In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes first?

[legendkiller5]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

Either: Young and Dumb or haven't been w/ a woman yet. By that I mean not a girl, but a woman.

Young = Correct.

Dumb = Incorrect.

Haven't been w/a woman, not a girl. = Incorrect.

But ok.

[Phobia]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

That's (one of the many reasons) why I'm still single and have very, very few female friends.

You said it yourself man. VERY VERY few. Then like you said, it is one of the "many" reasons. So yet again, how is this working out for you???

[Hova57]

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i understand legend but at some point if she is worth it . you gotta give and take. woman like to express themselves which tend to lead to arguments because men would rather deal and let it go after it has been said. woman tend to think that you have actual feelings attached to what have been said where in reality what you said is how you feel with no real feelings attached. in a nuts shell . men have discussions and women like to debate.

[TheShizNo1]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

i understand legend but at some point if she is worth it . you gotta give and take. woman like to express themselves which tend to lead to arguments because men would rather deal and let it go after it has been said. woman tend to think that you have actual feelings attached to what have been said where in reality what you said is how you feel with no real feelings attached. in a nuts shell . men have discussions and women like to debate.

Bin - ****ing - Go

[TMagic]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

What gets on my nerves is my girl takes small things I say so seriously when we have talks.

I have told her to "chill out" and "relax" before and then she'll go on this whole tangent about how she didn't like that I said that. She makes it seem as if that was meanest thing a person can say.

I'm like, "What the hell, are you serious?"

There are so many worse things that have been said when people are upset.

[ubernoob]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

story of my life

QFT.

[TheShizNo1]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

What gets on my nerves is my girl takes small things I say so seriously when we have talks.

I have told her to "chill out" and "relax" before and then she'll go on this whole tangent about how she didn't like that I said that. She makes it seem as if that was meanest thing a person can say.

I'm like, "What the hell, are you serious?"

There are so many worse things that have been said when people are upset.

"don't tell me what to do!"
"I am calm!"

[legendkiller5]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

i understand legend but at some point if she is worth it . you gotta give and take. woman like to express themselves which tend to lead to arguments because men would rather deal and let it go after it has been said. woman tend to think that you have actual feelings attached to what have been said where in reality what you said is how you feel with no real feelings attached. in a nuts shell . men have discussions and women like to debate.

Nah. If it means I'll never find an umm... 'meaningful' relationship and die alone, so be it. If I do something that I need to apologize for, or if I cause the argument, then I'll man up. Otherwise, I'm going to compromise **** just because she decides to be a ***** to me over something that had nothing to do with me in the first place. Not something you want to hear or like? Keep it movin'.

Men = report, Women = rapport is what your saying (I think).

You said it yourself man. VERY VERY few. Then like you said, it is one of the "many" reasons. So yet again, how is this working out for you???

Forgot to mention: I am single and have very, very few female friends...by choice. I've (intentionally) burnt many bridges in my life.

[Hova57]

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ok as long as that is what you want, but that is mostly how women are now. they like to rant and rave. and to a point men become trophies to their friends. the more your husband do for them they have a friend who husband or boyfriend doesn't do squat for them and they try to compare and arguements ensues,because of what you don't do for them that there friends do for them.

[legendkiller5]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

ok as long as that is what you want, but that is mostly how women are now. they like to rant and rave. and to a point men become trophies to their friends. the more your husband do for them they have a friend who husband or boyfriend doesn't do squat for them and they try to compare and arguements ensues,because of what you don't do for them that there friends do for them.

Haha, I've already told my mom to just expect me to adopt two kids.

[Phobia]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

Nah. If it means I'll never find an umm... 'meaningful' relationship and die alone, so be it. If I do something that I need to apologize for, or if I cause the argument, then I'll man up. Otherwise, I'm going to compromise **** just because she decides to be a ***** to me over something that had nothing to do with me in the first place. Not something you want to hear or like? Keep it movin'.

Men = report, Women = rapport is what your saying (I think).



Forgot to mention: I am single and have very, very few female friends...by choice. I've (intentionally) burnt many bridges in my life.

This is very strange. Because I am sorry, women are by no means perfect. They ALL have issues. Most complain about minor stuff or talk to much during the game. But nothing they do is worth me writing women off and "Burning bridges on purpose". I like getting laid ALOT and I mean ALOT more than me being happy about my pride.

I will forgo my pride and bow down to get my some booty. By no means am I rolling over and letting some women walk on me. But I am not dumb enough to dig myself in a hole with no booty in sight.

Which sounds like you did. Then of all things ON PURPOSE!!! That is just.........WOW to me.

[legendkiller5]

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This is very strange. Because I am sorry, women are by no means perfect. They ALL have issues. Most complain about minor stuff or talk to much during the game. But nothing they do is worth me writing women off and "Burning bridges on purpose". I like getting laid ALOT and I mean ALOT more than me being happy about my pride.

I will forgo my pride and bow down to get my some booty. By no means am I rolling over and letting some women walk on me. But I am not dumb enough to dig myself in a hole with no booty in sight.

Which sounds like you did. Then of all things ON PURPOSE!!! That is just.........WOW to me.

Haha, I hear ya man. My friends give me **** alllllll the time. Girls will try to talk to me (or give me the look that they're interested or want me to talk to them first, which I have never nor will ever do) whether on campus, at a friend's, etc all the time, but I never give them a second look. I just don't care enough.

And that's pretty much what I've done. I know women aren't perfect, but it isn't even worth it to me, period. I am wayyyyy too prideful and no piece of *** is ever going to change that. Trust, I have turned down superbad girls that my friends literally wanted to beat my *** because of it.

Guess how many female contacts I have in my phone (other than the ones I am related to)? Zero. I used to not be like this, but since I got to college, I've changed.

[Hova57]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

This is very strange. Because I am sorry, women are by no means perfect. They ALL have issues. Most complain about minor stuff or talk to much during the game. But nothing they do is worth me writing women off and "Burning bridges on purpose". I like getting laid ALOT and I mean ALOT more than me being happy about my pride.

I will forgo my pride and bow down to get my some booty. By no means am I rolling over and letting some women walk on me. But I am not dumb enough to dig myself in a hole with no booty in sight.

Which sounds like you did. Then of all things ON PURPOSE!!! That is just.........WOW to me.

yo this comment just made me crack up. its so true at times is an argument worth the continuation of taggin something really good.

[Phobia]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

Haha, I hear ya man. My friends give me **** alllllll the time. Girls will try to talk to me (or give me the look that they're interested or want me to talk to them first, which I have never nor will ever do) whether on campus, at a friend's, etc all the time, but I never give them a second look. I just don't care enough.

And that's pretty much what I've done. I know women aren't perfect, but it isn't even worth it to me, period. I am wayyyyy too prideful and no piece of *** is ever going to change that. Trust, I have turned down superbad girls that my friends literally wanted to beat my *** because of it.

Guess how many female contacts I have in my phone (other than the ones I am related to)? Zero. I used to not be like this, but since I got to college, I've changed.

LMAO what ever makes you happy bro is what you should continue doing. I am just saying, booty (aka ya know) makes me really happy

yo this comment just made me crack up. its so true at times is an argument worth the continuation of taggin something really good.

I look at it this way. I am by no means rolling over and letting a girl just walk on me. But I will also let some things slide because women are women. They complain, they feed on drama, they talk alot, they feel alot, and on and on. If we want to further this race and get da booty often as we like. We got to deal with their ways.

Women and men are two completely different species in my eyes. Men and Women are different on many levels. Many of us (unlike legendkiller here) put up and learn to deal with their nuances sooooooooo we can get "it". This is coming from a relationship stand point.

Back in college when I was hooking up with random girls. I did not care so much as if the chick spoke a word of English. "Can you lay on your back?" Check. "Ok, come with me" lol.

[ProjectRipCity]

Re: In your relationship who usually starts arguement and who usually apologizes firs

Women are fire crackers...If you tell them to calm down it's WW3. I try the romantic approach...Flirt fighting sometimes calms things down. If it doesnt...You got a tough cookie.