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  • TheMatrix31
    RF
    • Jul 2002
    • 52906

    #61
    Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

    All these social conventions about this are dumb. Do what you want.

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    • seasprite
      Phenom
      • Jul 2008
      • 8984

      #62
      Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

      I suggest watching Swingers................you will find your answer there






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      • RockinDaMike
        All Star
        • Feb 2003
        • 9091

        #63
        Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

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        • cmutat17
          Banned
          • Apr 2015
          • 127

          #64
          Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

          I left it alone for yesterday and I texted her today and everything seemed cool. The only problem is we're no really asking each other questions to get to know better. Should I start?

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          • Hockeynut99
            MVP
            • Jan 2013
            • 1328

            #65
            Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

            Hit it and leave it.

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            • Hockeynut99
              MVP
              • Jan 2013
              • 1328

              #66
              Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

              Originally posted by cmutat17
              I left it alone for yesterday and I texted her today and everything seemed cool. The only problem is we're no really asking each other questions to get to know better. Should I start?
              Yep. Texting is the best because they feel safe and they open up way too much in my opinion. I remember meeting some ladies online and after a few days of texting they were falling in love lol. It happens and texting makes things go way faster because both of you are in your comfort zone so to speak.

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              • kehlis
                Moderator
                • Jul 2008
                • 27738

                #67
                Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

                Originally posted by cmutat17
                I left it alone for yesterday and I texted her today and everything seemed cool. The only problem is we're no really asking each other questions to get to know better. Should I start?

                What are you expecting out of this with 2000 miles between the two of you?

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                • Cusefan
                  Earlwolfx on XBL
                  • Oct 2003
                  • 9820

                  #68
                  Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

                  Originally posted by kehlis
                  What are you expecting out of this with 2000 miles between the two of you?

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                  • Hockeynut99
                    MVP
                    • Jan 2013
                    • 1328

                    #69
                    Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

                    Try that 1800 mile relationship last year it was very tough. And I am off one week a month so I visit her one week a month. Very costly.

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                    • cmutat17
                      Banned
                      • Apr 2015
                      • 127

                      #70
                      Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

                      Originally posted by kehlis
                      What are you expecting out of this with 2000 miles between the two of you?

                      I don't know. I guess just to get to know someone else.

                      Originally posted by Hockeynut99
                      Try that 1800 mile relationship last year it was very tough. And I am off one week a month so I visit her one week a month. Very costly.

                      Was/Is it worth it?

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                      • Hockeynut99
                        MVP
                        • Jan 2013
                        • 1328

                        #71
                        Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

                        Originally posted by cmutat17
                        I don't know. I guess just to get to know someone else.




                        Was/Is it worth it?
                        She was 27 super hot! And I am 43 you do the math! After I realize it was not fair to her because she wants kids and I don't. I had to let it end. But my god she was playboy fine and no lie!!

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                        • Hockeynut99
                          MVP
                          • Jan 2013
                          • 1328

                          #72
                          Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

                          Been catfish before lol that was fun (not) lol. But I gave up online dating only local now. So back to hit it and leave it.

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                          • slickdtc
                            Grayscale
                            • Aug 2004
                            • 17125

                            #73
                            What to do after you get the girls number?

                            Originally posted by cmutat17
                            I don't know. I guess just to get to know someone else.

                            Then why are you so worried about when it's okay to call/text her? Put yourself out there, if she wants to hit you back, she will. Now that you've already done that, call/text when you want to. If she continues to respond, you may be on to something.

                            If you're honestly not deadset on making this in to an online, long distance, or domestic relationship, there shouldn't be pressure.

                            But it sounds like you're looking for a girlfriend despite the difference in location.

                            I've never done this, so maybe I'm way off. But if you're talking regularly for a while, eventually you're gonna have to ask up front what's the expectation? Something she wants to pursue or just a friend to chat with online/phone.

                            Just like face to face. You start by hanging out with a prearranged activity (movie, with friends, etc). Eventually as you get to know each other better, you gotta ask if the girl wants to be exclusive and make it "official."

                            I mean, it's the Internet. If you feel you've reached the point where you wanna take it to the next step, just be up front about it. Worst case is she stops talking to you.

                            Everyone overthinks this stuff. Maybe it's because I'm older now and have been in a long term relationship and now marriage, but those games are for kids. As an adult, we have to juggle our jobs, families, hobbies, and responsibilities. Why make a relationship into something you have to worry about? It should be fun and exciting especially at the beginning. You aren't obligated to anything like you are to get up for work or pay your bills... just be cool, go with the flow, and enjoy the ride. I look back fondly on the summer I spent chasing my wife, and no matter the ups (first kiss!) and downs ("why are you throwing away a good thing?"), I remember stopping a few times to just reflect on this adventure of courtship. Even if it were to end, I was gonna learn and grow from the experience.
                            Last edited by slickdtc; 06-23-2015, 10:37 AM.
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                            • Hockeynut99
                              MVP
                              • Jan 2013
                              • 1328

                              #74
                              Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

                              Originally posted by slickdtc
                              Then why are you so worried about when it's okay to call/text her? Put yourself out there, if she wants to hit you back, she will. Now that you've already done that, call/text when you want to. If she continues to respond, you may be on to something.

                              If you're honestly not deadset on making this in to an online, long distance, or domestic relationship, there shouldn't be pressure.

                              But it sounds like you're looking for a girlfriend despite the difference in location.

                              I've never done this, so maybe I'm way off. But if you're talking regularly for a while, eventually you're gonna have to ask up front what's the expectation? Something she wants to pursue or just a friend to chat with online/phone.

                              Just like face to face. You start by hanging out with a prearranged activity (movie, with friends, etc). Eventually as you get to know each other better, you gotta ask if the girl wants to be exclusive and make it "official."

                              I mean, it's the Internet. If you feel you've reached the point where you wanna take it to the next step, just be up front about it. Worst case is she stops talking to you.

                              Everyone overthinks this stuff. Maybe it's because I'm older now and have been in a long term relationship and now marriage, but those games are for kids. As an adult, we have to juggle our jobs, families, hobbies, and responsibilities. Why make a relationship into something you have to worry about? It should be fun and exciting especially at the beginning. You aren't obligated to anything like you are to get up for work or pay your bills... just be cool, go with the flow, and enjoy the ride. I look back fondly on the summer I spent chasing my wife, and no matter the ups (first kiss!) and downs ("why are you throwing away a good thing?"), I remember stopping a few times to just reflect on this adventure of courtship. Even if it were to end, I was gonna learn and grow from the experience.

                              This is the key but imagine if you knew that at a younger age than you are now. How much different dating would have been!?

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                              • JBH3
                                Marvel's Finest
                                • Jan 2007
                                • 13506

                                #75
                                Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

                                Originally posted by SPTO
                                Meeting women at a club is strictly for hedonism. Sure there is the chance of a relationship but that chance is so slim that it's better to just go with the flow and get as much cardio (if you will) as you can.
                                I met my wife at a nightclub in DC. We've now known each other for 11 years and been married for 9 years, have 2 boys, and are completely in love and happy.

                                I say this to simply address... It doesn't matter where two people meet each other as long as they both want the same thing and are ready for commitment.
                                Originally posted by Edmund Burke
                                All that is needed for the triumph of evil, is for good men to do nothing.

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