I'm with everyone else here, Magic, you simply have to move on. You need to keep in mind that there are other people who have been through the same thing, or much worse, and have been able to get on with their lives. You should be happy that it is only three years that you spent with this person. It should make the healing process go a lot smoother than if you had gotten into an even more committed relationship with her. After seeing what my parents had to deal with in their seperation after 26 years of marriage, it really put things into perspective for me. I know it hurts, but you really have to try and keep an eye on the big picture and realize compared to other people, I'm sure even some who are very close to you, this pails in comparison to what they've had to work their way through.
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I'm with everyone else here, Magic, you simply have to move on. You need to keep in mind that there are other people who have been through the same thing, or much worse, and have been able to get on with their lives. You should be happy that it is only three years that you spent with this person. It should make the healing process go a lot smoother than if you had gotten into an even more committed relationship with her. After seeing what my parents had to deal with in their seperation after 26 years of marriage, it really put things into perspective for me. I know it hurts, but you really have to try and keep an eye on the big picture and realize compared to other people, I'm sure even some who are very close to you, this pails in comparison to what they've had to work their way through. -
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Some may say you shouldn't have done it, but to me that would've been a sign to do it. I'd like to say I haven't done the same in the past, but I have.Comment
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I hear that, man. I, for one, had no attachment to my first... I was drunk as **** and had known her forever, but it's not like I was heartbroken when we didn't get married or anything. Just let it go man, you'll find somebody better, trust me.Comment
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GBrushTWood I'd screw them over and call the state police. I am 99% sure the Pike toll booths have cameras and the jerkoff can easily be identified. That will teach them a lesson.
I'm strongly considering calling them tonight, even though my car didn't sustain much, if any, damage.Comment
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GBrushTWood I'd screw them over and call the state police. I am 99% sure the Pike toll booths have cameras and the jerkoff can easily be identified. That will teach them a lesson.
I know the EZPass lanes definitley have cameras, my old man got a ticket for going 38 MPH through one of the tolls and they sent him a letter saying he was identified on camera speeding."You make your name in the regular season, and your fame in the postseason." - Clyde Frazier
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It is still leaving the scene of an accident which is illegal in Massachusetts, especially considering when he left he really didn't know how much damage was really done.
I am 99% sure they all do so that if someone just runs one they have it on film. I know that off of the exits in Western MA there is just the teller and nothing else preventing you from blowing through the sign like a guard rail or what not. I don't remember there being anything like that when I was Groton either.Comment
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I am 99% sure they all do so that if someone just runs one they have it on film. I know that off of the exits in Western MA there is just the teller and nothing else preventing you from blowing through the sign like a guard rail or what not. I don't remember there being anything like that when I was Groton either."You make your name in the regular season, and your fame in the postseason." - Clyde Frazier
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So, uh....you guys remember last Wednesday where I didn't end up going to class after an hour circling the f'n parking lot?
......yeah.Comment
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I hate when I walk around in a VT shirt on gameday around campus and people stop me and say "Hey, take that **** off... you don't go to VT!"
"But I'm a VT football fan!"
"Wear a RU shirt!"
Thing is... RU DOESN'T HAVE A FOOTBALL TEAM! If we did I'd probably cut all my sports ties to VT.
Argh... *******es.Rose City 'Til I Die
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next week is going to suck. last week of the quarter which means a bunch of big tests and a 5 page paper for AP english due. atleast we have a nice long fall break after it.
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A frat at Nebraska, Lambda Chi, is gonna get kicked out. 44 kids from there got MIP'd last weekend. I heard the university is going to tear the building down and make a parking garage
You, You, you, you, you, you, you, you ahhhhhhhhhh YOU, Lambda Chi!!Last edited by Herbsinator; 10-25-2006, 05:39 PM.Comment
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Magic... be happy that all of this came out before any longer in the relationship. Pretty much, same scenario as you, 6 1/2 years into the relationship. We were going to get married in 1 month, had already spent around $13K for the wedding, honeymoon and engagement ring... and then all of the sudden... gone.
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Youtube sucks....
Turns out another one of the people I subscribed to has lost his account. DAMN YOU COPYRIGHT LAWS DAMN YOU TO HELL!
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Ours is flat out awful at WNEC. I have always thought that we should have lots based on seniority. 3L's and 4L's get the close lot, 2L's the intermediary lot, and 1L's can walk. Of course for those who need it, there is handicap parking.
I thought the same thing while in undergrad, Seniors get the best lot then Juniors, and then Sophomores.
Is that idea really that unreasonable?Comment
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