drunken problems?

[hardcor2]

I have a problem. Saturday me my wife and some others I work with but she knows were on a party bus. I got absolutely hammered without meaning to and kissed a girl I work with in front of my wife. She says she's not mad just upset. She said she understands I was drunk but I know she's mad. While I was doing this she was grinding on two other guys like it was no big deal. Am I the only one in the wrong or is she too?

I already know how I feel about it just trying to take a poll and see if I am in agreement or not.

[ImTellinTim]

Re: drunken problems?

One thing is for sure. You will never hear the end of this.

[JazzMan]

Re: drunken problems?

Stuff like this makes me glad I'm straight edge.

I would suggest sitting down with your wife and discuss what happened. Don't go the route of saying to her that she's at a fault for grinding two guys, either. That will inevitably make things worse between the two of you.

Women are stubborn, just suck it up, admit you did it, and ask if she'll forgive you.

That's all I got.

[AUChase]

Re: drunken problems?

Expect a harsh reaction on OS.

You ****ed up.

I'm actually surprised she's not more mad about it. I can't think of any girls I have even dated who would let something like that fly.

I guess you could have done a lot worse.

#Team3Some

[jeremym480]

What do you mean by kiss? A peck or a full on makeout session?

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[DocHolliday]

You sure all she did is grind? Looks like she is trying to sweep it under.

#poundtown

#awkward

#coworkers

[gopher_guy]

Re: drunken problems?

She says she's not mad

She said she understands

Well we all know what this means...

Women would be extremely complicated if they weren't always just saying the opposite of how they feel!

[Gotmadskillzson]

Re: drunken problems?

Sounds like my kind of bus....... (Long live GMSS story time)

But anyway.....you were with 1 woman, she was on TWO guys. She ain't mad, sounds like she is down to party. You might have just discovered she was an uncovered closet freak. Either way, everybody needs to learn their drinking limit. Live and learn, that is all you can do.

I would be more concerned with anybody recorded cell phone video of this and posted it online some where.

[TMagic]

Well we all know what this means...

Women would be extremely complicated if they weren't always just saying the opposite of how the feel!

This.

That sure is an eyebrow raiser.

[slickdtc]

I hate grinding as a form of dancing. I don't think it's appropriate for couples to be doing that on others unless its okay by the couple.

I'm not a controlling guy at all. But that is one thing I never allowed my girl to do since we've been together. Part of it was her thinking it was innocent fun (not so much grinding but just closer/intimate dancing). And it is on her part... But she's learned that guys at the bar, club, etc don't care and will take that as an invitation to do whatever they want to you. They don't care if you got a dude at the club, a ring on your finger, or anything else.

Now she sees it my way. She's had enough scumbags keep trying to get at her when all she wants to do is dance with her girls or whatever. Now imagine if she was grinding on a random dude. He's gonna think, this girl wants it. Don't put yourself in that situation. Simple as that.

[AUChase]

Re: drunken problems?

I've never been that guy in a bar or club.

I'm tall, white, clumsy, and can't dance. It only happens if I'm too drunk.

Luckily my gf doesn't really like to dance. If she did, it would just be too damn bad.

[hardcor2]

Re: drunken problems?

What do you mean by kiss? A peck or a full on makeout session?

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Like tongue and everything.

Me and this girl talk at work all the time and neither of us have feelings toward each other. We talked last nite at work and there wasn't any awkwardness and my wife is now joking about it. I remember it all now and it just sorta happened. We were taking pictures together and and I went in for it out of nowhere.

[AUChase]

Re: drunken problems?

It will come back around one day.

[Phobia]

Re: drunken problems?

Simple answer, she did nothing wrong except dance with some guys. You on the other hand stepped over that. So with that said yea you are in the wrong. Now I'll say this, if this is your wife and she is just supposedly "mildly irritated" or upset then that can be only couple reasons. 1) Like GMSS said, she might be down to really "throw down" and you never knew that side of her. 2) She is extremely pissed and is trying to keep it in. 3) She really does not care that much and can move on.

Personally for me #3 is the worst, because if she can give a **** about you kissing another women she does not sound like she is fully "checked in" so to speak with the relationship and there is a multitude of reasons that can be and all end bad. #2 to me is the best option to shoot for, at least you still know she really gives a crap about her marriage and would not find it acceptable for your husband to run around kissing other women lol.

Like said before, once those bounds are crossed they never can be undone so expect to hear this forever

[Chrisksaint]

Re: drunken problems?

Grinding isn't dancing, it's a mating ritual.

I've been with chicks at the club that want to actually dance and I've had no clue what to do, but thankfully I was drunk enough to wing it.