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  • Redacted01
    Hall Of Fame
    • Aug 2007
    • 10316

    #46
    Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

    Originally posted by PhilliesFan13
    When you're dating I think the guy should pay. Once you're married, you either mix it up or just use joint money.
    So the girl never pays in the 1, 2, maybe more years of dating and engagement?

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    • seasprite
      Phenom
      • Jul 2008
      • 8984

      #47
      Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

      Ive always paid when first dating a girl. After a few dates I see if she offers to pay at all and that normally determines whether or not I will keep dating her. Not really interested in dating a person who cant afford to at least pay every now and then.






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      • Sandman42
        Hall Of Fame
        • Aug 2004
        • 15186

        #48
        Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

        Depends on the girl. I dated a hardcore women's rights/feminist chick last summer and she refused to let me pay for her the first couple of dates so we split it. After a few weeks either her or I would pay the whole bill. Usually it was me paying for lunch/dinner and she would pay for movie tickets or drinks at a bar.

        Current girlfriend I payed the first few dates. Now we alternate paying pretty much when we go out. Pretty much every girl I dated has offered to pay on the first few dates. I normally just pay for us both. If they don't offer to pay the first few dates I usually drop them.
        Member of The OS Baseball Rocket Scientists Association

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        • Bullit
          Bacon is Better
          • Aug 2009
          • 5004

          #49
          Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

          I guess I am just old school. I think the guy should always pay. I am married now and have been for awhile and we both work, have joint accounts etc. But whenever we go out I still open the doors and the wallet.
          In Loving memory of my "Cricket" 1/2/96 - 11/19/2012

          My heart and soul hurt for your lost presence in my life.

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          • Brandwin
            Hall Of Fame
            • Jul 2002
            • 30621

            #50
            Originally posted by PhilliesFan13
            When you're dating I think the guy should pay. Once you're married, you either mix it up or just use joint money.

            Originally posted by dochalladay32
            So the girl never pays in the 1, 2, maybe more years of dating and engagement?
            Yeah, that's crazy talk. You could date for multiple years.

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            • cjonesfan921
              UGH, next year
              • Jan 2005
              • 20081

              #51
              Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

              I had a girl tell me the guy should always pay unless it's his birthday....I asked her do you also believe in equal pay...she flipped a ****.


              FOH.

              Pay in the beginning, as in 2-3 dates.

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              • Redacted01
                Hall Of Fame
                • Aug 2007
                • 10316

                #52
                Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

                Originally posted by Bullit
                I guess I am just old school. I think the guy should always pay. I am married now and have been for awhile and we both work, have joint accounts etc. But whenever we go out I still open the doors and the wallet.
                But if you have joint accounts, you are technically both paying. You're opening her wallet without opening it! That's talent.

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                • seasprite
                  Phenom
                  • Jul 2008
                  • 8984

                  #53
                  Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

                  Originally posted by Bullit
                  I guess I am just old school. I think the guy should always pay. I am married now and have been for awhile and we both work, have joint accounts etc. But whenever we go out I still open the doors and the wallet.
                  When you're married, its a totally different ballgame.






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                  • Bullit
                    Bacon is Better
                    • Aug 2009
                    • 5004

                    #54
                    Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

                    Originally posted by dochalladay32
                    But if you have joint accounts, you are technically both paying. You're opening her wallet without opening it! That's talent.

                    ssssshhhhhhh!!!! Mrs Bullit comes on here sometimes
                    In Loving memory of my "Cricket" 1/2/96 - 11/19/2012

                    My heart and soul hurt for your lost presence in my life.

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                    • dingleberryfinn
                      Banned
                      • May 2010
                      • 1736

                      #55
                      Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

                      Helpful tip: Never use coupons on a first date.

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                      • ubernoob
                        ****
                        • Jul 2004
                        • 15522

                        #56
                        Originally posted by dingleberryfinn
                        Helpful tip: Never use coupons on a first date.
                        Or use them. The cheap women who only care about money will be gone. If I have a coupon for something I'm ordering, I'm using it.
                        bad

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                        • seasprite
                          Phenom
                          • Jul 2008
                          • 8984

                          #57
                          Originally posted by dingleberryfinn
                          Helpful tip: Never use coupons on a first date.
                          Misread "coupons" and was about to disagree


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                          • Redacted01
                            Hall Of Fame
                            • Aug 2007
                            • 10316

                            #58
                            Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

                            Originally posted by seasprite
                            Misread "coupons" and was about to disagree


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                            Sounds like a case of dyslexia. u -> n, p -> d

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                            • seasprite
                              Phenom
                              • Jul 2008
                              • 8984

                              #59
                              Originally posted by dochalladay32
                              Sounds like a case of dyslexia. u -> n, p -> d
                              Lol exactly


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                              • Brandwin
                                Hall Of Fame
                                • Jul 2002
                                • 30621

                                #60
                                Re: How Often Should the Guy Pay?

                                Originally posted by seasprite
                                Misread "coupons" and was about to disagree


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                                I prefer to not use those as well.

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