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  • Nivek
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    • Jul 2002
    • 7999

    #1

    I am shallow...lol

    Since my other thread was closed because of Mena Suvari, I'll give you an update.

    Last weekend was great, we hung out the whole weekend at her place. She definitely grew on me so I'm going to keep her on the roster. She cooked, she's a gamer and she's a great conversationalist. I still think she's not my type, but at this point she's on the roster, so might as well give some playing time.

    I leave her place on Sunday night and get in the elevator...and there's this smoking and I mean SMOKING Persian girl, killer curves, great legs, green eyes and a devilish smile. They've got crappy elevators in the building so I made a comment about it and she went off about how they're been planning on replacing the elevators this summer. I introduced myself and she asked her if I lived in the building. I could have lied, but I since I'm on the honesty tip lately, I told her the truth; I've been here all weekend with this girl. She asked if it was my girlfriend, I told her we met about two weeks ago.

    By this time, we're walking to the mail room and then we subconsciously just walked outside. She lives close to High Park, which is one of the most scenic places in Toronto. We went for a stroll and she was hanging onto my every word. She asked if I liked Jennifer, and once again with me being honest, I mentioned the whole thing about not being attracted to her at first, but her personality is growing on me. Told her we had sex this weekend and it kinda changed things, but I'm still not really sold on her just yet.

    Then she dropped this gem on me..."Well, do you find me attractive?"

    Once again, being honest I told her "the only reason why I said anything about the elevator being crappy was to get your attention." Told her I love girls with a little bit of flavour and she was definitely my type.

    She laughed and said she was hoping I said something in the elevator. Gave her my number and we went out last night. Had a great time with her, but I kinda miss the conversations I had with Jenn. Not to say that Maryam (Persian girl) can't hold her own, but she's not saying anything I already don't know....but at this point, she could be speaking a different language and I wouldn't care. She's absolutely a knockout.

    I'm going to hang out with Jenn tonight and going with the honesty approach, I'm thinking about to telling her what happened. All my friends think I'm an idiot if I say anything, what do ya'll think?

    To my fellas, I will say honesty, really IS the best policy. I mean being absolutely 100% honest...don't withhold any information because you think a girl might think differently of you. I think you WANT to have girl think differently about you.

    Just my .02
    Last edited by Nivek; 05-19-2010, 02:27 PM.
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  • jeremym480
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    • Oct 2008
    • 18198

    #2
    Re: I am shallow...lol

    Dude DO NOT tell her! You can have the best of both worlds between the both of them. Besides it not like you have to be exclusive with either of them... right now. So why not keep things as they are and continue to date both of them?
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    • Nivek
      H*ll *f F*m*
      • Jul 2002
      • 7999

      #3
      Re: I am shallow...lol

      Originally posted by jeremym480
      Dude DO NOT tell her! You can have the best of both worlds between the both of them. Besides it not like you have to be exclusive with either of them... right now. So why not keep things as they are and continue to date both of them?
      THEY LIVE IN THE SAME BUILDING, Jenn is literally one floor above Maryam's. That's too close of a proximity for my liking, especially since I know Jenn has fallen really hard for me.
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      • trobinson97
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        • Oct 2004
        • 16366

        #4
        Re: I am shallow...lol

        Well, you're not really committed to either of them, so you don't owe either any kind of explanation nor do you need to volunteer information like that. At the same time, there's no reason to lie about it IF the subject comes up.

        You're just dating, enjoy it.

        Originally posted by Nivek
        THEY LIVE IN THE SAME BUILDING, Jenn is literally one floor above Maryam's. That's too close of a proximity for my liking, especially since I know Jenn has fallen really hard for me.
        Oh, ok. Yeah that could make for some awkward moments, so you do have a decision to make. I can't help you with that one. I probably still wouldn't volunteer the information unless I got more serious with one of them.

        Originally posted by Nivek
        Since my other thread was closed because of Mena Suvari, I'll give you an update.
        WOW, when did Mena get so fine?
        Last edited by trobinson97; 05-19-2010, 02:45 PM.
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        • Anavar
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          • Feb 2010
          • 209

          #5
          Re: I am shallow...lol

          Just tell Jenn you met someone else. Let her figure it out.

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          • jeremym480
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            • Oct 2008
            • 18198

            #6
            Re: I am shallow...lol

            Originally posted by Nivek
            THEY LIVE IN THE SAME BUILDING, Jenn is literally one floor above Maryam's. That's too close of a proximity for my liking, especially since I know Jenn has fallen really hard for me.
            Yeah I know that's a tough one. But, since Maryam already knows about Jenn then she won't be a problem (hopefully). And if you go out with Maryam just have her meet you out or have her go to your place. At least until you find out which one you prefer.
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            • jake44np
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              • Jul 2002
              • 9563

              #7
              Re: I am shallow...lol

              Your going to lose Jen if you tell her.
              Besides you are changing brother! You met a hot girl that is into you and you are still wanting the not so hot girl??? Like I said you are growing up.
              You cannot tell Jen you met a girl in her building!
              You were there to spend the weekend with her not hook up with hot chicks.
              And how come you dont think Jen is your type???
              Cooks, cleans, video games, smart conversations??? How is she not your type?
              If you dont mind me asking,,,, how was she in the sack??
              Was it good?? Really good?? If it was you need to just ditch the hot girl and give Jen you undivided attention, she may be the one.
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              • dingleberryfinn
                Banned
                • May 2010
                • 1736

                #8
                Re: I am shallow...lol

                Originally posted by Nivek
                THEY LIVE IN THE SAME BUILDING, Jenn is literally one floor above Maryam's. That's too close of a proximity for my liking, especially since I know Jenn has fallen really hard for me.
                sure the whole "they live in the same building" has it's drawbacks but surely you can also see benifits . having said that , my own personal way is even if neither relationship is serious , dating more than one girl at a time is potentially fatal. i would stay with 1st girl because of the conversation but as you have already been out with new girl , dumping new girl is gonna be bad news for you as SHE LIVES IN THE SAME BUILDING . in my professional opinion you are already screwed , you know , genie out of the bottle & all .

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                • Stumbleweed
                  Livin' the dream
                  • Oct 2006
                  • 6279

                  #9
                  Re: I am shallow...lol

                  This is almost like Three's Company... consider my interest piqued ha.
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                  • dingleberryfinn
                    Banned
                    • May 2010
                    • 1736

                    #10
                    Re: I am shallow...lol

                    Originally posted by Stumbleweed
                    This is almost like Three's Company... consider my interest piqued ha.
                    better finish piqueing it ,seems like most threads like these are closed eventually

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                    • sportsdude
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                      • Jul 2002
                      • 5001

                      #11
                      Re: I am shallow...lol

                      I definitely wouldn't go out of my way to tell Jenn about Maryam right now, you don't owe her an explanation. Besides, it's not like you were actively seeking other women, you literally bumped into one in an elevator. If Jen asks for whatever reason, then yeah you can be honest with her. Just know she'll probably flip, especially since you met that girl upon leaving her place after giving her the business.
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                      • dingleberryfinn
                        Banned
                        • May 2010
                        • 1736

                        #12
                        Re: I am shallow...lol

                        if all else fails when jenn catches you , & she will , tell her while you were in the elevator you thought you "were on a break" , surely the ross-rachel excuse can work irl

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                        • mgoblue
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                          • Jul 2002
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                          #13
                          Re: I am shallow...lol

                          Originally posted by Nivek
                          THEY LIVE IN THE SAME BUILDING, Jenn is literally one floor above Maryam's. That's too close of a proximity for my liking, especially since I know Jenn has fallen really hard for me.
                          Yeah, just be careful you don't crush Jenn too hard...if she finds out about Maryam the wrong way that could get ugly
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                          • slickdtc
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                            • Aug 2004
                            • 17125

                            #14
                            Re: I am shallow...lol

                            Hmmm, you say honesty is the best policy then why not try it? I can see where you don't NEED to, but with your unique situation (two girls, one building... lol), it may be best to let her know before she finds out. Even if it was just an innocent night out.
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                            • Nivek
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                              • Jul 2002
                              • 7999

                              #15
                              Re: I am shallow...lol

                              I'm not going to tell her anything at this point. She's coming over to my place and then we're going out for Thai. I really like her, I can't front. There's just something about a women who can genuinely carry a conversation and isn't caught up with stupid TV shows on MTV. I love the debates we have on religion, politics, and life in general. She's also bringing over a few book she recommended...hell, she even still listens to vinyl. VINYL!!!!!!! Who still listens to vinyl these days?

                              That's f'n awesome....but I'm still gonna chop Maryam.
                              Cameras or guns, one of them is gonna shoot me to death.

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