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  • Equinox831
    We're Going Farming
    • Sep 2009
    • 2489

    #30616
    Re: Off Topic 2011

    I don't think you have to go in that situation.. It is terrible that she lost her child though, a mother losing a child is always REALLY tough for them. If you have the time, you should probably stop by.
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    • buckeye02
      MVP
      • Jul 2009
      • 4148

      #30617
      Re: Off Topic 2011

      Originally posted by jeremym480
      I'll play.


      Changing the topic to a more serious note....

      What are your guys opinions on going to a co-workers family members funeral/visitation. I think that if you've worked with that co-worker for years and are close with them than you're somewhat obligated to go.

      However, in my current situation we have a 21 year old girl who's been working with us for about 2-3 months and her 3 year old son just passed away. I've never met her son and have barley spoke to her except the occasional "good morning". I also, think that there's a pretty big chance that she won't return to work after all of this. I know everyone hates this kind of stuff but, I don't know if I want to put myself through all of that for someone that I don't even really know. What do you guys think? Am I just be selfish or is this a normal feeling?
      I wouldn't go if i were you. I hate funerals anyway.
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      • Ermolli
        MVP
        • Jul 2009
        • 3315

        #30618
        Re: Off Topic 2011

        Originally posted by SPTO
        Well that's a kick in the balls....It's one thing to fail a test that you think you did good on (this seems to happen more often then one thinks) but to lose your scholarship on top of that? Jeez

        I'm sorry to hear that Ermolli. Might need to drown your sorrows in this:

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        I tried to remove my sadness playing basketball at the club I go but it made me feel worse. I missed every shot, slipped the ball through my hands many times, couldn't catch the ball. So instead of being sad I got angry and left inmediately after the game. Luckly several episodes of How I Met Your Mother made me feel better and now I'll wait for Monday when I can check my exam to see what I did wrong.

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        • jeremym480
          Speak it into existence
          • Oct 2008
          • 18198

          #30619
          Re: Off Topic 2011

          Originally posted by Chrisksaint
          Idk I understand why you don't want to go and I don't think anyone would think any of it if you didn't. In that situation tho being the person I am i'd go, but I'm a sucker for kids and that'd effect me somewhat.
          I'm not a parent but, going to a baby's funeral is really hard from me. It makes me really miss my nieces and nephews. I only get to see them about once a year and I've been thinking about them a lot all week. I've also been thinking about the Mom a lot. She's a really sweet girl and I can't even begin to imagine what's she's been going through. That's another reason I don't know if I want to have kid's. Because if something happened to them I would be completely crushed. It's just a sad situation and part of me thinks I should go but, there's another part that almost feels like we'd be intruding a little bit.
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          • kingkilla56
            Hall Of Fame
            • Jun 2009
            • 19395

            #30620
            Re: Off Topic 2011

            Originally posted by jeremym480
            I'm not a parent but, going to a baby's funeral is really hard from me. It makes me really miss my nieces and nephews. I only get to see them about once a year and I've been thinking about them a lot all week. I've also been thinking about the Mom a lot. She's a really sweet girl and I can't even begin to imagine what's she's been going through. That's another reason I don't know if I want to have kid's. Because if something happened to them I would be completely crushed. It's just a sad situation and part of me thinks I should go but, there's another part that almost feels like we'd be intruding a little bit.
            I think you should go with another or a few other coworkers and show your support for her during her very hard time. Give your condolences stay for 20 minutes a leave.
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            • Chrisksaint
              $$$
              • Apr 2010
              • 19127

              #30621
              Re: Off Topic 2011

              Now I remember why I don't like being home, nothing but my parents yelling at each other.
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              • TracerBullet
                One Last Job
                • Jun 2009
                • 22119

                #30622
                Re: Off Topic 2011

                Hey guys, sup?
                Originally posted by BlueNGold
                I feel weird for liking a post about exposed penises.

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                • Bighoff
                  The Bird is the word
                  • Jul 2002
                  • 5312

                  #30623
                  Re: Off Topic 2011

                  Originally posted by Chrisksaint
                  Now I remember why I don't like being home, nothing but my parents yelling at each other.
                  You want to get them to stop? Tell them you're quitting school and plan on living with them till your 40.
                  I've heard this "patience is a virtue" junk all my life. I'm happy to say I have no virtue, no scruples, and no desire to wait too long for anything. In my humble opinion instant gratification takes too long!

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                  • TheMatrix31
                    RF
                    • Jul 2002
                    • 52902

                    #30624
                    Re: Off Topic 2011

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                    • Chaos81
                      Hall Of Fame
                      • Mar 2004
                      • 17150

                      #30625
                      Re: Off Topic 2011

                      Originally posted by Bighoff
                      You want to get them to stop? Tell them you're quitting school and plan on living with them till your 40.
                      And record it while you're at it.

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                      • TracerBullet
                        One Last Job
                        • Jun 2009
                        • 22119

                        #30626
                        Re: Off Topic 2011

                        Originally posted by Chaos81
                        And record it while you're at it.
                        And be sure to post it here.
                        Originally posted by BlueNGold
                        I feel weird for liking a post about exposed penises.

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                        • The GIGGAS
                          Timbers - Jags - Hokies
                          • Mar 2003
                          • 28474

                          #30627
                          Greattings from Seattle. I'm so tired, you guys. So so tired.
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                          • Chaos81
                            Hall Of Fame
                            • Mar 2004
                            • 17150

                            #30628
                            Re: Off Topic 2011

                            Originally posted by The GIGGAS
                            Greattings from Seattle. I'm so tired, you guys. So so tired.
                            Get any sleep on the plane?

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                            • Fresh Tendrils
                              Strike Hard and Fade Away
                              • Jul 2002
                              • 36131

                              #30629
                              Re: Off Topic 2011

                              Originally posted by The GIGGAS
                              Greattings from Seattle. I'm so tired, you guys. So so tired.
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                              • Chef Matt
                                True.
                                • Apr 2008
                                • 7832

                                #30630
                                Re: Off Topic 2011

                                Originally posted by Fresh Tendrils
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