For My Bar/Lounge/Club Going Folks, Question For You

[ProfessaPackMan]

How many of you have gotten attached to the first chick that you danced with in the club?

When I say "attached" I don't mean like all of a sudden you want to marry her and have 3 kids by the chick but that she's the only chick that you really want to dance with for that night? Does it bother you when the first chick you dance with goes and dances with another guy? Mind you, she is a complete stranger.

I ask this because me and my cousin were having this conversation and he admitted that he does sometimes fall into this trap and I kinda had to put him on the spot for that because well....he's falling for chicks that he don't know other than the fact that she freaked him on the floor for a song or two LOL.

But yea, what are your thoughts on it?

[ex carrabba fan]

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Of course.

Especially if she's cute. I mean if she's down to be yours for the night well then mission accomplished early on.

Now if the girl is a 6/10 then na you should probably explore more. Depends on the prospects but for the most part I don't see anything wrong with being with the first person you dance with for the rest of the night.

[Vince]

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Yeah, but I usually leave the dance before they get to and move on to another girl..Not saying girls leave when i dance with them. I generally a decent dancer, but it does happen that they leave, so i'll leave first and let them come after me...If I see them again then I know it's good to go....Lately though, I just like chilling, not much dancing. And I usually go out with girl and guy friends so....

[Cebby]

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How can you get jealous over someone you don't know dancing?

Personally, I don't get attached to any ho at the "lounges" we've been going to. I want to get in and out quick; what she does before, after, and possibly during that time is of no concern.

Though the last two times, my friend's girl has hooked me up with her friends. Granted, one was the first time I couldn't pull the trigger on a girl who was down, and with the other I was the recipient of the most brutal ****block ever, but it made the night a lot easier to have a target at 11:30 than hunting at 2:30.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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Damn Cebby you just gave me an idea for another thread to start lol.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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Nevermind because I got so many **** blocking stories it might get the thread locked lol. If someone else wants to start it up then go right ahead.

But Vince, I'm just like you man. Nowadays when I go, I ain't doing much dancing either. At the MOST I'll probably in at least 2-3 dances with a few chicks or my girl if she comes but other than that I'm usually playing the cut with my drink in my hand.

Plus, when your 6' and up, ain't really too many dances you can pull off in the club lol.

[Cebby]

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Nevermind because I got so many **** blocking stories it might get the thread locked lol. If someone else wants to start it up then go right ahead.

You don't even know.

I'm in my hotel room and under the covers with this girl and about to get it (and her friends watching on the couch so there's a chance for more), when my roommate's cousin and his friend decide to come in, set up in the corner and chop it up for 2 hours. I was like "what the **** are you doing?"

Plus, when your 6' and up, ain't really too many dances you can pull off in the club lol.

You can always do the Ricky Bobby and POSE FOR THE FRAME!

[ProfessaPackMan]

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LMAO @ chop it up for 2 hours. They would've had to take that to the car if it was going to be that long.

I still remember Summer of 2003, me and this chick(GF at the time)were about to "get it in" and all of a sudden her best friend comes down there(we were in the basement at the time, which over the years I've learned is the biggest trap)and her fat *** comes stomping down there with some food talking about "I HATE BOYS. THEY'RE ALL ***HOLES!!!"

Well, you know how females are, instead of telling her best friend to come back later, they start having a conversation about why her big *** can't get a man. Needless to say, I went home a very unhappy person and was liable to get arrested that night.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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That is just as bad and as lame as people getting attached to chicks off of myspace and facebook. Get mad when they see them commenting on another dude's page LMAO.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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LOL @ the e-stalkers.

"Oh so now you trying to play me and my homeboy now? What?? How do I know" I saw you write on his wall: Hey my favorite cousin!! Are you still picking me up from Aunt Pam's House tomorrow??? lol :-D"

[ProfessaPackMan]

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We must not have many clubbers here :-))

[ProfessaPackMan]

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I'm not talking about meeting some chick for some one night action. I'm talking about you dancing with a chick off just ONE song then going about your business but then catch feelings when you see the chick you JUST danced with, dancing with another dude.

[headrulz101]

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I'm a pretty good dancer (better when I'm drunk though!) and I've danced with many random chicks before. In my early days clubbing, I'd be pretty ticked off when I'd catch the girl I just danced with, grinding another man's stuff. Though, you have to realize that most of these chicks are drunk (and horny) and they probably don't even know it's a different guy they are dancing with. If she comes back to you, then there is a connection!

I've encountered a few "clings" as well, and man, sometimes you wish they'd just move along!

[GSW]

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this whole thread is comedy,cause nobodys gonna just come out and be the herb...

I'll be your huckleberry though.

Only happened once, because i was drunk it was late and i was trying to...you know.

Danced with this chick in vegas, she was EXTRA bad...like...man...anyway then i went about my business come back and she dancing with some other dude, im like damn...i did kinda get bent out of shape...she came up to me later looking at me with the bedroom eyes, but i was drunk and over it, so i gave her the gas face, she got pissed, and there went my pie for the night

now when i go to clubs and lounges i don't even dance, i might get a two step in for a song, but for the most part im layin low trying not to get too drunk

[ProfessaPackMan]

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Just gon blame it on the alc-alc-alc-alcohol huh man LOL.