Officially Divorced/Ex Already Remarried

[longshadow11]

Many here have followed the saga of my wife leaving a few months ago. We were officially divorced June 8 and she promptly rushed to the court house and remarried. I don't even know what to think. It sort of makes me feel like 18 years of marriage with her was a complete joke. I think it also shows disregard for how our daughters feel. I guess I should be happy to be rid of a woman who would do something like this. My oldest thinks the guy her mom married is a creep, whereas she thinks the woman I'm seeing is great.

I've been hit with so many emotions that now I'm pretty much numb. It is hard to see the woman who was my wife for so long with a new last name.

Once I learned the divorce was final I began having dreams in which she mocked me. I wonder why I didn't hold up the child support check she has to give me every month? Dream Gary needs to man up.

[ThaShark28_316]

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You have got to be joking...she already remarried? Sounds selfish to me...

[Nivek]

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You're better off, something tells me you're not getting rid of your new woman anytime soon. You've totally upgraded, hopefully she likes your daughters.

[GAMEC0CK2002]

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wow man. just never know when dealing with people...even those "close" to you. sounds like you've moved on to better times though, despite the pain.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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I don't get it..........

She remarried already........

You dating already.....

So hmmm.....what's the problem again ? Seriously......Both of you moved on to other people rather fast.

[ScoobySnax]

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Yeah, it's sems that both of you have "jump offs" (your ex jumped way off though). I don't really think you've given yourself time to breath and collect yourself. I'm not saying sit home and be miserable, but just focus on your girls and the rest will come.

Stay up man.

[MassNole]

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So you were divorced on June 8 and she already remarried? I'd have thought there was a period before the judgment finalized in which you couldn't remarry.

[ODogg]

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You should be happy that she remarried, now you are off the hook for any alimony issues. Plus, chances are she made a huge mistake in a rebound marriage and will pay for it later. I know your emotions say otherwise but for your situation it is logically good all around she remarried so soon.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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I assume June 8th was the finalized date. Since he said officially instead of I filed for divorced.

[longshadow11]

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It's not a rebound marriage for her. She left me for this dude. For a few weeks I tried to get her to come home for the sake of the kids, and to be honest, I missed her. About 3 months in and after a whole lot of crap from her, I decided to move on as best I could. I noticed a pretty woman at work and asked her out. I was hesitant, considering I wasn't officially divorced, but my ex was already living with this jackass, and I was lonely. So I thought, what the heck, my marriage is for sure over.

Rebound relationship for me? Maybe initially I wanted to date because I was lonely and wanted to know I could attract another woman. It turns out that the woman I'm seeing is fantastic. She's smart and is aware that I may be on the rebound, therefore she calls me on any rebound bs behavior she sees. I think any man who was suddenly single and saw her would give her a chance. She is sweet, my girls love her, and she is smokin hot in a bikini. Even in college I didn't date a girl with a body as good as hers. What a huge boost. I was dumped only to end up with a woman who has great moral character and a Victoria's Secret body.

[raidersbball20]

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I think its a good thing for you and that you can do better if she is that selfish to do things like that

[Phobia]

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It's not a rebound marriage for her. She left me for this dude. For a few weeks I tried to get her to come home for the sake of the kids, and to be honest, I missed her. About 3 months in and after a whole lot of crap from her, I decided to move on as best I could. I noticed a pretty woman at work and asked her out. I was hesitant, considering I wasn't officially divorced, but my ex was already living with this jackass, and I was lonely. So I thought, what the heck, my marriage is for sure over.

Rebound relationship for me? Maybe initially I wanted to date because I was lonely and wanted to know I could attract another woman. It turns out that the woman I'm seeing is fantastic. She's smart and is aware that I may be on the rebound, therefore she calls me on any rebound bs behavior she sees. I think any man who was suddenly single and saw her would give her a chance. She is sweet, my girls love her, and she is smokin hot in a bikini. Even in college I didn't date a girl with a body as good as hers. What a huge boost. I was dumped only to end up with a woman who has great moral character and a Victoria's Secret body.

Sounds like you should be giving your ex wife high fives. You got rid of someone not into the relationship and ended up on the good side of it all.

[ProjectRipCity]

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Many here have followed the saga of my wife leaving a few months ago. We were officially divorced June 8 and she promptly rushed to the court house and remarried. I don't even know what to think. It sort of makes me feel like 18 years of marriage with her was a complete joke. I think it also shows disregard for how our daughters feel. I guess I should be happy to be rid of a woman who would do something like this. My oldest thinks the guy her mom married is a creep, whereas she thinks the woman I'm seeing is great.

I've been hit with so many emotions that now I'm pretty much numb. It is hard to see the woman who was my wife for so long with a new last name.

Once I learned the divorce was final I began having dreams in which she mocked me. I wonder why I didn't hold up the child support check she has to give me every month? Dream Gary needs to man up.

Sounds like my mother

My dad is a hard working clean cut nice man and my mom divorced him then my dad moved to Alaska for his high-end job. After a year of having multiple partners my mother finally is marrying this POS who is on welfare and who is about 50lbs over weight who has no sense of being polite or respect (Basically the opposite of my father) oh and btw smokes weed every second of his life

My father still sends her $2000 in alimony when he should only legally give her $1400, because my father still loves my mom. My dad is a better looking man...Works harder...Works hard for his money...And is the father of me and my sister. So my father shares something with you and a lot of men across the world...Women are heartless gutless pieces of crap that unfortunately us men have to deal with. I stay away from falling in love with a girl for these reasons...I got a big heart and I know some girl is just gonna crush it later in my life.

I feel sorry for you and my dad...And men as a sex.

BTW: My dad is in Vegas right now on vacation...With a cocktail waitress that works there...A lot better looking than my mom.

GOOD FOR HIM

[TheShizNo1]

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Women are heartless gutless pieces of crap that unfortunately us men have to deal with. I stay away from falling in love with a girl for these reasons...I got a big heart and I know some girl is just gonna crush it later in my life.

I feel sorry for you and my dad...And men as a sex.

LMAO. Easy there tiger. While women are scandalous, we do our dirt too.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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Everybody has had their heart crushed at least once in their life. It is a part of life. Don't let that scare you from falling in love. Sometimes you have to go through 10 BS women before you can find a good one. But once you do find a good one, it is the bees knees.