Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

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  • MassNole
    Banned
    • Mar 2006
    • 18848

    #16
    Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

    Originally posted by kgx2thez
    I agree with the homosexuality part but I dont know about bisexuality. To me they are just confused or just down for whatever.

    As long as my kids healthy and stays out of legal trouble I'll be happy.
    I was talking about people who are really attracted to both sexes, if you are a male who is sexually attracted to other males I believe somewhere there is a circuit crossed. At least from all of the homosexual people I know none of them have ever said it was a choice they made.

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    • TheMatrix31
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      • Jul 2002
      • 52903

      #17
      Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

      As long as they come out with Male Mack Lessons, I'll be happy.

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      • slickdtc
        Grayscale
        • Aug 2004
        • 17125

        #18
        Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

        Originally posted by SPTO
        This would be my initial thought process as well but then the feeling would dissipate over time and i'd get used to the fact. I probably wouldn't be 100% comfortable with it ever but as nyisles said there's far worse things that could go wrong with your son.
        I agree with SPTO.

        I would feel better if my kid turned out straight, but they are who they are. They aren't wrong, they're just different. And that's not bad.
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        • Millennium
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          • Aug 2002
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          #19
          Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

          This thread started with a very, VERY thin chance of life. It still has a very, VERY thin chance of life, and the next backhanded comment like "taking one up the butt" and this thread gets closed.

          I am giving everyone an opportunity to be mature. Try to run with it.
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          • Brandon13
            All Star
            • Oct 2005
            • 8915

            #20
            Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

            It might bother me but I'd accept it because I think the vast majority of homosexuals are born that way.

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            • mercalnd
              MVP
              • Oct 2004
              • 4262

              #21
              Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

              I would be disapointed/worried because that would make for a tougher life path for my son, not because I would feel I failed as a father.

              Like others have stated, I believe sexual attraction is not a choice but rather a biochemical thing. I did not choose to be attracted to women, I just am. And I can't see any way I could ever be attracted to men no matter how hard I tried even if it was the normal/natural course of things. I don't see how it is any different for homosexual people.

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              • countryboy
                Growing pains
                • Sep 2003
                • 52711

                #22
                Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

                Fail because my Son turns out to be a homosexual? Not in the least.

                I can only fail him by not loving him, teaching him right from wrong, and doing the best job that I can to raise him.
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                • Trevytrev11
                  MVP
                  • Nov 2006
                  • 3259

                  #23
                  Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

                  Well I'm really pleasantly suprised to see the open-mindedness of this group...one of the main reasons I frequent these boards.

                  Like others have said, initially, there would be a sense of shock and probably dissapointment. I wouldn't be dissapointed in myself or my son, but just for the fact that I wouldn't get to share certain things that I hoped to do.

                  It'd kind of be in the same general sense of if my son didn't like sports. As a father, there are certain things you hope to share with your son like teaching him about girls, etc. and that would just be something I'd miss out on.

                  I would get over it and definitely accept what ever choice he made and would support him 100% either way.

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                  • stewaat

                    #24
                    Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

                    A) I'm not ready to be a dad
                    B) I still feel like if my kid is homosexual I failed at parenting. I believe culture/parenting shapes how kids turn out.
                    C) I would accept it...over time.
                    D) I would immediately have another son if that is my only one.

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                    • ballerzinc
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                      • Feb 2004
                      • 1831

                      #25
                      Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

                      Originally posted by stewaat
                      A) I'm not ready to be a dad
                      B) I still feel like if my kid is homosexual I failed at parenting. I believe culture/parenting shapes how kids turn out.
                      C) I would accept it...over time.
                      D) I would immediately have another son if that is my only one.
                      So you really believe you are straight because of culture and parenting? So you could have just easily had been gay?

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                      • stewaat

                        #26
                        Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

                        Originally posted by ballerzinc
                        So you really believe you are straight because of culture and parenting? So you could have just easily had been gay?
                        Yes. I believe I am heterosexual due to parenting and other influences in my life.

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                        • Chaos81
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                          • Mar 2004
                          • 17150

                          #27
                          Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

                          Originally posted by stewaat
                          Yes. I believe I am heterosexual due to parenting and other influences in my life.
                          Do you believe the same about finding a redhead better looking than brunette?


                          EDIT: Forgot to answer the original question. No, I wouldn't feel like I failed.
                          Last edited by Chaos81; 05-15-2008, 10:40 PM.

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                          • ballerzinc
                            T*mpl* *wls
                            • Feb 2004
                            • 1831

                            #28
                            Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

                            Originally posted by stewaat
                            Yes. I believe I am heterosexual due to parenting and other influences in my life.
                            Do you believe you can change whether your sexual orientation later in life then? Can you get influenced by enough heterosexual activity to turn straight?

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                            • TheGamingChef
                              MVP
                              • Jun 2006
                              • 3384

                              #29
                              Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

                              Originally posted by stewaat
                              D) I would immediately have another son if that is my only one.
                              Really? It's that important to you that your son be straight?

                              I would in no way feel like a failure if my son were to be gay. That's something that I cannot control as a parent. As long as he is happy and lives a loving, productive life, I would be happy and proud of him.

                              I'm not sure why some would be disappointed in themselves when their son is going down a path that makes him happy. To me, that is a selfish behavior - putting your own cultural expectations above your son's true happiness.

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                              • baumy300
                                Most Valuable Pepe
                                • May 2005
                                • 3998

                                #30
                                Re: Parental Question: Let's Try and Keep This 100% Mature Please

                                Originally posted by DCAllAmerican
                                Fellas IF your son happens to grow up and is a homosexual would you feel any sort of failure as a FATHER? (not as a parent but as a father)?

                                Yes I know you are supposed to LOVE your child unconditionally but that has NOTHING to do with what I am asking.

                                Keep in mind you can still LOVE someone and have things about them that you don't agree with. Just keep that in mind.

                                Mods I didn't mean any respect by this post. So if it isn't acceptable my fault
                                Awww... Are you trying to get a feel for how dads think so you can break the news to yours, DC?
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