Horrible Day

[ipitythafool25]

Well guys i havent been on here reguarly for the last 4 months since i got married, where we moved to has no highspeed internet and i refuse to go dail up. all of that is besides the point just re-introducing myself

Anyway i find out this morning that my wife has been sleeping with my ex bestfriend,bad enough is that is its made worse by the fact the reason the guy and i arent friends is because he also slept with one of my ex girlfriends

i find out that over the course of the last month he has been lying to her and telling her that i cheated when we were engaged,which she knows for a fact isnt true cause she admitted that much.she said that just the thought of him putting that in her head drove her to sleeping with him...complete bs.

it just sucks that just 4 months ago i looked into the eyes of the girl i wanted to spend the rest of my life with, and now in that short time its over..and like that

just had to get it off my chest to someone...all my friends are at work and i wont be able to talk to them until afterwhile,i just needed to vent it out cause just sitting here keeping it in has killed me

this site has always lifted my spirits and the people ive gamed with on here are great guys..i just wanted to say thanks for being such a great site and more importantly great guys

[TJdaSportsGuy]

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Since this "friend" likes to hook up with your women, next time find a chick with herpes and see if he follows his pattern. That'll show'em!! :wink:

In all seriousness, that's gotta suck bro. Best of luck in moving on with your life.

[Sully]

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Ouch. Sorry to hear that, man. Keep your hopes up.

Is it over, or are you trying to patch things up?

[ipitythafool25]

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oh no its over,its something i could ever forgive her of...i mean she showed absolutely no remorse whatsoever so that just put the stamp on it

[TJdaSportsGuy]

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oh no its over,its something i could ever forgive her of...i mean she showed absolutely no remorse whatsoever so that just put the stamp on it

No remorse? Ouch. Yeah man. Time to move on.

[fishepa]

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Sorry to hear that man, keep your head up.

[Skerik]

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That's rough. The bright sides are that you found out relatively early, instead of wasting what could have been months or years in a sham of a marriage, and that your decision now is so cut and dried based on her actions. You don't have to waste time wondering how this fell apart, what went wrong, etc. She's obviously not committed to you in the least, so you need to just write this off as a learning experience and get back on the horse.

Keep your head up and best of luck to you....

[mike01]

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Sorry bro. She doesn't deserve you though.

[utexas]

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Somebody who actually respects the marital will come your way and you will thank God for removing her from your life. Keep your head up, you are doing the right thing.

[forensicd]

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Hopefully things turn out for the best, becuase she is obviously not someone you would want to be with. Dont let this ruin your life like so many others have, learn from their mistakes and pick someone you know is there for you and only you. Lifes too short to mess with the bad people of the world.

[Money99]

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Do you think she was cheating with him while you were dating? Before the marriage?

That guys an *** but he'll get what's coming to him one way or another.

And it sucks that she had no remorse. Has she said anything else about it? Has she asked to be taken back.

At least you didn't have time to have kids before you found out she was a whore.

[Graphik]

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Good thing you handled it properly and just vented. I would probably be in jail by now. Especially given the situation that you knew both parties. It hurts like hell just imagining it.

[ipitythafool25]

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Thanks for all the advice, it means alot

As for her actually saying anything else...nah i left this morning as soon as i found out, im staying at a friends house cause i definately dont wanna be around her as that could possibly lead to alot of arguements and at this point she just isnt worth it

As far as he goes..he was nothing to me long before this and he will still be nothing to me, he's not worth going to jail over or doing something incredibly stupid.

The way i look at it is they deserve to be together,she was treated like a queen and after the fling is over ( cause i do know the guy, this is just a fling to him) she will see exactly what she had and it will be to late

God works is crazy ways and i know as much as it hurts now this is part of his plan for me and in the end i will be stronger for it

[elicoleman]

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Good thing you handled it properly and just vented. I would probably be in jail by now. Especially given the situation that you knew both parties. It hurts like hell just imagining it.

Agreed. I would've snapped on both of them.

I hate cheaters more than anything in this world. I wish nothing but the worst on those two.

[ehh]

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Honestly, you should beat the living **** out of your ex-best friend.