or moving in with you, I think you have to take them in. Until then, I would just try to help her get a place and get some mental help.

Does she do drugs, illegal or Pharmys?

[jmood88]

Re: Mom want to move in with me and my roommates.s.

You might need to see if you can at least get your brother.

[ScoobySnax]

Re: Mom want to move in with me and my roommates.s.

You might need to see if you can at least get your brother.

This. Your mom (forgive me) can go **** off. Your little brother doesn't deserve to live a sh*tty life.

[judgejudy]

Re: Mom want to move in with me and my roommates.s.

I think the obvious thing here is to take your little brother in and tell your mom to get her **** together

[yankeesgiants]

Re: Mom want to move in with me and my roommates.

First off report her for the credit stuff. That is a long term thing that could affect your ability to get a job or buy a house. Then you have to try to get your little brother. as for your mom, You cant help somebody that is not willing to help themselves.

[Jukeman]

Re: Mom want to move in with me and my roommates.

yea, your brother is the real victim here

[Greatlookinhair]

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My brother would go to his dad. I love my little brother to death but getting custody would be impossible. His dad would be glad to get full custody the funny thing is he gave her permission to move my brother out of state in wit me. So I think he just wants to get my mom as far away from him as possible. As for my mom, I told her yes that she could come and stay before I posted this. The thought of her moving in with me and saving money would help her pay my credit card fee off made me feel sure about the decision but I am worried she's gonna stick. Im not worried that she is gonna break me and amber apart. I know she's gonna pick fights but Im not worried about my lady walking out on me because of it. Mom told me to think about it for a week.I just need to figure out how I'm gonna tell her that I think she should not come down because at first I told her yes. This will not go well with her.

[bkfount]

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In a perfect world, you should always look out for your mother, but it sounds like she's done too many things and burned too many bridges to have the right to pull any guilt trip on you.

You're both adults, if you don't want her moving in tell her. None of us will really know your situation, and you're even doubting the whole idea of her moving in.