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[BDKiiing]

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Stuff like this makes me glad I'm single.

I am too. I strongly believe in letting alcohol make your decisions for you.

This is how I feel ^^^^^^


However, this is rough. I say y'all both are in the wrong. If she was legit grinding on a dude then it's just as bad as mackin with the girl. Gonna haveta sit down with her and talk it out. And as most women do, she'll try and cut you off and color you out to be the bad guy, but you gotta point out her transgression.

[bigbob]

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Its hard for me to understand the I was drunk excuse. Maybe because everything I've done while drunk I remember, and while it gave me courage to do stuff, it was still stuff I wanted to do deep down inside.

I don't either.

IMO, that's all it is. An excuse.

[mgoblue]

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I don't either.

IMO, that's all it is. An excuse.

100% true...being drunk is only an excuse.

[Fly3]

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She says she's not mad just upset.

Lol.

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[ScoobySnax]

Very true. I knew what the hell I was doing every minute while buzzed.

[GAMEC0CK2002]

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Very true. I knew what the hell I was doing every minute while buzzed.

Co-sign. I don't drink anymore but have been buzzed a few times in the past. I might have thought twice if I was sober, but I knew exactly what I was doing.

[DocHolliday]

To sum up this entire thread, I hope you got a pre-nup.

[jeremym480]

Man back during my heavy drinking days there was quite a few times that I "lost time" or as I like to call it "time warped". I would come to and be in the middle of conversations or sometimes in a completely different bar. Luckily I was single at the time.

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[BunnyHardaway]

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Kinda refreshing to see an alcohol related problem that I'm not involved in.

But yeah, you're ****ed.

[Bmore]

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I have a problem. Saturday me my wife and some others I work with but she knows were on a party bus. I got absolutely hammered without meaning to and kissed a girl I work with in front of my wife. She says she's not mad just upset. She said she understands I was drunk but I know she's mad. While I was doing this she was grinding on two other guys like it was no big deal. Am I the only one in the wrong or is she too?

I already know how I feel about it just trying to take a poll and see if I am in agreement or not.

You're screwed.

You claim you were completely hammered, but knew what your wife was doing while you were making out with this girl?

I think you were both in the wrong, but you crossed the line. I guess put yourself in her shoes. What if she started making out with some dude right in front of you. How would you feel?

[Bmore Irish]

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Man back during my heavy drinking days there was quite a few times that I "lost time" or as I like to call it "time warped". I would come to and be in the middle of conversations or sometimes in a completely different bar. Luckily I was single at the time.

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man, i've been working on slowing down my drinking for that very reason. just a couple weeks ago i woke up at my friends house, no idea why i was on his couch or what happened in about 2 hours worth of time from when i last remembered the party we were at to when i went to sleep. that's some scary ****. not saying it's an excuse, but there are unquestionably situations where you can do something and have no idea why and no recollection of it the next day. i suppose it's a great reason to be sober, or at least drink responsibly. sometimes i hear people i know refer to "blacking out" as the goal for a night of drinking, but they just say it tongue-in-cheek, sort of, cuz blacking out is how terrible things happen.

[l3ulvl]

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Back to back Bmore posts

[Flightwhite24]

What a minute. You kissed a girl from work and your wife was grinding on 2 guys???? Or was the girl you kissed with 2 guys??? Party bus or not no way in hell my wife is grinding on any guy and if so we have some respect issues in our marriage.

No amount of alcohol has made me disrespect my wife and that is what you did in a nutshell. Its wrong my man and I can't give you a pass. Hope it works out in the end for you and your wife. Gotta cherish those vows and not take them/her for granted

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[Brandwin]

Both of you disrespected the other, I don't care if alcohol was involved or not. I hate when people use that as an excuse.

Maybe your wife isn't mad because she is doing things behind your back? I can't imagine a wife just brushing it off and saying she understands it was the alcohol and not the real you

[bigbob]

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Both of you disrespected the other, I don't care if alcohol was involved or not. I hate when people use that as an excuse.

Maybe your wife isn't mad because she is doing things behind your back? I can't imagine a wife just brushing it off and saying she understands it was the alcohol and not the real you

I thought of that myself, but from what I've seen with cheating spouses/fiancees/girlfriends (none are mine, personally) is that they would get more pissed off about it, and they'd try to blame everything on the other to try and cover up their tracks.