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  • Coach Bryant
    Roll Tide!
    • May 2003
    • 4372

    #1

    Ex Girlfriend help please!

    I'm pissed. Why in the hell is it awkward being around my ex girlfriend, and why does she act strange when its just me, and her? Whats really funny is that her, and my wife are good friends. She is also married, and we have been broke up for many years now. I'd like to be friends with her because me, and my wife do things with my ex, and her husband. Its like trying to fit a square peg into a round hole when we are around each other, and I pick up a strange vibe which pisses me off. Its been freakin years, and years since we dated! WTF?

    One more thing...I'm happily married, and as far as I know she acts like she is. Why can't we be friends after all these years?
    Last edited by Coach Bryant; 03-21-2010, 08:20 PM.
    ‎"What I would like for every football team to do that we play is to sit there and say, I hate playing against these guys." -Nick Saban
  • GAMEC0CK2002
    Stayin Alive
    • Aug 2002
    • 10384

    #2
    Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

    Any unresolved issues?


    Really don't know what to tell you.

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    • Coach Bryant
      Roll Tide!
      • May 2003
      • 4372

      #3
      Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

      Originally posted by GAMEC0CK2002
      Any unresolved issues?


      Really don't know what to tell you.
      A few years ago words did get a little heated when we were both drunk, and I lost my patience with her because she was acting silly. I didn't cuss her, but I made a very firm command that she stop doing what she was doing, and she acted very childish about it. Other than that I have never done anything to her that I know of except I was the one that broke up with her. It really amuses me that I make her feel uneasy after all these years. She acts like she doesn't want to make eye contact! LOL
      ‎"What I would like for every football team to do that we play is to sit there and say, I hate playing against these guys." -Nick Saban

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      • snepp
        We'll waste him too.
        • Apr 2003
        • 10007

        #4
        Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

        She wants to jump your ****, that's all there is to it.
        Member of The OS Baseball Rocket Scientists Association

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        • Coach Bryant
          Roll Tide!
          • May 2003
          • 4372

          #5
          Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

          Originally posted by snepp
          She wants to jump your ****, that's all there is to it.
          I'm sure thats what it is! LOL
          ‎"What I would like for every football team to do that we play is to sit there and say, I hate playing against these guys." -Nick Saban

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          • Sting
            Banned
            • Nov 2004
            • 3825

            #6
            Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

            That's just weird for you and your wife to be hangin out with your ex and her husband. If you guys are getting into drunk arguments then there's obviously some unresolved issues. That's just weird in the first place. Is finding a different couple to hang out with out of the question?

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            • Coach Bryant
              Roll Tide!
              • May 2003
              • 4372

              #7
              Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

              Originally posted by Sting
              That's just weird for you and your wife to be hangin out with your ex and her husband. If you guys are getting into drunk arguments then there's obviously some unresolved issues. That's just weird in the first place. Is finding a different couple to hang out with out of the question?
              Well her, and my wife have been friends forever. They arrange the meetings, and they talk all the time. We've only had one heated conversation, and that was years ago. I rarely drink now, and not ever with them anymore. I don't like hanging with them, but since my wife enjoys being with one of her best friends I'm forced to do it. I just can't believe that it is still awkward after so many years. I wish things could be cool between us, but I don't think they will ever be. LOL
              Last edited by Coach Bryant; 03-21-2010, 10:02 PM.
              ‎"What I would like for every football team to do that we play is to sit there and say, I hate playing against these guys." -Nick Saban

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              • ScoobySnax
                #faceuary2014
                • Mar 2009
                • 7624

                #8
                Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

                Originally posted by Coach Bryant
                Well her, and my wife have been friends forever. They arrange the meetings, and they talk all the time. We've only had one heated conversation, and that was years ago. I rarely drink now, and not ever with them anymore. I don't like hanging with them, but since my wife enjoys being with one of her best friends I'm forced to do it. I just can't believe that it is still awkward after so many years. I wish things could be cool between us, but I don't think they will ever be. LOL
                I'm assuming that forever means that they knew each other while you and your ex were together. If so, that is pretty weird. Me thinks you guys should find new hang out partners. It's just too much going on imo.
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                • Watson
                  Burrow Club
                  • Jul 2008
                  • 27013

                  #9
                  Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

                  Originally posted by snepp
                  She wants to jump your ****, that's all there is to it.
                  I say PIIHB
                  And may thy spirit live in us, Forever LSU

                  @AdamdotH

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                  • Coach Bryant
                    Roll Tide!
                    • May 2003
                    • 4372

                    #10
                    Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

                    Originally posted by ScoobySnax
                    I'm assuming that forever means that they knew each other while you and your ex were together. If so, that is pretty weird. Me thinks you guys should find new hang out partners. It's just too much going on imo.
                    Thats exactly right. They have been friends since we were kids. I told my wife that I wasn't going to hang anymore. I told her that she could, but I'm done with them. She wasn't too happy about it, but after 14 years if my ex is acting strange around me its never going to get any better.
                    ‎"What I would like for every football team to do that we play is to sit there and say, I hate playing against these guys." -Nick Saban

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                    • Sting
                      Banned
                      • Nov 2004
                      • 3825

                      #11
                      Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

                      Originally posted by Coach Bryant
                      Well her, and my wife have been friends forever. They arrange the meetings, and they talk all the time. We've only had one heated conversation, and that was years ago. I rarely drink now, and not ever with them anymore. I don't like hanging with them, but since my wife enjoys being with one of her best friends I'm forced to do it. I just can't believe that it is still awkward after so many years. I wish things could be cool between us, but I don't think they will ever be. LOL
                      okay I gotcha. If they're good friends then all of you will continue to hang out. Talk to your wife about it, tell her about the tension and the awkwardness.

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                      • Coach Bryant
                        Roll Tide!
                        • May 2003
                        • 4372

                        #12
                        Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

                        Originally posted by Sting
                        okay I gotcha. If they're good friends then all of you will continue to hang out. Talk to your wife about it, tell her about the tension and the awkwardness.
                        I told my wife that I guess I'm going to embrace the tension that I create. I thinks its funny that I make her friend uneasy. Its not like I'm going to attack her, or something when we're alone.
                        ‎"What I would like for every football team to do that we play is to sit there and say, I hate playing against these guys." -Nick Saban

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                        • ryan36
                          7 dirty words...
                          • Feb 2003
                          • 10139

                          #13
                          Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

                          I just would make sure to not be alone w/her

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                          • Coach Bryant
                            Roll Tide!
                            • May 2003
                            • 4372

                            #14
                            Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

                            Originally posted by pitchingcoach36
                            I just would make sure to not be alone w/her
                            Good advice! I love my wife, and don't want to do something crazy, or be accused of it! We are alone for very short periods of time usually in public places.

                            She is very aggressive so I have to be very careful.

                            Seriously we both are very aggressive which may add to the tension between us.
                            Last edited by Coach Bryant; 03-21-2010, 10:55 PM.
                            ‎"What I would like for every football team to do that we play is to sit there and say, I hate playing against these guys." -Nick Saban

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                            • Sportsforever
                              NL MVP
                              • Mar 2005
                              • 20368

                              #15
                              Re: Ex Girlfriend help please!

                              Uhm...if your wife is such good friends with our Ex, I'm sure the "girl talk" with each other. That probably adds quite a bit of awkwardness for your Ex since she probably knows stuff about you that you don't realize she knows.
                              "People ask me what I do in winter when there's no baseball. I'll tell you what I do. I stare out the window and wait for spring." - Rogers Hornsby

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