In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes first?

[Hova57]

I just wonder I tend to let stuff build up and then just let her have it. then i usually go back some time later and at least apologize for being loud, but not usually for my comment i made. How about u guys?
For you single guys be realistic. no macho man stuff cuz that stuff don't really exist in a real relationship.

Have at guys

[TheShizNo1]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

I'm an *******. I start things for the amusement sometimes. I apologize w/ a footrub or something like that later.

[Phobia]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

First to start argument = My girl
First to apologize = Me

I think women in general have a niche for being people who like arguments AKA drama

I am much more likely to just fold and put on the "uhhhh huh uhhhh huh.....ok". Tune out and just let it pass.

I also hate drama so I tend to just ignore arguments. She says "You have to be the most easy going, no care in the world person I have ever met". She tells me this all the time.

Like I always tell her. Life is short and I want to spend the vast majority of it living it how I want. Which I want a happy, joyful, life. So i tend to not stress on the bad.

[TheShizNo1]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

First to start argument = My girl
First to apologize = Me

I think women in general have a niche for being people who like arguments AKA drama

I am much more likely to just fold and put on the "uhhhh huh uhhhh huh.....ok". Tune out and just let it pass.

I also hate drama so I tend to just ignore arguments. She says "You have to be the most easy going, no care in the world person I have ever met". She tells me this all the time.

Like I always tell her. Life is short and I want to spend the vast majority of it living it how I want. Which I want a happy, joyful, life. So i tend to not stress on the bad.

My girl HATES this about me. She says I care about nothing.

[Hova57]

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that just seems to be a male trait . i feel like what you feel should be said and that's that. getting upset or constantly nick picking is so annoying . women seem to really great at that along with comparing you to her girlfriends boyfriend or husband. but like the other guys said sometimes its just funny to say sh*t out of your mouth.

if you really want to confuse a woman brung up valid points as many as u can and watch their response. usually it goes something like" Well...Well ......I'm talking about right now" that's usually when you know you got them and they don't want to admit your right or my all time favorite"What ever"

[GAMEC0CK2002]

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I'd say it's about 50/50 on starting stuff. We get into arguments over petty issues--rarely anything serious. I usually wait awhile then end up apologizing for getting mad, but not for what I said. She usually threatens to leave, until I decide to talk it out. Then she'll admit she was part of the blame. Then we make up.

I'm such a black-n-white person, but in a relationship there is always shades of gray. Definitely have to pick and choose your battles.

[jonpt]

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I used to love to argue in relationships when I was younger. Found out over the years that even if your winning the argument, the trump card of crying gets played and you instantly lose. Not much you can do when that happens cause if you continue to argue you are now a d***. So I don't play that game anymore...Actually the only way to win is to not even play the game.

[bgeno]

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When I was dating my ex, it was debatable who started the arguement. I could typically tell that she wasn't happy about something or that something was bothering her, and I hate keeping feelings all pent up, especially knowing that there is a problem, so I'd do what I could do get it out of her and the argument would start.

I typically apologized first, though, only because I knew she was insanely hard-headed and that she'd never see things my way. Plus, I was a pansy and basically let her control me.

Man, things would be so much different if I was in that relationship again. I've learned so much. I would definitely have the easy going, carefree attitude.

[USF11]

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My girl HATES this about me. She says I care about nothing.

My girl says I lack passion cause I wont have a pointless fight with her.

I hate that one.

[slickdtc]

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Pretty similar to what's been posted already. But I will not apologize if it's something I really feel. I can't bring myself to do that.

And the crying is the worst. At the end of the day, I love this girl and to make her cry rips me up. So the waterworks usually end the fight.

I can definitely be ruthless in an argument when I get pushed that far. I tend to let it go the majority of the time, but sometimes you gotta put your foot down. If I'm gonna get into it, I'm gonna let it all out.

[legendkiller5]

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I rarely get into arguments because I just don't care enough and I know 99.9% of the time, I'm right. I haven't nor will ever apologize for anything I say or do. Nor will I be swayed with tears. Same applies with friendships with females. I say what I feel, and imo, if you don't like it, there's probably a reason.

That's (one of the many reasons) why I'm still single and have very, very few female friends.

[Phobia]

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I rarely get into arguments because I just don't care enough and I know 99.9% of the time, I'm right. I haven't nor will ever apologize for anything I say or do. Nor will I be swayed with tears. Same applies with friendships with females. I say what I feel, and imo, if you don't like it, there's probably a reason.

That's (one of the many reasons) why I'm still single and have very, very few female friends.

WOW good luck with that

[no juice]

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First to start argument = My girl
First to apologize = Me

story of my life

[ezekiel55]

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When I was younger, I would fight like cats and dogs with whatever girl I was with at the time.

I'm 28 now, and in my mind, much wiser...In the past 2-3 years I've been in a ton of relationships, and I havent been in a major fight or argument in that time.

Every time a girl tries to escalate a disagreement, or anything for that matter, into a major fight I either tell them peace out or talk to me like an adult.

Usually with younger girls, 21-25, they wont respond well to me tellin them to take a hike...I really dont care, though, because my sanity is much more important than a piece of ***.

TBH, the girls I have told to take a hike are usually callin me and begging to get back with me in a couple weeks.

[TheShizNo1]

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I rarely get into arguments because I just don't care enough and I know 99.9% of the time, I'm right. I haven't nor will ever apologize for anything I say or do. Nor will I be swayed with tears. Same applies with friendships with females. I say what I feel, and imo, if you don't like it, there's probably a reason.

That's (one of the many reasons) why I'm still single and have very, very few female friends.

Either: Young and Dumb or haven't been w/ a woman yet. By that I mean not a girl, but a woman.