If You Are Out With A Female; And She Asks You To

[DC]

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My friend sent me the pictures and it said she was Miss Canada, but I am unable to find out her name.

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[Flyboy]

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This thread makes me larf.

[Stumbleweed]

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It's a tiny, insignificant favor. Doing that sort of thing for others is common courtesy. Unless you're some kind of dick with a masculinity problem that prevents you from putting aside your own insecurities for 5 minutes.

And yes, Canada is looking better every day. What did they feed that girl? Gat damn. Maple syrup in the house!

[bgeno]

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LOL @ it being a common courtesy.

LOL @ The severity of the relationship not mattering. You can continue doing these "favors" for these girls that don't matter. Trust NOT holding her purse has a better opportunity for you to GAIN brownie points than LOSE brownie points.

I'll take my chances. I don't want anything to do with a girl that's giving me Brownie points for being a douche-bag over something so simple.

[DC]

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I'll take my chances. I don't want anything to do with a girl that's giving me Brownie points for being a douche-bag over something so simple.

There is NO avoiding that though. ANY action that you do is going to be subconsciously judged by the woman when you first meet her. So the gain/loss of brownie points can not be avoided

[SidVish]

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LOL @ DC! You crack me up. The sissification of the American male?

Random female DC is out with: "Excuse me DC All American, can you please hold my purse for a sec I've got to tie my shoe?"

DC: "Bitch please! If I were to hold you're purse I would be contributing to the sissification of the American male. I'm not a sissy...put it on the damn floor or something?"


Personally, I don't think it's a big deal to hold a woman's purse. It's really not that serious.

[JayBee74]

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Wouldn't do it.

[bgeno]

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There is NO avoiding that though. ANY action that you do is going to be subconsciously judged by the woman when you first meet her. So the gain/loss of brownie points can not be avoided

Understandable. I'm just not interested in a girl who is going to view me better if I'm a dick to her.

I see it around me all the time... I know the kind of girls that like that in a guy, and I know I don't want anything to do with those girls.

I'll wait until I find that girl who appreciates what I have to offer... not fake me who is a douchebag just to get the girl in the sack. I understand those girls are few and far between and that most girls are the type that will give me brownie poitns for the dick moves, but I don't care. I'm not going to be someone I'm not.

... and I'm the type of guy that holds the purse.

[DC]

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LOL @ you not understanding the difference between being a penus and holding your ground

A girl will respect you more; it isn't about LIKING you more. She will RESPECT you more as a MAN and she will KNOW they she won't be able to pull nonsense on you and you just do as she says.

[KG]

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I used to be in the same boat DC but i dont even mind going into chick stores anymore....i just find the mans section aka "the chair" by the dressing room, sit down and just look at all the chicks

I know you're around my way too so if you hit Pentagon City or Tysons with a chick you might wanna wear some cuz its about to spring time and u know they ladies will be out.

[Stumbleweed]

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LOL @ you making some insignificant act of kindness and courtesy into some sort of battle of the sexes power struggle

[DC]

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I used to be in the same boat DC but i dont even mind going into chick stores anymore....i just find the mans section aka "the chair" by the dressing room, sit down and just look at all the chicks

I know you're around my way too so if you hit Pentagon City or Tysons with a chick you might wanna wear some cuz its about to spring time and u know they ladies will be out.

I just Al Bundy the situation. I don't even go INTO those stores. I just go about my business and meet up with her when she is done.

[DC]

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LOL @ you making some insignificant act of kindness and courtesy into some sort of battle of the sexes power struggle

I'm telling you man. It SEEMS innocent but it goes deeper than that. I understand that it might SEEM hard to understand but it IS a power situation.

Like I said earlier; I UNDERSTAND that you all would think I am just talking to be talking but ask women. Some of your female friends will ADMIT that they do things like "this" to "test" us and see how far they can get on/over us.

[themush]

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LOL @ you not understanding the difference between being a penus and holding your ground

A girl will respect you more; it isn't about LIKING you more. She will RESPECT you more as a MAN and she will KNOW they she won't be able to pull nonsense on you and you just do as she says.

Ok now I have to ask...... ARE JUST JOKING AROUND?????

[bgeno]

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LOL @ you not understanding the difference between being a penus and holding your ground

A girl will respect you more; it isn't about LIKING you more. She will RESPECT you more as a MAN and she will KNOW they she won't be able to pull nonsense on you and you just do as she says.

In my opinion, refusing the hold the purse is being a "penus," no matter the reasoning for it (unless, like, both your arms are broken... or something happened in the past that would honestly warrant not holding the purse). And it's even more of a dick-move to say it not being "my problem" if it gets stolen or whatever.

IMO, you pick your battles, dude.

Like I said, I don't want to be with a girl whose idea of "her respect" is whether or not I'm going to hold her purse. I'm better than that.