Off Topic 2011

[Bellsprout]

Re: Off Topic 2011

Listen, I'm not making light of the struggles of being a teenage mom, but there has to be some responsibility take place. When you make a mistake and get pregnant, it's your' responsibility to suck it up and do the best you can for the future of your kid. The one time I watched that **** (with an ex girlfriend) it consisted of a bunch of whiny *** girls who had always had **** handed to them and made easy for them. I even saw the scene where one of them kicks the other out of the car, but there just happens to be a camera crew there filming the whole *** **** thing and you feel sorry for the girl ? It's set up and she's making a profit. She doesn't have the financial worry that most teenage moms have and you guys still feel sorry because she can't afford some nice two-story house for her, her boyfriend, and her kid.. some of them girls just need to realize what's really important.. and it's not having a two story ****ing house at the age of 16. Also, please don't preach at me about having kids. My mother got pregnant with my sister when she was 15 and had her when she was 16.. before she was 19 she had me too.. and she sucked it up and dealt with it, without the help of MTV or any of their money.. she worked and she took care of us... you're not the first to preach at me about having kids at an early age.



I had to break it down into a few responses.. lol.

I bet that response shut them up because it was so long they didn't read it.

[TheShizNo1]

I'm gonna create another account so I can always "like" my post.

[BurghFan]

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I'm gonna create another account so I can always "like" my post.

I don't think banned members can like posts.

[NDAlum]

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I lol'd

[canes21]

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Being a professional crastinator is fun, but I need to stop being one. I have yet to miss a day of school, yet I have so much crap missing that it's ridiculous and it is all due by Thursday.

Senioritis, screw you.

[mKoz26]

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Listen, I'm not making light of the struggles of being a teenage mom, but there has to be some responsibility take place. When you make a mistake and get pregnant, it's your' responsibility to suck it up and do the best you can for the future of your kid. The one time I watched that **** (with an ex girlfriend) it consisted of a bunch of whiny *** girls who had always had **** handed to them and made easy for them. I even saw the scene where one of them kicks the other out of the car, but there just happens to be a camera crew there filming the whole *** **** thing and you feel sorry for the girl ? It's set up and she's making a profit. She doesn't have the financial worry that most teenage moms have and you guys still feel sorry because she can't afford some nice two-story house for her, her boyfriend, and her kid.. some of them girls just need to realize what's really important.. and it's not having a two story ****ing house at the age of 16. Also, please don't preach at me about having kids. My mother got pregnant with my sister when she was 15 and had her when she was 16.. before she was 19 she had me too.. and she sucked it up and dealt with it, without the help of MTV or any of their money.. she worked and she took care of us... you're not the first to preach at me about having kids at an early age.

That was too long for me to read, thus I won't be responding to it.

[AUChase]

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That was too long for me to read, thus I won't be responding to it.

Doesn't matter.. I only posted it because Buckeye asked.. doesn't really pertain to anything in here.

[TracerBullet]

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Being a professional crastinator is fun, but I need to stop being one. I have yet to miss a day of school, yet I have so much crap missing that it's ridiculous and it is all due by Thursday.

Senioritis, screw you.

Sounds like an amateur to me.

[dan_457]

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So I'm eating this Velveeta Cheesy skillet stuff(It's basically high class hamburger helper). And every bite taste's like I'm eating a Mcdouble, but without pickles and Onions. Not sure if awesome, or not.

[Mo]

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A certain Lifetime movie has made me a #Teamhaydenpanettiere believer

[Bellsprout]

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A certain Lifetime movie has made me a #Teamhaydenpanettiere believer

I'll never forgive you for making me watch Lifetime for some other reason than #HIMYM reruns.

[TracerBullet]

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[Beantown]

#TeamGirlA might, actually be a legitimate option, however I won't get my hopes up until I see how Thursday night goes for her. Y'all should be praying for me though, because if I pull this off there's hope for anyone and everyone.

[C the Lyte]

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Where are the videos of these plays when they fail? I mean, people gotta start catching on to this sooner or later, right?

[slickdtc]

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So had a big blowout with the now-ex yesterday. I told her to come get her **** because it was good time for me. She came over and put on her act like everything was fine while I was just kind of numb. But she acted like it was all good, petting the dog and jumping into my bed to give my cat a bunch of love. While I'm just sitting there and thinking back over the past 5 years and how I'd jump into bed with her, but now I can't.

Eventually we got to talking... and that's when things went downhill (uphill?). Fed a bunch of bull**** that I've already heard, I basically told her she was the one who was walking away and who was giving up and she tried to pin so much blame on me so things got heated after that. So she's storming out with the last of her ****, she drops some of it, she goes out the front door, so I pick up the 2 remaining items and chuck 'em out the front door and slam and lock that **** as she's looking back with that puppy dog look in her eyes.

****. That. ****.

I needed that. I needed to stop lying down for her and stand up for myself. I had taken all the heat for this and it wasn't fair to me. I wasn't going to be able to get better without getting it off my chest.

My boy (was gonna be my best man in the wedding) comes over later and says she was over his house the other day (she was best friends with his sister in high school) and that she came up to him and was like, "Take him out and get him real drunk, because he's not alright right now." My boy is like "No ****, you guys were supposed to get married. Look at you, you're shaking just talking about it. He's fine but he's not okay with it all at all."

We're further apart then we've ever been and it feels good. I'm letting her go as much as my heart hurts for it, because it's the only way. She continues to keep cutting me up by leaving the door open for a chance to get back together but it could "take weeks, months, or years." Well sorry to tell ya darling, but I ain't waiting for YOU to make up YOUR mind. My mind was made up when I said I love you and put that ****ing ring on your finger, and she threw it away just like that. So I'm free of any obligations to you and I'm not waiting on you. I'm going to do what I gotta do, and if something better comes along (believe me I'm not looking but I'm also not closing my eyes) then so be it. I almost want it to happen so she can see me be happy with someone else and have her put on her "I'm happy for you" face when she's really completely black inside that that could have been her. But that's all just selfish thoughts... ha.

It's me time. I've got my 3 brothers and my Dad, and a really good circle of friends and people who got my back. I put up with so much with her that you do for someone because you love them, but I did not get the same courtesy back. The things I put up with or accepted are things you don't get a pat on the back for, things you don't speak of (that's not my style anyway) so I never could or wanted to beat my chest. But now that it's over, I'm going to tell people like it was so while all the material **** I wasn't always the best at, but as an emotional and mental rock, I was the best of the best. My love isn't doled out easily and when it is it is the strongest thing out there. She'll figure that one out by herself when her family is driving her crazy with their bipolar moods, her real Dad shows up out of nowhere to harrass her, or her sex-addict brother comes back around. When there's no one in this world for her to turn to, she'll remember how much I meant to her.