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  • z Revis
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    • Oct 2008
    • 13639

    #1

    I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

    I knew this day would come. I just didn't expect it now, and so abruptly. Our 12 year old Basset Hound is on her way to the vet to be put to sleep after being diagnosed with Lymphoma(cancer) last Saturday.

    It all started last week when one of her eyes had swollen up. She could barely see through it. The next day, both of them were like that. My mom took her in and the vet said all of her lymph nodes were swollen, the size of lemons. He was worried about Lymphoma and called us over the weekend to confirm it was what he thought.

    She's been getting worse and worse everyday. Honestly, she acted relatively normal the first day her eye was swollen. We thought maybe just an infection. But as the days went on, she stopped eating her food. She stopped asking to go outside. She wasn't waiting for us at the door when we came home. She wasn't in the kitchen hounding for food when my mom is making dinner. And this morning she could barely move to go potty outside.

    My parents made the decision to put her to sleep. I tried arguing treatment, but there wasn't much available and it would've only prolonged her suffering. It's unbelievably tragic. I'm having an incredibly difficult time just typing this. She was a perfect dog. I couldn't have asked for anyone better. 12 years is a long time and I was blessed every second she was here, and I know she lived a great life. It's just not fair, though. She didn't deserve to go out like this.

    RIP Baylee

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  • areobee401
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    • Apr 2006
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    #2
    Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

    Sorry to hear that man. Pets become apart of the family and its never easy to lose one. Hang in there bro.
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    • RockinDaMike
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      • Feb 2003
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      Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

      I'm sorry Revis, I had to put my dog down last year because of heart cancer and she was only 5 years old. At least you can take your time to share your goodbyes with her. It was really rough and too soon, it was so hard to accept, she was still a puppy to me. But I know she is in a better place, playing like a puppy with my grandpa. She suffered for a month, didn't know what was happening then had to make the decsion, couldn't stand to have her be in pain because I wanted her to be alive so bad.

      What has helped me is that my beliefs is that she is happy/painfree and I will see her again when its my time.

      Right now my sister is facing the same decision now for our oldest dog, she's made it a long while and she's 16 going on 17 now. She can barely get up on her legs and she's been suffering quite a bit lately. She hates the idea of putting her down, but I tell her she will now be happy and she will be with our grandpa on the other side.

      I hope the best for you man...take care.
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      • 8
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        • Mar 2010
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        Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

        My heart goes out to you brother. I had to put my 9 yr old golden retriever down two weeks ago because of cancer. One day she was fine and the next she was very lathargic and wouldn't eat. Let me just tell you, I don't cry (not even when my daughter was born) but I'm not afraid to admit when we went back to see her before they put her to sleep to say goodbye my eyes opened up like waterfalls. It does get better with time though I'll tell you that. You'll never forget all the good memories and in the end that's what matters.
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        • Happy29
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          • Jan 2006
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          #5
          Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

          Sorry to hear this I have my dog for 11 years. When I went through my divorce from my first wife i believe she helped me get through it a lot easier just know she was depending on me. I can only imagine how hard it will be when the day comes for me to let her go. I know the time is getting closer now. So my heart goes out to you my friend i hope you can get through this well.
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          • Nature_Boy
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            • Jun 2003
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            #6
            Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

            Sorry to hear about this. It's always sad when a person loses a longtime pet.

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            • Blaze125
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              • Dec 2005
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              #7
              Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

              Sorry to hear that It's one of the hardest decisions to make, but she's not suffering now and is in a better place.

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              • Knight165
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                • Feb 2003
                • 24964

                #8
                Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

                It's the worst feeling.
                z Revis....you and your family did the right thing. I tried everything before putting my girl Smokey to sleep last year and the last week was a horror. Worse....the obvious need to end it happened in the middle of the night and we wound up having to go to an emergency vet...a place she barely knew and they barely knew her.

                I made a promise never to do that to my pets again. It's still one of the hardest things you'll have to do....but it's better.

                I'm sorry for your loss...it's going to be rough...just hang tight.

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                • Jr.
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                  • Feb 2003
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                  Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

                  Sorry to hear Revis. At least you've been able to be with her. I've had 2 dogs die, the first I picked out from the pound when I was 5 and was the dog I grew up with as a child. He was put to sleep after 13 years and it was really tough, but I got a chance to say my goodbyes and spend his last moments with him.

                  My last dog, and my favorite dog, passed away about 3 months ago. Unfortunately, I was not around as I live across the country from my parents now. I got a call from my dad who told me he passed away in his sleep. It made it tougher for me that I didn't get to say goodbye, and I still haven't been home without him there. I'm going back in August and I'm sure the flood of emotions will hit me again as I go into the house for the first time in 12 years without him there to greet me.

                  Remember the good times and know that she was happy that you were there for her during her last days. RIP
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                  • GAMEC0CK2002
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                    • Aug 2002
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                    #10
                    Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

                    sorry to hear that man. pets, dogs especially, become members of the family.

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                    • TheMatrix31
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                      • Jul 2002
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                      #11
                      I knew I shouldn't have clicked on the thread when I saw the title. Absolutely heartbreaking. Sorry to hear this.

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                      • FlyingFinn
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                        • Jul 2002
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                        Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

                        Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

                        When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
                        All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor. Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

                        They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

                        You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

                        Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

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                        • z Revis
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                          • Oct 2008
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                          #13
                          Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

                          Thanks for all the comments and support guys. I really do appreciate it. It absolutely sucks losing a pet, and I'm sorry to those who have. I just got home from work and.. well.. she's not here. For the first time in 12 and a half years. Such an empty feeling in this house now. I definitely need to get out of the house this weekend. So depressing here now.
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                          • PVarck31
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                            • Jan 2003
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                            #14
                            Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

                            Just wanted to say we are here for you man. We put down our yorkie a few months ago and that was excruciating. Just know that so many others share in your grief. With time, the sadness will turn into great memories.

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                            • davep
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                              • May 2003
                              • 892

                              #15
                              Re: I just said goodbye to my dog of 12 years

                              I'm very sorry to hear that.

                              I just found out today that my cat has cancer and don't know how much time he has left, I can definitely empathize.

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