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  • Sandman42
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    • Aug 2004
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    #361
    Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

    What's your guys visitors/messages look like?

    I get 23 visitors/week. Probably 1-2 unsolicited messages a week. On messages I send out I have about a 40% reply rate.

    Also I don't know what it is, but I seem to have the most luck with bisexual girls.
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    • NDAlum
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      • Jun 2010
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      #362
      For Mr. Nachos

      It could have been worse. I went on a date and told the girl I thought she would really like my friend. I didn't think that one through lol
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      • cjonesfan921
        UGH, next year
        • Jan 2005
        • 20081

        #363
        Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

        I probably need to fix up my profile as I get zilch in unsolicited messages.

        Also the actual messages I send out are just Hey...haha, don't feel like wasting my time I guess....I figure if she likes what she sees, she will reply anyway!

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        • CMH
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          • Oct 2002
          • 26203

          #364
          Originally posted by cjonesfan921
          I probably need to fix up my profile as I get zilch in unsolicited messages.

          Also the actual messages I send out are just Hey...haha, don't feel like wasting my time I guess....I figure if she likes what she sees, she will reply anyway!
          You're hurting yourself with just hey messages.


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          • Fresh Tendrils
            Strike Hard and Fade Away
            • Jul 2002
            • 36131

            #365
            Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

            I need to take the time and take better pictures sometime soon. I feel like that's hurting me the most.



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            • Sandman42
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              • Aug 2004
              • 15186

              #366
              Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

              Originally posted by Fresh Tendrils
              I need to take the time and take better pictures sometime soon. I feel like that's hurting me the most.
              Yeah, the pictures are pretty much the deal maker/breaker. I switched up my pictures a week and a half ago and went from 10 visitors/week to 23 and my reply rate on messages basically doubled.

              Only thing holding me back is my height (5'8") really. Never really get responses from anyone over 5'6", including a couple saying that I seem cool, but am too short for them.
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              • CMH
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                • Oct 2002
                • 26203

                #367
                Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                Originally posted by Fresh Tendrils
                I need to take the time and take better pictures sometime soon. I feel like that's hurting me the most.
                I'm impressed by people that have so many pictures of themselves. I'm pretty sure I've been in maybe 2 photos in the last four months. And I don't have those photos in my possession.

                So I feel you there. I have the same problem.

                Took down my profile. I like this one girl and gonna see how far it goes. So far so good as the feeling appears mutual.
                "It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace

                "You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob Neyer

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                • Pmoney327
                  Banned
                  • Aug 2004
                  • 589

                  #368
                  Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                  Originally posted by Sandman42
                  Yeah, the pictures are pretty much the deal maker/breaker. I switched up my pictures a week and a half ago and went from 10 visitors/week to 23 and my reply rate on messages basically doubled.

                  Only thing holding me back is my height (5'8") really. Never really get responses from anyone over 5'6", including a couple saying that I seem cool, but am too short for them.
                  You're complaining about being 5'8?

                  Try being 5'4.

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                  • Fresh Tendrils
                    Strike Hard and Fade Away
                    • Jul 2002
                    • 36131

                    #369
                    Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                    I hate mirror shots on dating sites. Maybe I'm just being over critical. I have a tripod, but it is hard to look relaxed, look good, and take a good picture and have everything look natural.



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                    • Scott
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                      • Jul 2002
                      • 20030

                      #370
                      Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                      Originally posted by CMH
                      You're hurting yourself with just hey messages.


                      Sent from my mobile device.
                      I agree with this, some girls won't respond to one word messages or "nice pics.."
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                      • SuperBowlNachos
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                        • Jul 2004
                        • 10218

                        #371
                        Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                        Originally posted by cjonesfan921
                        I probably need to fix up my profile as I get zilch in unsolicited messages.

                        Also the actual messages I send out are just Hey...haha, don't feel like wasting my time I guess....I figure if she likes what she sees, she will reply anyway!
                        I only attract fat chicks. The date that bailed on me was the first unsolicited message I got from a non-fat chick. I don't want to be mean and don't think girls should look like models, but some girls need to know what "average" is. Average is not having a muffin top.

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                        • SuperBowlNachos
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                          • Jul 2004
                          • 10218

                          #372
                          Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                          I just 5* whoever posted their link, return the favor haha

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                          • CMH
                            Making you famous
                            • Oct 2002
                            • 26203

                            #373
                            Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                            Originally posted by Fresh Tendrils
                            I hate mirror shots on dating sites. Maybe I'm just being over critical. I have a tripod, but it is hard to look relaxed, look good, and take a good picture and have everything look natural.
                            Same here. Two women asked me for a more current pic and I had to do the mirror shot. It was my only option. One was a go on a date. The other was one of those disappearing acts after we agreed on a date and day (after I sent the photo as well, so yeah).

                            I've heard and read from some women that say they don't mind the mirror photo. I think they get that some people only have that option. They just prefer you be mindful of your background (no messy room. Seems like common sense but I've seen women put up some stupid mirror shots with crap all over their floors. And clean the mirror) and don't do anything a woman would do like those stupid *** duck lips (men do this. I don't know why).

                            BUT if you have a tripod, why even set up a mirror shot? You should be able to set up a nice video of yourself sitting/standing and take screen caps from the video. That's what I would do.
                            "It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace

                            "You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob Neyer

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                            • Fresh Tendrils
                              Strike Hard and Fade Away
                              • Jul 2002
                              • 36131

                              #374
                              Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                              Originally posted by SuperBowlNachos
                              I just 5* whoever posted their link, return the favor haha
                              GuywholivesinTX? Damn troll, lol.



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                              • CMH
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                                • Oct 2002
                                • 26203

                                #375
                                Re: Anyone try online dating sites?

                                Originally posted by SuperBowlNachos
                                I only attract fat chicks. The date that bailed on me was the first unsolicited message I got from a non-fat chick. I don't want to be mean and don't think girls should look like models, but some girls need to know what "average" is. Average is not having a muffin top.
                                Don't start me on this.

                                Curvy is probably the most wide open for interpretation. I've seen really big girls to thin girls use curvy.

                                There's a site (maybe POF?) that for men goes from thin to athletic and nothing else. And I'm always caught in-between. I would consider myself athletic but I'm not muscular built and that would be a women's first thought. But then I think thin means rail thin to women and I'm not rail thin either.
                                "It may well be that we spectators, who are not divinely gifted as athletes, are the only ones able to truly see, articulate and animate the experience of the gift we are denied. And that those who receive and act out the gift of athletic genius must, perforce, be blind and dumb about it -- and not because blindness and dumbness are the price of the gift, but because they are its essence." - David Foster Wallace

                                "You'll not find more penny-wise/pound-foolish behavior than in Major League Baseball." - Rob Neyer

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