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  • Vince
    Bow for Bau
    • Aug 2002
    • 26017

    #2521
    Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

    Yay! got 50 bucks on ebay for NBA 2k7...Not bad.

    I've got the sniffles though so I'm not all that happy. Went to work yesterday and had a hard time keeping up to par.
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    • Psyblast
      2023 National Champions
      • Jun 2003
      • 42582

      #2522
      Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

      I hate cats.

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      • Gilateen
        Banned
        • Oct 2002
        • 2855

        #2523
        Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

        Old Kool & the Gang videos are the ****!!!

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        If you really want it
        Get down on it
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        • MagicBucsWsoxFan
          MVP
          • Mar 2003
          • 4294

          #2524
          Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

          Originally posted by MagicBucsWsoxFan
          Ill try to keep this as short as I can.

          My GF left me 2 weeks ago pretty much out of the blue claiming her feelings have changed. I had everyone in my ear and my basic logic saying she had to have feelings for some other guy to just get up and leave after everything we had been through. I mean she often talked about marriage, children names, and we took 2 vacations together and were thinking about planning another. Everything seemed alright, but out of the blue that all changed. She swears that feelings for another guy is not the case, but whos to say for sure, and I would she really tell me if that was?

          One of our biggest problems over the last 2 years has been her constant contact with her EXBF before me. It started a problem and ended a problem. I had to deal with her living with him the first 3 months of our relationship, and after it became too much to handle I had to threaten to leave, and instead of me leaving she moved into her Aunts house. So She knew it bothered me and after several occations of me catching her sneaking talking to him on the phone, we came close to another big break up. She felt devistated and probably shocked that I found out, so as desperation she changed her number and even offered paswords to make sure. I forgave her like normal because I loved her and things went back to normal. Now this sneaking stuff all happen a good 3,4 months ago.

          After this latest break up on her end, I logged on to her email (which she didnt give me a password too, but I used the same as the one she gave me for her phone and it worked...) and I found that she had plans with this EXBF. We had not even been broken up for 2 days yet. She claims to have been upset and to have made a mistake and again assured me it was NOT because of him why she broke up with me and that she needed comfort because she was devistated about us and she was only going to have dinner with him, with zero intentions of getting back together with him. She also claims to of realized that was a bad idea and cancelled her plans with him. So again, who knows the real story. I heard her side, and I have my second guessing. Me being very forgiving, ofcourse wanted her back, but to my surprise she wanted nothing to do with me anymore. Her mind was made up and we went a week playing the cat and mouse game as I tried to find answers and was in denial as too how.

          Her reasoning for the break up was this, #1 she says shes hurt me too much in the past and I keep resorting back to it and bringing it against her, which isnt true, ONLY when a situation comes up with that SAME EXBF, but shes just like "oh ive hurt you too much, its my fault your not ever going to be happy with me because of the past." Then the second reason she claims she had to change who she was.Yea i tried on different occations to convince her to wear make up and maybe giving contacts a try, but she claims that she felt forced to do these things inorder to keep me interested or that id leave. Which I swear to god on my life was not true. I told her numerious times even when I asked her about it that I wouldnt have ever just left because of that because shed joke about it. Anyway she says despite me saying id never leave she always felt I would have left anyway and that built up pain over a while and it became too much and claims that we are too different. Again....excuse trying to blame me? Or something that she could be hiding? Whos to know.

          Now the latest sega came this weekend. She called me and seemed lonley as did I on sweetess day and I pleaded with her to try to hang out and try to work things out. So after accepting we went to sixflags. We had a great night and everything seemed fixed. I was happy, she was apologizing for leaving and saying shes sorry and is so happy were back. Then sunday morning comes and its like a chip is turned on and she reconsiders the entire thing. Now its tuesday and were in the same spot as 2 weeks ago, where shes asking me to stop contacting her for a little while and that she's moving on and I should do the same.

          Then this morning, she texts me saying she couldnt sleep and has a nervous feeling in her stomach, but I was reminded, not to worry, that doesnt mean we'll end up back together. So more mind games being played by her.

          So now ive never been more depressed in my life, and it feels my world is close to ending. Im going to stay strong, but its hard not only losing your GF, but your best friend also. Me and her in the past 2 years did everything together. Things like Wrestlemania, Raw, countless movies, Notre Dame game in south bend, Disney World, Wisconsin Dells, and we had plans to go to Vegas on my 21st Birthday next year. So something happened, and I dont know what. She seems a little sad, but not as much as id expect considering she probably would have killed herself if I had ever left her in the past 2 years prior to her breaking up with me. I have her word its not for another guy, I have my second thoughts and denial as to how and why this is happening, but what the truth is? I may never know.

          Well fellas turns out it was another guy afterall. I guess it was fate's habbit that I stumbled upon a notebook she left at my house with things like her resume, work hours, and her newly made gmail account. I logged on to it and sure enough there were emails between her and Ben including the phrases "i miss you" and "i love you" (not an exbf, but someone she knew from high school)
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          • Gilateen
            Banned
            • Oct 2002
            • 2855

            #2525
            Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

            Originally posted by MagicBucsWsoxFan
            Well fellas turns out it was another guy afterall. I guess it was fate's habbit that I stumbled upon a notebook she left at my house with things like her resume, work hours, and her newly made gmail account. I logged on to it and sure enough there were emails between her and Ben including the phrases "i miss you" and "i love you" (not an exbf, but someone she knew from high school)

            MAN DA HELL UP!!!!

            You're still young, devote more time to yourself and quit stressing over these bitches.

            Sometimes its as if your the woman is this relationship you speak of.
            Last edited by Gilateen; 10-25-2006, 10:26 AM.

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            • Herbsinator
              All Star
              • Sep 2003
              • 4573

              #2526
              Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

              Originally posted by MagicBucsWsoxFan
              Well fellas turns out it was another guy afterall. I guess it was fate's habbit that I stumbled upon a notebook she left at my house with things like her resume, work hours, and her newly made gmail account. I logged on to it and sure enough there were emails between her and Ben including the phrases "i miss you" and "i love you" (not an exbf, but someone she knew from high school)
              I think this settles it....you need to just let her go.

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              • RockyTop1
                All Star
                • Apr 2004
                • 8267

                #2527
                Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

                just sold some extra TN/LSU tickets that I had on ebay for $437. SWEEET
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                • Graphik
                  Pr*s*n*r#70460649
                  • Oct 2002
                  • 10582

                  #2528
                  Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

                  Originally posted by Gilateen
                  MAN DA HELL UP!!!!

                  You're still young, devote more time to yourself and quit stressing over these bitches.

                  Sometimes its as if your the woman is this relationship you speak of.

                  Meh...the truth hurts in these situations. Its easier said than done to just tell him to man up. He'll get it eventually but right now, let the boy have his moment. All I can say Magic, is the normal cliche phrase, "time heals all wombs". You'll eventually get it over it and move on. But whatever you do, dont let the bitch back into your life.
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                  • Herbsinator
                    All Star
                    • Sep 2003
                    • 4573

                    #2529
                    Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

                    Originally posted by Graphik
                    Meh...the truth hurts in these situations. Its easier said than done to just tell him to man up. He'll get it eventually but right now, let the boy have his moment. All I can say Magic, is the normal cliche phrase, "time heals all wombs". You'll eventually get it over it and move on. But whatever you do, dont let the bitch back into your life.
                    The truth does hurt and I hope Magic does listen to our advice, but he probably won't. I just hope he doesn't become THAT boyfriend...you know, the guy who calls his ex at like 2 in the morning to see if a guy answers the phone then hangs up right away.

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                    • MagicBucsWsoxFan
                      MVP
                      • Mar 2003
                      • 4294

                      #2530
                      Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

                      Originally posted by Herbsinator
                      The truth does hurt and I hope Magic does listen to our advice, but he probably won't. I just hope he doesn't become THAT boyfriend...you know, the guy who calls his ex at like 2 in the morning to see if a guy answers the phone then hangs up right away.
                      No I definatly wont be that guy. I definatly am not going to even go near her house or anything stalkerish like that. I do have some anger though. I have thought about possibly emailing this new BF (whos email I wrote down) with a little note about the real jen hoping to scar him. At least then it'll be in his mind whether he believes it or not, or whether shes able to convince him other wise or not. I know I should take the high road, but I feel like the least I can do is get the last word.
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                      • Beantown
                        #DoYourJob
                        • Feb 2005
                        • 31523

                        #2531
                        Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

                        So wait...you went through her e-mails?

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                        • Gilateen
                          Banned
                          • Oct 2002
                          • 2855

                          #2532
                          Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

                          Originally posted by Graphik
                          Meh...the truth hurts in these situations. Its easier said than done to just tell him to man up. He'll get it eventually but right now, let the boy have his moment. All I can say Magic, is the normal cliche phrase, "time heals all wombs". You'll eventually get it over it and move on. But whatever you do, dont let the bitch back into your life.
                          I understand time heals but once you man up, you start to heal. Feelin sorry for yourself does no good.

                          Believe me, I been in this situation but worse. At the same time, when you look for stuff, youre going to find it.

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                          • MagicBucsWsoxFan
                            MVP
                            • Mar 2003
                            • 4294

                            #2533
                            Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

                            Originally posted by Longhorn
                            So wait...you went through her e-mails?
                            It might be wrong, but having a gut feeling your GF left you after 2 years for another guy, and her not admitting it was hard. Then out of the blue I find her email password on a notebook she left at my house? I mean how could I not check?
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                            • Vince
                              Bow for Bau
                              • Aug 2002
                              • 26017

                              #2534
                              Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

                              Originally posted by Longhorn
                              So wait...you went through her e-mails?
                              Doesn't even compare to what she did...
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                              • MagicBucsWsoxFan
                                MVP
                                • Mar 2003
                                • 4294

                                #2535
                                Re: What the Hell is on Your Mind Thread

                                Originally posted by Vince
                                Doesn't even compare to what she did...
                                yea I feel like it was wrong, but I dont regret it in the least.
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