Horrible Day

[Heelfan71]

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How old is she? That sounds VERY immature... I'd be willing to bet there was nobody on the other end. The fact that you didn't take the bait probably pissed her off more than anything... I'm glad you responded the way that you did.

yep, I was going to say the same thing. She was talking to the dial tone.

[ipitythafool25]

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well things have been peaceful shes tried calling but ive ignored her,think i may have found an apartment for the time being while i get my finances back in order

shes 23 by the way,he and she both will have their days im sure...im just depending on family and friends right now to help pull me through.Im handling it alot better than i ever thought i would..just cant wait til i get it all over and behind me

thanks again for listening and for all the advice and support

[Money99]

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well things have been peaceful shes tried calling but ive ignored her,think i may have found an apartment for the time being while i get my finances back in order

shes 23 by the way,he and she both will have their days im sure...im just depending on family and friends right now to help pull me through.Im handling it alot better than i ever thought i would..just cant wait til i get it all over and behind me

thanks again for listening and for all the advice and support

It sounds like your ex knows that she made a mistake and was trying to make it seem like she's not fazed by the whole thing. Keep strong.

[CaptainZombie]

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well things have been peaceful shes tried calling but ive ignored her,think i may have found an apartment for the time being while i get my finances back in order

shes 23 by the way,he and she both will have their days im sure...im just depending on family and friends right now to help pull me through.Im handling it alot better than i ever thought i would..just cant wait til i get it all over and behind me

thanks again for listening and for all the advice and support

Please don't take her back, she will turnaround and do the same thing at a later date. Once a cheater always a cheater.

[TarHeelMan]

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well things have been peaceful shes tried calling but ive ignored her,think i may have found an apartment for the time being while i get my finances back in order

Stupid broad... If things were so keen and peachy like she portrayed when she was "on the phone", why should she be calling you, if you were such a dark chapter in her life?

Good for you, man, I'm glad you're moving on... Keep ya head up, we're always here for ya!!!!

[WTF]

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Yeah, this is all too similar to what I went through around this time last year. Keep your head up, and distance yourself man. I wasn't married "yet" when it happened, so it's not totally the same situation, but everything else is eerily similar.

Just move out on your own, and do things for "you". It's the best thing you can do for yourself.

[tshelton]

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I give you the utmost respect for the way you are handling yourself in this situation. Needless to say, with your attitude, you have a lot of great things coming your way. She is trash, and you deserve much better. Remember that, and good luck in the future. Everything will work out.

[Court_vision]

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oh no its over,its something i could ever forgive her of...i mean she showed absolutely no remorse whatsoever so that just put the stamp on it

You're better off without her man...

And I'd go and give your ex best friend a serious beating if I were you. I mean, 3 months in a coma type beating. The guy has slept with TWO of your women...WTF

[TarHeelMan]

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I wouldn't bother beating him down... YOU know he's an ***, and HE knows he's an ***... My problem would lie with the chicks, I mean, they're the ones who got down with the dude... Like Richard Gere said to Diane Lane in "Unfaithful", "I didn't want to kill him, I wanted to kill you!!!!"

IMO, IPTF25 is handling this fine, letting his game carry him through... The dumb broad is starting to see the error of her ways, that she lost a dude who genuinely cared for her, to have sex with some idiot who more than likely just viewed her as a random smash... Now she sees IPTF moving on, handling his business, while she's in a state of flux... Be careful what you wish for, my dear....

IPTF: What I WOULD do, is have Lou Rawls "You'll Never Find Another Love (Like Mine) play on your answering machine when someone calls... That'd be good for her.

[Jistic]

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oh and for all wondering.im 25 first time married,we knew each other forever but only started dating about 2 and a half yrs ago..got engaged after yr and a half and then married,no kids so it will be a pretty cut and dry split with some scars that will last a while but theyll fade

Man better to find this out now then being 40 with kids. To hell with both of them. Taking the high road just shows you're WAY more advanced than this broad and will be better off in the long run.

Go date now for awhile, you got your whole life to be serious! Have fun before it's too late!

[Brandwin]

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I wouldn't bother beating him down... YOU know he's an ***, and HE knows he's an ***... My problem would lie with the chicks, I mean, they're the ones who got down with the dude... Like Richard Gere said to Diane Lane in "Unfaithful", "I didn't want to kill him, I wanted to kill you!!!!"

IMO, IPTF25 is handling this fine, letting his game carry him through... The dumb broad is starting to see the error of her ways, that she lost a dude who genuinely cared for her, to have sex with some idiot who more than likely just viewed her as a random smash... Now she sees IPTF moving on, handling his business, while she's in a state of flux... Be careful what you wish for, my dear....

IPTF: What I WOULD do, is have Lou Rawls "You'll Never Find Another Love (Like Mine) play on your answering machine when someone calls... That'd be good for her.

Great post!