What to do after you get the girls number?

[Jukeman]

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I recently met a gurl and she ask me the same thing...Telling me to take her to the club(was already going wit the homies) so she can show me her moves there and after the club....oddly I passed on her.....Sometimes you just get tired of these "fast" woman...

[DC]

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It ain't about being FAST, it is another thing that comes down to an ego boost for a woman. One time this female asked one of my boys to "come to the club with her." So he met her there and come to find out she told the SAME THING to like 6 other dudes. So then it makes it seem like dudes are just SWEATING her. Thats why they do that mess. I wouldn't go to the club with my own women, let alone a girl I don't even know. Don't fall for that if a female asks you to "come to the club with me."

[DC]

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I recently met a gurl and she ask me the same thing...Telling me to take her to the club(was already going wit the homies) so she can show me her moves there and after the club....oddly I passed on her.....Sometimes you just get tired of these "fast" woman...

This is a pet peeve of mine. Whenever a woman requests you to "TAKE" them somewhere. I call them out on it.

One time this girl I met through my man's gf KEPT asking me, "When are you going to take me out." I don't think I ever saw her again after the first double outting we went on with my man and his woman. Don't ask me when am I going to TAKE YOU OUT~

[wsu_gb23]

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how about you just play it cool. If you're in college and 25 or younger than I wouldn't even bother with finding a girlfriend. Your college days are supposed to be your best times. Enjoy it. You'll find a woman soon enough and then get married and wish you were in college or single again..

[matt8204]

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how about you just play it cool. If you're in college and 25 or younger than I wouldn't even bother with finding a girlfriend. Your college days are supposed to be your best times. Enjoy it. You'll find a woman soon enough and then get married and wish you were in college or single again..

Agreed. Even age 30 is time enough to settle down. They say that true adulthood doesn't really begin until around age 26 these days anyway. This isn't 1950, where the average person was married by 22 or 23. People are waiting longer these days, finishing school and/or launching their careers before getting hitched. To me, that's the right way to do it. Get your own life in order before getting someone else deeply involved in it.

[Jukeman]

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Agreed. Even age 30 is time enough to settle down. They say that true adulthood doesn't really begin until around age 26 these days anyway. This isn't 1950, where the average person was married by 22 or 23. People are waiting longer these days, finishing school and/or launching their careers before getting hitched. To me, that's the right way to do it. Get your own life in order before getting someone else deeply involved in it.

Thats how im rolling, dont plan on thinking about a family untill 28+....

Im 23 now, I'll say about 26-28 years old I should have my career going in full effect with a masters in Business and a music career going(I produce but want a recording label) a woman would only slow me down like it did in high school, Im lucky not to have any children yet....I want to be able to give my kids what my mother couldnt give me....

[YuNgWuN]

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how about you just play it cool. If you're in college and 25 or younger than I wouldn't even bother with finding a girlfriend. Your college days are supposed to be your best times. Enjoy it. You'll find a woman soon enough and then get married and wish you were in college or single again..

Yea I start back up on Monday, So yea I shouldnt stress about it.

[cmutat17]

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Perfect. I was looking for the right thread rather than creating one and I found it. Here's my story.....


After watching some hilarious youtube videos about Chatroulette and Omegle I decided to see for myself what it's like.


I met this girl on Omegle yesterday she was pretty cool. Our conversation lasted probably three hours (I don't know if that's common, so I was hoping you guys could tell me) and she seemed really sweet and sincere. I know it's not technically a dating site, but we exchanged contact info and I asked if we could speak/text again and she said she'd like too. My question is what would be the right time to message her back without seeming too needy/odd? Or am I just taking it too far and it's over exaggeration? I am sort of new to this.

[Ghost Of The Year]

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There is no "right" time. Call/text her when you're ready. If there is a"too soon or too late", then she's not the right one anyways.

[Cusefan]

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Is she from the area? I suppose it would be good practice

[cmutat17]

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Before I reply to your advice/question, thanks for helping me out here. I don't really have people I can count on in this area of life (if that makes sense).

There is no "right" time. Call/text her when you're ready. If there is a"too soon or too late", then she's not the right one anyways.

Cool, duly noted. (I think this is the 'thank you' emoticon)

Is she from the area? I suppose it would be good practice

No sir, she's Texas and I'm Canada. Huge difference, I know. I probably should have mentioned it in my original post.


PS: After my original post she literally texted me right after. So we texted for a bit. Yesterday, I texted her first and we talked a bit. I don't know what to do now. Should I leave it for a day or two?

[Cusefan]

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Before I reply to your advice/question, thanks for helping me out here. I don't really have people I can count on in this area of life (if that makes sense).







Cool, duly noted. (I think this is the 'thank you' emoticon)





No sir, she's Texas and I'm Canada. Huge difference, I know. I probably should have mentioned it in my original post.


PS: After my original post she literally texted me right after. So we texted for a bit. Yesterday, I texted her first and we talked a bit. I don't know what to do now. Should I leave it for a day or two?

Nope, you good to call and text her, she's broken the ice so no need to feel weird. Since you guys are like 2000 miles apart though just realise this is purely practice for the real thing. If you can get a girl naked over the Internet then you can do it in real life.


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[mjavon]

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If you can get a girl naked over the Internet then you can do it in real life.

Best sentence I've read all day. 👍

[dickey1331]

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I've never understood the whole wait a day or two after meeting a girl. I've always thought that was terrible advice.

[Chrisksaint]

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I've never understood the whole wait a day or two after meeting a girl. I've always thought that was terrible advice.

Yeah in college I never did that. The next morning I would send a text, because I always felt like she'd just forget who I even was if I waited another day. Plus in that situation it was always easy to strike up a conversation since it just happened.

DC spitting that truth earlier, the success rate I got with getting numbers is pretty low it seems like. Gave out a # earlier today and we've been hitting it off ever since.