What to do after you get the girls number?

[Cane_Mutiny]

Re: What to do after you get the girls number?

Are your parents 200 years old?

[Jasong7777]

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I think it depends on the vibe she was giving. If she is giving off that "I would like to **** you" vibe, then I would call back ASAP. If she is giving off that "Yea we can chill" or "I would like to get to know you" vibe, then a day or two is fine. If she is girlfriend material, the day or two rule applies.

[Jukeman]

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on a serious note, I call whenever they cross my mind, whether its later on in that day or months later.....No rulez for me, If I want something Im going to go get it....

[DC]

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Also remember girls get ego boosts when giving their # out to dudes. SO it might not even be about YOU

[Coach Bryant]

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When you say, "hooked up at the club" what do you mean? You telling us she let you beep beep beep beep beep, or did y'all just make out, kissing and stuff? If she actually let you hit, man I don't think I'd ever call again unless it were to get it again. Why would you even think about starting a relationship with a loose girl like that? Even if it was just making out, man, there will be another "you" in the club with her soon.

To answer the question, back when I was out there, if I got a girl's number, I'd usually wait 2-3 days before calling. You just don't want to seem too eager.

Good advice! My Dad once told me that if a girl will jump in the sack with you that easy she'll do it with anyone because you're no Elvis Presley! A girl like that is good for a good time, but she's not someone that you would want to settle down with.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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Also remember girls get ego boosts when giving their # out to dudes. SO it might not even be about YOU

SO ******* TRUE!!!

[JBH3]

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Pretty much. While you're waiting 2-3 days the other guy that got her # that night is probably hitting it.

Yea...basically.

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Look man (op)...I met my wife in the club like I already mentioned.

I never asked her for her number, I told her I'm going to GET your number before the night is over.

Assertivness is key.

I then called her that night once I got home to make sure she got home safely. She still reminisces about the night we met and the way in which I approached her today, and when she does her eyes get all dreamy.

We've been happily married since 2005 (there's been ups and downs of course, but happy nonetheless).

I guess the bottom line for you is what are you looking for?

A quick score, or your future wife.

Me...I sowed my oats in Japan, so when I got back stateside I was ready to settle down.

[KG]

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Also remember girls get ego boosts when giving their # out to dudes. SO it might not even be about YOU

Explain this?

[DC]

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Simple. Females LOVE attention. One of the most important things they live for. If she has dudes SWEATING her in the club, others see it. Bring attention to her.

A lot of Dudes CALLING her phone through out the day, is an ego boost. Gives her a temporary feeling of "importance." So thats why I say some might give you the number but really don't want to even entertain you. They do it for the sport/gratification of it.

Thats why I have learned that you should give your number to a female. If she really wants to speak to you, she will call. Don't even waste time taking numbers because that just groups you with the other thirsty dudes that she has probably come in contact with that night

[KG]

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Simple. Females LOVE attention. One of the most important things they live for. If she has dudes SWEATING her in the club, others see it. Bring attention to her.

A lot of Dudes CALLING her phone through out the day, is an ego boost. Gives her a temporary feeling of "importance." So thats why I say some might give you the number but really don't want to even entertain you. They do it for the sport/gratification of it.

Thats why I have learned that you should give your number to a female. If she really wants to speak to you, she will call. Don't even waste time taking numbers because that just groups you with the other thirsty dudes that she has probably come in contact with that night

LOL. See I would think that females would love dudes sweating her but not giving out the #. That way it's even more of an ego boost.

[DC]

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Nah it is actually more of an ego boost when they are out with one dude and they have other dudes blowing their phone up. Makes it seem like they are in high demand

[matt8204]

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Nah it is actually more of an ego boost when they are out with one dude and they have other dudes blowing their phone up. Makes it seem like they are in high demand

Isn't that what Mystery discusses on "The Pick-Up Artist"? You have to give the idea that you have "higher value" than just that one person. I don't know of too many girls or guys who like people of the opposite sex who are clingy and give off the vibe that they "need" that one person, or else they can't ever be happy. I think you're more attractive when the other party knows that you have options. It also allows you to be more confident and less uptight when dating. It's not the end of the world if it doesn't work out with one person, because you know there are others out there who find you appealing as well.

[ProfessaPackMan]

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DC out here spittin' that knowledge.

[YuNgWuN]

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So i text her yesterday instead of calling (swell move, i know) asked if she wanted to do something this friday she said probably. Well **** I hate that, To top it all off she was at a club telling me to come out and get drunk with her, wow. Anyways so I was gonna call her tonight but I dont wanna feel clingy so ill give her a shout tomorrow.

[DC]

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So i text her yesterday instead of calling (swell move, i know) asked if she wanted to do something this friday she said probably. Well **** I hate that, To top it all off she was at a club telling me to come out and get drunk with her, wow. Anyways so I was gonna call her tonight but I dont wanna feel clingy so ill give her a shout tomorrow.

1. 1st form of contact being a Text is the easy way out

2. Don't "go out and get drunk with her" - What the hell are you getting out of this? Let her do that with her female friends. If she says, "Come over my house, I got drunk tonight" then ok. But please don't go to a club to party with a girl that you don't even think is in to you.