What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

[skitch]

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Yeah, it only really comes back to bite you in the *** if your wife/girlfriend has an IQ above single digits.

Then most of us should be good.

[MassNole]

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Unfortunately for me in the past I have made mistakes in laundry and stuff which my wife thought I did on purpose. I tell her to try and separate clothes that can and cannot go in the dryer, but that never happens and it is 100% my fault when something gets shrunk. ::Sigh::

[SPTO]

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Unfortunately for me in the past I have made mistakes in laundry and stuff which my wife thought I did on purpose. I tell her to try and separate clothes that can and cannot go in the dryer, but that never happens and it is 100% my fault when something gets shrunk. ::Sigh::

I once tried laundry...let's just say most of the white clothes turned pinkish. That was the end of my association with the washer and dryer!

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Well i'm an idiot, I didn't need to give paypal any validation. I just had to do an Electroic Funds Transfer. I just transferred 100 dollars which will be in my paypal account by the 1st. Oh well now I can start bidding on stuff on ebay!

[aukevin]

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Well i'm an idiot, I didn't need to give paypal any validation. I just had to do an Electroic Funds Transfer. I just transferred 100 dollars which will be in my paypal account by the 1st. Oh well now I can start bidding on stuff on ebay!

ebay's an addiction man! I love it!

[dkgojackets]

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Just got myself a job at Great Steak and Potato. Some of the most unskilled labor possible.

[WFU2521]

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big game tonight my school's soccer team taking on our crosstown rival so ill definitly be going to that

and then fantasy bball draft when i get back from that

[MassNole]

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I got my motion written, unfortunately I was assigned a buttload of HW for Thursday and I still have a project for work to do. I will knock off some reading tonight I guess.

[Gilateen]

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I have misplaced my debit card. I hope no one is going around town filling up gas tanks and ****.

Damn!!!!

[SPTO]

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I have misplaced my debit card. I hope no one is going around town filling up gas tanks and ****.

Damn!!!!

You could call the bank and tell them you've lost it. They'll make the card null and void and you can apply for a new one.

[Cebby]

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My roommates are ****ing ********. today they were blaming me for cockroaches in our kitchen. If we were living in a nice place, that's understandable, but on the first floor of the Auburn dorm extentions, there's going to be roaches in your building regardless of what you do. They're piece of **** apartments next to a huge dumpster, we'll have them until the planet explodes. What really annoyed me, is I hadn't even been in the room for 2 days, so I don't even know how it was my fault. That's the worst part of college so far, school provided roommates.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Ill try to keep this as short as I can.

My GF left me 2 weeks ago pretty much out of the blue claiming her feelings have changed. I had everyone in my ear and my basic logic saying she had to have feelings for some other guy to just get up and leave after everything we had been through. I mean she often talked about marriage, children names, and we took 2 vacations together and were thinking about planning another. Everything seemed alright, but out of the blue that all changed. She swears that feelings for another guy is not the case, but whos to say for sure, and I would she really tell me if that was?

One of our biggest problems over the last 2 years has been her constant contact with her EXBF before me. It started a problem and ended a problem. I had to deal with her living with him the first 3 months of our relationship, and after it became too much to handle I had to threaten to leave, and instead of me leaving she moved into her Aunts house. So She knew it bothered me and after several occations of me catching her sneaking talking to him on the phone, we came close to another big break up. She felt devistated and probably shocked that I found out, so as desperation she changed her number and even offered paswords to make sure. I forgave her like normal because I loved her and things went back to normal. Now this sneaking stuff all happen a good 3,4 months ago.

After this latest break up on her end, I logged on to her email (which she didnt give me a password too, but I used the same as the one she gave me for her phone and it worked...) and I found that she had plans with this EXBF. We had not even been broken up for 2 days yet. She claims to have been upset and to have made a mistake and again assured me it was NOT because of him why she broke up with me and that she needed comfort because she was devistated about us and she was only going to have dinner with him, with zero intentions of getting back together with him. She also claims to of realized that was a bad idea and cancelled her plans with him. So again, who knows the real story. I heard her side, and I have my second guessing. Me being very forgiving, ofcourse wanted her back, but to my surprise she wanted nothing to do with me anymore. Her mind was made up and we went a week playing the cat and mouse game as I tried to find answers and was in denial as too how.

Her reasoning for the break up was this, #1 she says shes hurt me too much in the past and I keep resorting back to it and bringing it against her, which isnt true, ONLY when a situation comes up with that SAME EXBF, but shes just like "oh ive hurt you too much, its my fault your not ever going to be happy with me because of the past." Then the second reason she claims she had to change who she was.Yea i tried on different occations to convince her to wear make up and maybe giving contacts a try, but she claims that she felt forced to do these things inorder to keep me interested or that id leave. Which I swear to god on my life was not true. I told her numerious times even when I asked her about it that I wouldnt have ever just left because of that because shed joke about it. Anyway she says despite me saying id never leave she always felt I would have left anyway and that built up pain over a while and it became too much and claims that we are too different. Again....excuse trying to blame me? Or something that she could be hiding? Whos to know.

Now the latest sega came this weekend. She called me and seemed lonley as did I on sweetess day and I pleaded with her to try to hang out and try to work things out. So after accepting we went to sixflags. We had a great night and everything seemed fixed. I was happy, she was apologizing for leaving and saying shes sorry and is so happy were back. Then sunday morning comes and its like a chip is turned on and she reconsiders the entire thing. Now its tuesday and were in the same spot as 2 weeks ago, where shes asking me to stop contacting her for a little while and that she's moving on and I should do the same.

Then this morning, she texts me saying she couldnt sleep and has a nervous feeling in her stomach, but I was reminded, not to worry, that doesnt mean we'll end up back together. So more mind games being played by her.

So now ive never been more depressed in my life, and it feels my world is close to ending. Im going to stay strong, but its hard not only losing your GF, but your best friend also. Me and her in the past 2 years did everything together. Things like Wrestlemania, Raw, countless movies, Notre Dame game in south bend, Disney World, Wisconsin Dells, and we had plans to go to Vegas on my 21st Birthday next year. So something happened, and I dont know what. She seems a little sad, but not as much as id expect considering she probably would have killed herself if I had ever left her in the past 2 years prior to her breaking up with me. I have her word its not for another guy, I have my second thoughts and denial as to how and why this is happening, but what the truth is? I may never know.

[The GIGGAS]

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Girls are weird.

Get another one... it's not like there's only one vagina on the earth.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Girls are weird.

Get another one... it's not like there's only one vagina on the earth.

I know but for now its just too many memories to just erase. Its going to be a whole grieving process I already know that. It doesnt help that she played the make up break up game within a 24 hour period on saturday. It started my whole process over again. Plus it doesnt help that while it wouldnt have been real soon, I did have plans or I should say thoughts, of marrying this one and we even had baby names picked out.

[Herbsinator]

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Magic,
"Never ask a women about other men. Either she'll tell you a lie, and you still won't know, or if she tells you the truth, you might not have wanted to hear it in the first place." -Malcom X, in his Autobiography.

[MagicBucsWsoxFan]

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Magic,
"Never ask a women about other men. Either she'll tell you a lie, and you still won't know, or if she tells you the truth, you might not have wanted to hear it in the first place." -Malcom X, in his Autobiography.

I know this, and maybe its just my case, but I have a gut feeling there is someone else, and for whatever reason as much as that hurts, it also hurts that shes probably lying that theres not.