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Never thought it would happen to us
We had a miscarriage. We thought everything would go through smooth much like the first. I know only time will heal us...but I don't know if I could try to have a kid again with the chance of having to go through this again. If I was my wife I'd probably die having to go through everything. Her body is releasing everything...and I feel helpless. I don't know what to say so I just sit there...holding her and doing whatever she needs me to do. But every commercial on tv is a pregnancy test...or showing babies on tv etc. This is my only way to vent I guess...sorry.
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Damn man, sorry to hear that. All I can say is continue to be there for her.PS: You guys are great.
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Re: Never thought it would happen to us
My advice would to just be there for your wife, whatever she needs...I'm sorry to hear about what happened.PSN-Shugarooo
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Sorry to hear that man. I've been there before and it sucks. My gal had one 4 years ago. All you can do is be there for each other and things will get better.GT: Herkyalert
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Re: Never thought it would happen to us
I'm so sorry to hear that. As others have said just be there for your wife and be as supportive as you can.Member of the Official OS Bills Backers Club
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I am very sorry to hear about your loss. They say time heals all wounds, and its true. Just be there for one another. It may not seem like it now, but things will get better.I can't shave with my eyes closed, meaning each day I have to look at myself in the mirror and respect who I see.
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That's awful news, man. You and your wife stay strong. Just be there for her like the others are saying. You'll get through it in time.MLB: Cincinnati Reds
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You are doing the right thing. Just hold your wife and be there any way you can. How far along was she? My sister had one and she is finally getting over it. It is tough, just surround yourself with love ones. Good luck bro.Comment
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We got the results same day...and it was A. Better for my wife's health in the long run...she was 5 weeks. We have been planning for about that long. (This would have been #2, our first had no problems whatsoever thank God)
Thanks for the support guys...i'm at work (wish i didn't have to be but can't afford not to be) and I can't focus and I don't want to talk to my co-workers about it because it will spread like wildfire.Comment
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we just found out same day...she had all the symptoms...weird cravings...random tiredness (like needing naps...which she usually doesn't do) and of course nausea. she woke up on friday with heavy bleeding and cramping...went to the gyno and they told her she needed a blood test for either A)miscarriage or B)ectopic pregnancy (baby inside tubes) either way it was a lose lose situation.
We got the results same day...and it was A. Better for my wife's health in the long run...she was 5 weeks. We have been planning for about that long. (This would have been #2, our first had no problems whatsoever thank God)
Thanks for the support guys...i'm at work (wish i didn't have to be but can't afford not to be) and I can't focus and I don't want to talk to my co-workers about it because it will spread like wildfire.Comment
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Re: Never thought it would happen to us
Trick let me first tell you how sorry I am to hear about your family's loss. I have a feeling you feel like your world is falling apart around you, but things will definitely get better.
Just remember that time will help you heal. If TV is making it too hard to function try talking to your wife, seeing how she feels. Also the internet is a good resource. Anything is better than sitting around all day thinking about it.
Communication can also help a couple heal.Comment
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Re: Never thought it would happen to us
YEah it will be hard for a while, but it will get better. Just hang in there and watch your wife. To make sure she doesn't slip into a depression.Comment
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