Off Topic 2012

[Fresh Tendrils]

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What a ******* ****ty ****ing day today was. **** people man. I'm just....ugh.

Wal-Mart problems?

Or vagina problems?

[BlueNGold]

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Wal-Mart problems?

Or vagina problems?

They're one in the same. One in the ****ing same man.

[Fresh Tendrils]

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They're one in the same. One in the ****ing same man.

Story-time.

I like how you've replaced Beantown from last year.

I've come to the conclusion I need more male friends. All my friends are freaking home bodies. I don't really like going out to bars and things like that solo. Especially if I'm trying to prove something.

[C the Lyte]

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2 days later and Pizza Rolls are still a topic of conversation in here?

Of all the potentially controversial topics that could be discussed, it's pizza rolls. Good stuff.

[Candyman5]

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Can someone please tell me how to set gifs as Avatars? I cant even figure out how to post gifs...... I want the gif below as my Avy. Still dont know how this was a flag. BTW I copied and pasted the gif below so technically I cheated.

Even if you were to shrink the physical size of that gif, it's far too long and would be over the 97.7kb filesize limit.

Anyone here able to shorten it and resize for me?

[BlueNGold]

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Story-time.

I like how you've replaced Beantown from last year.

I've come to the conclusion I need more male friends. All my friends are freaking home bodies. I don't really like going out to bars and things like that solo. Especially if I'm trying to prove something.

I wanted to wait until I was a lot less pissed off but whatever...

So, this is a continuation of that same baby mama drama I've posted about earlier. I'm just going straight stream of consciousness right now so bear with me as this might be all over the place.

Basically, things were going well and were progressing. I thought I had a legitimate chance of something - anything, really. Tuesday was my first night back at work after my weekend and I'd honestly been missing this girl a majority of that weekend. It was hard to get thoughts of her out of my head, as lame or whatever as that might sound. I was just that into her.

Oh, and I should also mention something else. Saturday night/Sunday morning (my Friday basically), I walked her home and she couldn't keep her hands off me and just seemed really happy to be with me at that moment. At one point she even says something like "So when are we going out?" (Is that something a girl that isn't interested in a relationship would say? Don't answer that...). I drop her off and she gives me a long and drawn out hug and that was that.

Back to Tuesday, we're on the bus and things are the same as usual. Then I say three stupid little ****ing words that inexplicably changed everything. I told her "I missed you" and suddenly she becomes a complete shell of herself the rest of the way home. Almost completely silent, covering her face, staring out the window and not even talking to me. There were times where she would just stop and stare at me and I'd look back and she'd just smile or giggle and one of the few words she did say was "You're making me shy". So I'm kinda confused but thinking "Okay, she was into that but maybe just wasn't expecting me to be upfront like that?" I don't know.

Also, keep in mind too that pretty much every one of my weekends since we started seriously talking she would constantly send me messages of how she missed me and all that. I never said it back because I didn't want to simp and at one point she tried to flip that on me like "Oh, I miss you but you don't miss me?".

Anyways, last night I'm getting ready for work. Earlier in the morning I sent her a message saying "You're such a confusing girl" because like I posted about weeks ago, there were mixed signals galore. Then I'm in the bathroom just about to leave and I see on my iPod I have a message. And it's her. I read it and it says "I just don't want you to wait or expect anything from me...sorry". Needless to say it wasn't the greatest ****ing trip to work after that.

I see her when I get there and she doesn't say anything to me. Admittedly I was a little pissed but I didn't want to be a prick or anything so I just go about my ****. I run into her again and I make some joke and things seem to be fine. The rest of the night is as usual, with one exception. About an hour before we're off she tells me "Hey, my dad is giving me a ride home so don't wait up for me". Cool, that's fine. We're finishing up our work (she works in the back room and I was helping out like I usually do because most nights I'm finished my department early) and it's just about 7:00. I'm headed to the back to put my pallet jack away and then head home when I see her up ahead and she's talking with this one guy that's on the renovation crew (our Wal-Mart is turning into a SuperCentre or whatever). I don't think anything of it until I get into the back and he says -- honestly I can't even remember exactly what it was but let's just say she lied to me and that guy is apparently playing the part of daddy, in more ways than one I'm guessing.

And just to top it all off, what's it like when I walk outside? Pitch black, freezing cold, and pouring rain. And I forgot to bring a jacket. So that was just an awesome icing on the cake.

I honestly don't know how I made it through that bus ride home without smashing a window or something because I was -- and still am -- ****ing pissed.

I can't even remember the last time I was this upset and it ****ing sucks. **** happens and I'm gonna have to get over it, and it's partially my fault for being so stupid and gullible, and I know she said "I don't want you to wait or expect anything from me" but that's just ****ing bull**** because she was completely leading me on and I got ****ing played. Hard.

[TheMatrix31]

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Chicks dude. Chicks.

[Fresh Tendrils]

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Never tell her you miss her. Especially if you two aren't dating yet. Live and learn man, but that sucks. In the end if she's into you it won't matter.

I think you're being way too hard on yourself. She is obviously interested. Or was. I think the guy is a ploy. And if he isn't then you're better off anyway. The important part is to not do anything rash or say anything to this chick until the next time you see her and then reassess the situation. If you're still picking up vibes from her then just ask her out and be done with it. No use in beating around the bush anymore.



Now, if only I could give myself such sound advice lol.

[BlueNGold]

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Chicks dude. Chicks.

Pretty much. You think "Oh, this girl is different. She wouldn't do something like that" and then......yeah.

[BlueNGold]

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Never tell her you miss her. Especially if you two aren't dating yet. Live and learn man, but that sucks. In the end if she's into you it won't matter.

I think you're being way too hard on yourself. She is obviously interested. Or was. I think the guy is a ploy. And if he isn't then you're better off anyway. The important part is to not do anything rash or say anything to this chick until the next time you see her and then reassess the situation. If you're still picking up vibes from her then just ask her out and be done with it. No use in beating around the bush anymore.



Now, if only I could give myself such sound advice lol.

I REALLY could have used this advice an hour ago. **** **** ****.

Here's the thing: how would it be a ploy when she told me one thing that was completely opposite of the truth AND she wasn't planning on me being there when that dude told her he'd be waiting to pick her up outside? It's not like she was intentionally waving that situation in front of my face. She was essentially going behind my back to do other **** and didn't want me to know.

[areobee401]

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She did you a favor. You're too young to be involved in a relationship with someone who has a child.

[Dog]

Matrix, I'm gonna try to spoiler this one but I'm not sure if it'll work

Not pizza rolls but still funny

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[BlueNGold]

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She did you a favor. You're too young to be involved in a relationship with someone who has a child.

Maybe she did. But the problem is I was catching feelings. I'd be a little annoyed or whatever if it was just another girl, but this girl being in this particular situation honestly ****ing sucks.

In the end, whatever. I'm sure I'll be better off for this and this will be a good learning experience for me and whatever, but every guy knows what something like this is like. It sucks.

And god am I going to dread looking back at these posts in the future. **** me, man.

[areobee401]

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Maybe she did. But the problem is I was catching feelings. I'd be a little annoyed or whatever if it was just another girl, but this girl being in this particular situation honestly ****ing sucks.

In the end, whatever. I'm sure I'll be better off for this and this will be a good learning experience for me and whatever, but every guy knows what something like this is like. It sucks.

And god am I going to dread looking back at these posts in the future. **** me, man.

It happens. Most of us have caught feelings for the wrong girl after telling ourselves we wouldn't. Sure, right now it stings a little, but you'll bounce back and realize that this is a blessing in disguise.

Be happy this happened now rather than later on when you thought the two of you were serious.

[baumy300]

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Pretty much. You think "Oh, this girl is different. She wouldn't do something like that" and then......yeah.

One thing you have going for you is living in Winnipeg.

I obviously can't speak for the whole city, but when I was there for a few days last year I noticed more beautiful women around me than anywhere else. And this was hotel staff, gas station clerks, pedestrians, etc...

What I'm saying is unless you look like Quasimodo you should be able to make a haul up there.

And like someone else said, be glad you're not involved with someone else's kid. Sooner or later all of her problems will end up being yours and day by day you are going to be supporting that kid more and more up until you legally adopt it and she leaves you stuck with child support. I know two people personally that have went that route and are now stuck paying child support for someone else's kid for the next 14+ years.

This might not be what you want to hear, but life is too short for womanly drama - except in the Madden forum. It's acceptable in there.