Tuff Times again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

[RoyalBoyle78]

Well, As some of you guys know, I lost my grandfather over two years ago from lung cancer, yes he did smoke and he quite for 7 years and got the cancer which was crazy. Now I'm dealing with another bad delima, My finance grandfather whom I love very much and he loves me very much two, is dying a painful death right now. He has a lung disease that is uncureable, it's called pulmonary fibrosis, and this man never smoked a cigarette in his life. He has been in the hospital for a month now, he went in when we came home from vacation on may 26th. He went in because Pneumonia, it got worse after a few days and he then had to be intubated, and have the respirator help him breathe, he was on that for a week and a half, then he pulled the tube out and was breathing on his own, it was a miracle.

He then was put in a nursing home for a few days, and then he was doing great, then just in the middle of last week he got sick again, and just yesterday he ended up back in ICU, but now he is in critical condition, it's not looking good at all. It's just so damn sad, I have been driving his wife everyday to the hospital back and forth, while driving my step kids to school and now camp and then back to the hospital with my finance, and then I have to pick up my daughter, which I share custody with my ex, and drive her back and forth and it's just so damn overwhelming right now. I'm just going crazy, her grandfather loves me and so do I, I lost both of my own grandfathers, and he is like my own, and It seems like I'm going to lose him now.

And to through more wood on the fire, I just found out that My finance is pregnant. So with here two twins, and my daughter we have a big family, and now we have another one on the way, this is getting to be to much for me to handle, I didn't get to sleep until 5am, and had to wake up to come to work and 8am, I so stress and tired man.


Sorry guys, but this is whats going on in my life right now, also sorry for the bad witting.

[boomhauertjs]

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Hang in there man and congrats on the new baby.

[baumy300]

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Keep the faith man. I can't relate, but I can sympathize. They say everything happens for a reason. How this can somehow turn out to be a good thing or have a positive effect, I don't know. If you look at it with compassion and selflessness you will see that he no longer has to suffer, and therefore is going to a better place.

Death sucks. It gets us all. Show emotion, but also celebrate the mans life before it is over.

It won't be easy, but try and stay strong.

[nyisles16]

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FF - hang in there buddy- my thoughts and prayers are with you and yours..

[moose1619]

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I sad a quick prayer for you, remember you will net be led through something unless you are tuff enough to handle it. A new baby is a lways a blessing, and even though it looks tough right now, down the road it will seem like a cake walk. Just remember my sig and you will make it through a tough time.

[CaptainZombie]

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Frank, busting your chops aside about the console swapping, that does sound like you have a lot going on man. Sorry to hear about your fiance's grandfather and congrats on the baby. Things will work themselves out one way or another, just remember as a father, kids are a blessing. It sounds like you aren't happy about your fiance being pregnant or you are just shocked, unless I misunderstood.

[SPTO]

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Be strong FF. Look at it this way God is taking away one life but is blessing your family with a new life to bring joy and happiness to the world. If you want to get real philosophical think of it as the reincarnated soul of your fiance's grandfather.

Congrats on the baby and I will have your fiance's grandfather in my thoughts.

[RoyalBoyle78]

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Frank, busting your chops aside about the console swapping, that does sound like you have a lot going on man. Sorry to hear about your fiancee's grandfather and congrats on the baby. Things will work themselves out one way or another, just remember as a father, kids are a blessing. It sounds like you aren't happy about your fiancee being pregnant or you are just shocked, unless I misunderstood.

I am happy, but it's just hard to be in a good mood with all that going on. I never been so mentally stressed, I feel like world is on shoulders right now.


Thanks everyone for your prayers.

[callmetaternuts]

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Hang in there, just keep the faith and huddle the family together

[RoyalBoyle78]

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Well, today we lost a great man, My finance grandfather passed away peacefully at 3:14 pm, He was 83 years old, R.I.P grandpa Felix.

Again, thank you guys for your prayers, his is in a better place now, God rest his soul.

[auburntigersfan]

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Sorry for your loss, I'm sure you will become a stronger person through this trial.

[Pared]

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Sorry to read FF. Hang in there. Your family is in my prayers.

With that said, rejoice on the beautiful baby on the way. It's a blessing in disguise.

[nyisles16]

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Well, today we lost a great man, My finance grandfather passed away peacefully at 3:14 pm, He was 83 years old, R.I.P grandpa Felix.

Again, thank you guys for your prayers, his is in a better place now, God rest his soul.

very sorry to hear FF.. just know he's in a better place and not suffering anymore.. Keep his memory close at heart..

[CaptainZombie]

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Sorry to hear about your loss Football.