Relationship issues

[mgoblue]

Re: Relationship issues

Tell who and why?

If somebody asks you "why did you guys break up?", tell the truth. If it's because she hit you than say it. If it's because you were tired of arguing say that.

Not trying to be a jerk, but as a few others have stated this is just one of these relationships that is going down in flames and you're on fire dude!

We're trying to throw water on you, and you're asking if you should adjust the air conditioner.

Hopefully you'll be able to look back and laugh at this someday. Good luck man.

Yeah, you can tell the truth....She hit you, you dumped her...It's what any of us would tell a female friend to do. It doesn't make you less manly to have gotten punched. It's more of a man not to hit back. Guy or girl, it's not right to hit someone.

Just cut bait and run though...you just need her out of your life.

[DocHolliday]

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Im sorry, but this is an early "Post of the year" canidate, or possible "best post ever".

I really coud not stop giggling after the punch came out in the story. And the responses, from "YOU CALLED 5-0 ON HER!" have been great.

I really cant stop laughing.

[ninjamonkey]

Re: Relationship issues

I don't get why that's so funny. Not sure exactly what you're saying. The punch was funny? It ****ing sucks being reminded every day when your tooth hurts or your mouth doesn't close right that your gf of 3 years punched you.


Thanks for the kind words DIESEL and mgoblue.

[DocHolliday]

Re: Relationship issues

No disrespect dude its just kinda funny when you read it. To me atleast.

im still giggling

[P2K]

Re: Relationship issues

I don't get why that's so funny. Not sure exactly what you're saying. The punch was funny? It ****ing sucks being reminded every day when your tooth hurts or your mouth doesn't close right that your gf of 3 years punched you.

Isn't that what dentists are for?

[ninjamonkey]

Re: Relationship issues

What? I've been to a dentist.

Nothing can be done for the tooth right now, and we have to keep an eye on it b/c due to this incident I may need a root canal in the future.

[P2K]

Re: Relationship issues

If you keep up with seeing this girl, you won't have to worry about a root canal eventually.



(giggles)

[TheMatrix31]

Re: Relationship issues

What? I've been to a dentist.

Nothing can be done for the tooth right now, and we have to keep an eye on it b/c due to this incident I may need a root canal in the future.

Then sue the bitch.

[ninjamonkey]

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Cool, just kinda confused me for a sec.


Hmm...that's a tough one to me. On one hand I can wanting people to know that she is the kind of person that is able to do that, but on the other hand, I can also see it as a way to "get back" at her for doing that to you. Does that make sense? Sorry if it doesn't, I'm tired.

Yeah, it does make sense. Sorry, I forgot to reply to this.

[Jonesey]

Re: Relationship issues

we still haven't seen a pic of her..


seriously dude, she doesn't seem worth it. you both would be best served by one simple solution.

murder/suicide*.

there. i said it.


*Please note, murder/suicide is not a good option

[ninjamonkey]

Re: Relationship issues

I'm not going to post a pic of her, but trust me, she has guys all over her.

She gets asked out pretty often, even ignoring the guy who calls her everyday doing so.

[Jonesey]

Re: Relationship issues

I'm not going to post a pic of her, but trust me, she has guys all over her.

She gets asked out pretty often, even ignoring the guy who calls her everyday doing so.

well if she has 2 legs and a you know what she's going to have guys all over her, it's a guy's nature!

Anyways, best of luck in whichever you choose, just watch out for that damned right cross!

[inkcil]

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Ninja -

1. The jealously is normal, even for a man that must part ways from his ex. The jealousy (or any other feelings) won't begin to wear off until you separate yourself from her. So start toning your talks with her down to only once a day, then 3 times a week, then once a week, once a month, etc.

2. Find someone new to "love." Or at least start looking so that you can get your mind off your ex and HER love-life.

3. Tell people about the punch if they ask. Otherwise, don't say anything.

4. If you are a person of faith, then use that to help you cope.

Lastly, your desire to continue talking to her AND about her (whether it be to friends or about the "punch") shows that you still have a unhealthy level of connection to this girl. Shake it off.

[youvalss]

Re: Relationship issues

I had a gf for 5.5 years. After 2 years we started arguing and fighting on a weekly basis. Every1 around me told me she's not good for me, but I didn't listen and kept dating her. After 4.5 years she started nugging me about getting married (I was 27 and she was 23) and after about 10 months I talked to her parents about it and they were happy we were finally doing it (I didn't tell my parents a thing...oh and they really hated her). But I just felt I couldn't stand it anymore and that I wasn't gonna do it, so we decided to take a month break and see what it would be like. I must say that during that month I hardly ever missded her. After that month we talked on the phone and I told her I was coming over to break up. When we met she started crying and really asked me not to do it, but this time I didn't fall to that trap, kissed her mother on the cheek for goodbye and apoligized that it didn't work out, kissed my gf a goodbye kiss - and dumped her for good. That was it.
After about six months I met her at work because it turned out that she's been working at the same building...so we became friends (just friends) for a while. After some time we stopped being friends and I stopped hearing from her. At that time I met my wife and was very happy (as I am today). Then she called to wish me happy b-day, so I called her too on her b-day. Six months ago she called again, so my wife (then my gf) listened to the talking and laughed a lot. My ex-gf was so weird (and stupid) she said she was around my parents' house and wanted to know what's up with me... So I told her about my gf and that we live together and all that...so she's like: "Yeah, nice. I'm doing good too, everyting is great, I'm having the time of my life..." etc. She's one of those people that will always tell you she's at her best and everything is great - even if she's falling apart and might consider suiciding. Too bad she forgot that she was talkign to me - the person who knows her the best - and I could sense that not everything was that great. But I didn't really care, I just made a laugh of it with my gf.
I don't want to tell u the bad stuff about that ex-gf, but believe me she's a freak show, she's totally screwed. Some people that met her told me they think she needs some threatment...I won't deny it...
Anyway, looking back I'm so happy I dumped her becuase if we got married it would have been HELL and it would surely ended in divorce.
And today I'm married to the best girl in the whole world! So everything turned out ok

[grismosw]

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Seriously, if you are fighting that much and can't get along with her while you are just dating there is no way in hell that you are going to get along with her if you got married. Move on. The first love is the hardest to move on from but live and learn bro. Quit wasting some of the best years of your life on this biotch.

I wouldn't even talk to her again, if you see her on campus or around town don't even acknowledge her...she doesn't deserve it.