I don't think I am understanding the bolded part
... I have different sets 3.0, 2.0 and the Universal set.
3.0 is the latest, 2.0 is only still up cause when I got rid of 1.0 I had some peeps asking for the numbers to that set still, so this go around I kept 2.0 up. The Universal set is for custom rosters, this set keeps all ratings/tendencies neutral so that the custom rosters can shine. Meaning that you will get the gameplay straight from the rosters.
I hope that answers it, if not just ask.
Hmmm... not sure if coach mode defaults the team back to CPU or if they would still fall under HUM sliders. I would assume that it stays on HUM.
So 2 controllers? You can pause with controller #2 right? If so, then next time you play, I am assuming you put team #2 into coach mode right off the bat right? Well next time you put them into coach mode, play for a few seconds then pause with controller #2, go into substitution menu and look at the ratings of the players, scroll over to SOD and SIT, if those are raised then its on CPU slider mode, if SOD/SIT are neutral then they are on HUM sliders.