ODogg's Love Life Thread

[GAMEC0CK2002]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

If ur girl is going to cheat, it doesn't matter if you are around or not. That's my point. If ur girl is unhappy and looking for something else, it doesn't matter if you follow her around 24/7 she's gonna find a way to cheat. Same with guys.

Agreed, but you are looking at the extreme situations (somebody that's already made up their mind to act shady). Reasonable average people aren't/shouldn't repeatedly put themselves in situations where the temptation to stray is high.

[DickDalewood]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

Here is what you said:

"Yah... once you're married or in a serious relationship there really isn't an appropriate situation where one should be hanging out with the opposite sex one on one "as friends". "

There are plenty of situations where someone can hang out with a member of the opposite sex one on one without your significant other.

No offense but that "I trust my girl but not that dude" line is BS. I hear it all the time. Your girl is in control of the situation. The way I look at it is if the guy steps over the line, makes a move and disrespects your relationship..then its her responsibility to cut that friend off. If he makes a move and she reciprocates...then that dude just did you a favor because your girl was going to cheat on you eventually.

My rule is simple: I just want to meet your friend once. My girl's friends (male or female) dont have to be my friends and vice versa. I respect the fact that my girl can have a straight guy friend and not want to sleep with him. My friends that are girls know and respect my girlfriend so I dont have to worry about that with me. I assume that its the same with my girl but what eliminates the worry for me is that I trust that if my girl is at lunch, dinner or at a bar getting drinks with a guy friend of hers...she isnt going to **** the guy.

If I ever get to a point when I dont have that level of trust then we will break up.

Again, I'm not worried that she'll do anything, even if he does try something, but I don't think that situation should be presenting itself to begin with. Once you're engaged, married, whatever, it's just not appropriate. If you want to hang out with a guy or girl by yourself, that's what your significant other is for.

And I brought this up with my fiancée as well, and she agreed. I never have been worried and never will be that she'll cheat, and neither is she that I will, it's simply a matter of being inappropriate. I've got plenty of dude friends and she's got plenty of girl friends she can hang out with, but if I want someone that's a girl to come over and chill, or go to a movie, or go out to eat, that's going to be with her. I don't need another female companion filling that role. Not appropriate.

[ODogg]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

Shes not preggers guys, period was just late....

[IndianBird]

Shes not preggers guys, period was just late....

Hahahaha

This thread has been great

[Scottdau]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

Shes not preggers guys, period was just late....

Good? Or Bad? Either way congrats?

[Dog]

Damn, I really wanted to see dread-baby

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[l3ulvl]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

Congrats ODogg!

[BlueNGold]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

Shes not preggers guys, period was just late....

Good riddance. That $60 wasn't going to diapers and bottles, that **** is going towards NCAA!

NO BABIES EQUALS PEACE!

[Rawdeal28]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

Couldnt disagree more. I'm in a serious relationship and both my GF and me have friends of the opposite sex. My girl has met my friends and I've met her friends. There is a line (I'm not going to go on romantic dinners or sleep over my friends houses) but these people are friends I've had for years and before I met my girl. I think you are a ****ty person if you desert your friends (man or woman) just because you are in a relationship.

Look, if other men are always going to want to **** your girl if she is attractive but I'm not concerned about that. What I'm concerned about is that my GF isnt going to cheat on me and if I really trust her...that isnt going to be a concern.

Here is what you said:

"Yah... once you're married or in a serious relationship there really isn't an appropriate situation where one should be hanging out with the opposite sex one on one "as friends". "

There are plenty of situations where someone can hang out with a member of the opposite sex one on one without your significant other.

No offense but that "I trust my girl but not that dude" line is BS. I hear it all the time. Your girl is in control of the situation. The way I look at it is if the guy steps over the line, makes a move and disrespects your relationship..then its her responsibility to cut that friend off. If he makes a move and she reciprocates...then that dude just did you a favor because your girl was going to cheat on you eventually.

My rule is simple: I just want to meet your friend once. My girl's friends (male or female) dont have to be my friends and vice versa. I respect the fact that my girl can have a straight guy friend and not want to sleep with him. My friends that are girls know and respect my girlfriend so I dont have to worry about that with me. I assume that its the same with my girl but what eliminates the worry for me is that I trust that if my girl is at lunch, dinner or at a bar getting drinks with a guy friend of hers...she isnt going to **** the guy.

If I ever get to a point when I dont have that level of trust then we will break up.

i defenitely dont agree and hopefully u wont have to learn the hard way.

[NDAlum]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

Odogg,

Run.

Love,
NDAlum

[GAMEC0CK2002]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

Congrats? Lesson to be learned: Don't go skydiving without your parachute.

[Heelfan71]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

If she does get pregnant, I would worry. As far as women and not getting your way, get used to it. I think you are in love with the idea of getting married, or you don't want to be alone. Trust me, it's better to be alone than in a crap relationship.

[Brandwin]

Shes not preggers guys, period was just late....

Did she get the test results back yet? I'm pretty sure just because her period started doesn't mean she can't be pregnant.

[aholbert32]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

i defenitely dont agree and hopefully u wont have to learn the hard way.

Nah, I'd rather actually trust someone than waste my time being paranoid about something I cant completely control. You guys actually think that if your girl wants to cheat, she's not going to because you dont let her hang out with guy friends? Really?

[DickDalewood]

Re: ODogg's Love Life Thread

Nah, I'd rather actually trust someone than waste my time being paranoid about something I cant completely control. You guys actually think that if your girl wants to cheat, she's not going to because you dont let her hang out with guy friends? Really?

Lol, dude, I'm engaged to a girl I've dated for four years. Three of those years were long distance, not to mention the pure fact that she's attractive... please don't preach about trust. Outside of a military relationship, there isn't a couple out there that has had to build their foundation solely on trust more than my fiancée and I have.

Like I've already said, it has nothing to do with cheating, at least for me, it's simply a matter of it not being appropriate. If you want to let your chic hang out solo with other dudes, and she's ok with you doing the same thing with girls, then knock yourself out. But, don't use the attitude that you trust each other more. Some of us are simply of the mindset that if we want a close relationship of the opposite sex, that's what our significant others are for.