I get what GMSS is saying. Although, marriage isn't ALL about doing stuff that you don't want to do, but it's part of it.
I didn't necessarily want to go out to dinner last night with my wife family, but I did. I don't really want to go to church after work today, but I will. I don't really want to host Christmas for my in-laws, but it is what it is.
That's just three days of marriage this week and as they say a happy wife is a happy life. I'm sure there's plenty of stuff that I do or have done that my wife didn't really want to do either. Just like when we go on vacation I don't really care about going shopping, but I do and my wife doesn't care about doing physical activities like biking or zip lining, etc, but she does. It's all about compromise and you do it because you're married and you want to make your spouse happy.
Honestly, I do actually like my wife's family, but I don't really care to do stuff (like visit them or have them visit us) for longer than 3-4 hours. With that said I don't like to do anything whether it's watching TV, playing video games, etc for 3-4 hours at a time. I guess I should be thankful that my in-laws live almost an hour away and stuff like this only comes about every once in a while, like holidays, birthdays, etc.
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