Trick my condolences go out to you and you wife. I'm sure right now it seems like things will never get better but over time things will start to improve. You just have to stay strong and be there for you wife. Just take things one day at a time and you'll get through this difficult time.
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Re: Never thought it would happen to us
Trick my condolences go out to you and you wife. I'm sure right now it seems like things will never get better but over time things will start to improve. You just have to stay strong and be there for you wife. Just take things one day at a time and you'll get through this difficult time.I've heard this "patience is a virtue" junk all my life. I'm happy to say I have no virtue, no scruples, and no desire to wait too long for anything. In my humble opinion instant gratification takes too long!
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the same happened to my wife and i ... it was awful .... but time healed those wounds and a year later we have the most precious gift in the world.
stay strong, be there for each other, and you will smile again.Individuality: Always remember that you are unique. Just like everybody else.
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Trick my condolences go out to you and you wife. I'm sure right now it seems like things will never get better but over time things will start to improve. You just have to stay strong and be there for you wife. Just take things one day at a time and you'll get through this difficult time.Comment
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I wrote a letter to the baby...hope you guys don't mind me posting it up here. if theres a problem mods please delete.
Dear Baby,
I longed to feel you kick inside your womb. I wanted see your face in the ultrasoundpictures. And most of all I wanted to be the first person you saw when you opened your eyes. Now I will never get that. For some damn reason God had you go before you could be further conceived...maybe to save us some heartache...maybe to spare you. Either way it doesn't lessen the pain. I will always wonder if you were going to be Elijah Nathaniel or maybe you would've been my little dollface...Evan Elizabeth or Solomei...I guess we didn't decide on a girls name yet. Though the presence of you was very short....it has imprinted me forever. They say hearts can be mended...but mine will always have a hole where its missing you! When we found out that you died....a big part of me died. Though lifes cruel circle will force everybody to go on and even though your mom and I feel like we can't....you've made us stronger...and even for a brief moment in time...you made us feel worthy and blessed. Sweet child of mine may you rest in peace.
Love always and forever
Daddy (Patrick Justin Murakami)
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Sitting here with tears in my eyes after having read that. That will help you, and believe me I know what you just went through. My only daughter was killed when she was seven. My son was miscarried also, 38 years ago, and it's still there, although some things happened in my life to let me know that I had been forgiven, but that took many, many years of guilt.
You did nothing wrong. This will make you stronger for your other child. Love your wife, and keep the faith.Comment
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My condolences go out to you and your wife.
My mother has had 2 miscarriages, even years afterward when they are somehow brought up I notice how sad of an experience it is. You will make it through it and it will make you stronger.WUSTLComment
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We had a miscarriage. We thought everything would go through smooth much like the first. I know only time will heal us...but I don't know if I could try to have a kid again with the chance of having to go through this again. If I was my wife I'd probably die having to go through everything. Her body is releasing everything...and I feel helpless. I don't know what to say so I just sit there...holding her and doing whatever she needs me to do. But every commercial on tv is a pregnancy test...or showing babies on tv etc. This is my only way to vent I guess...sorry.
If anybody has some real advice I'd appreciate it.Comment
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My condolences Trick. All I can say is to be there for each other. A miscarriage is no less painful. Your letter was beautiful and moved me to tears. No doubt you're a great Dad.
I wish you all the best. Love your family, because everything else is nothing. God Bless.Comment
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Sorry to hear that man. Just bunker down with the wife for a while and try to help each other get through it.Check out my Tampa Bay Buccaneers CFM Thread.
You too can be a 5* recruit at FSU.......
Originally posted by TwelveozPlaya21add worthless Xavier Lee to that list..Originally posted by MassNoleCFL here he comes. Pfft, wait that would require learning a playbook. McDonalds here he comes.Comment
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That letter was.....wow.
I'm sorry, Trick. We're all here for you, man.Comment
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My condolences. If you need to talk, shoot me a PM. Over the last 2 1/2 years, my wife and I had 2 miscarriages, one at 10 weeks, one at 6. It was brutal for both of us. But we talked it through, kept communication up and realized we still wanted to try. Our son is due on September 4th, but may be induced tomorrow. So it can and will work out.Comment
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Thanks and yes, we are going to find out the sex. My wife wants to make sure we get all the right stuff...
As for the second part, I'm glad I have my own office, as I'm holding back the tears as I type. I don't even know what to say, man. Bless you two (three I guess) and I'll pray that you find peace...
And EG, I hope all goes well with the birth.Comment
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Thanks and yes, we are going to find out the sex. My wife wants to make sure we get all the right stuff...
As for the second part, I'm glad I have my own office, as I'm holding back the tears as I type. I don't even know what to say, man. Bless you two (three I guess) and I'll pray that you find peace...
And EG, I hope all goes well with the birth.Comment
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