I was talking about people who are really attracted to both sexes, if you are a male who is sexually attracted to other males I believe somewhere there is a circuit crossed. At least from all of the homosexual people I know none of them have ever said it was a choice they made.
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I was talking about people who are really attracted to both sexes, if you are a male who is sexually attracted to other males I believe somewhere there is a circuit crossed. At least from all of the homosexual people I know none of them have ever said it was a choice they made. -
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I would feel better if my kid turned out straight, but they are who they are. They aren't wrong, they're just different. And that's not bad.NHL - Philadelphia Flyers
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This thread started with a very, VERY thin chance of life. It still has a very, VERY thin chance of life, and the next backhanded comment like "taking one up the butt" and this thread gets closed.
I am giving everyone an opportunity to be mature. Try to run with it.Comment
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I would be disapointed/worried because that would make for a tougher life path for my son, not because I would feel I failed as a father.
Like others have stated, I believe sexual attraction is not a choice but rather a biochemical thing. I did not choose to be attracted to women, I just am. And I can't see any way I could ever be attracted to men no matter how hard I tried even if it was the normal/natural course of things. I don't see how it is any different for homosexual people.Comment
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Fail because my Son turns out to be a homosexual? Not in the least.
I can only fail him by not loving him, teaching him right from wrong, and doing the best job that I can to raise him.I can't shave with my eyes closed, meaning each day I have to look at myself in the mirror and respect who I see.
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Well I'm really pleasantly suprised to see the open-mindedness of this group...one of the main reasons I frequent these boards.
Like others have said, initially, there would be a sense of shock and probably dissapointment. I wouldn't be dissapointed in myself or my son, but just for the fact that I wouldn't get to share certain things that I hoped to do.
It'd kind of be in the same general sense of if my son didn't like sports. As a father, there are certain things you hope to share with your son like teaching him about girls, etc. and that would just be something I'd miss out on.
I would get over it and definitely accept what ever choice he made and would support him 100% either way.Comment
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A) I'm not ready to be a dad
B) I still feel like if my kid is homosexual I failed at parenting. I believe culture/parenting shapes how kids turn out.
C) I would accept it...over time.
D) I would immediately have another son if that is my only one.Comment
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So you really believe you are straight because of culture and parenting? So you could have just easily had been gay?Comment
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EDIT: Forgot to answer the original question. No, I wouldn't feel like I failed.Last edited by Chaos81; 05-15-2008, 10:40 PM.Comment
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Do you believe you can change whether your sexual orientation later in life then? Can you get influenced by enough heterosexual activity to turn straight?Comment
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Really? It's that important to you that your son be straight?
I would in no way feel like a failure if my son were to be gay. That's something that I cannot control as a parent. As long as he is happy and lives a loving, productive life, I would be happy and proud of him.
I'm not sure why some would be disappointed in themselves when their son is going down a path that makes him happy. To me, that is a selfish behavior - putting your own cultural expectations above your son's true happiness.Comment
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Fellas IF your son happens to grow up and is a homosexual would you feel any sort of failure as a FATHER? (not as a parent but as a father)?
Yes I know you are supposed to LOVE your child unconditionally but that has NOTHING to do with what I am asking.
Keep in mind you can still LOVE someone and have things about them that you don't agree with. Just keep that in mind.
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