Sometimes I Wish Folks Would Have To Take A Test To See If They Are Able To Have Kids

[stiffarmleft]

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I love black clowns.

[GSW]

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I see where you are coming from and I can tell your right now, that I am understanding more and more why this happens everyday. It seems now that our kids are lead to believe that every moral belief is subjective. Meaning, that if it works for you then it is right. Your beliefs influence the way you act, I don't care who you are, you act the way you do because of what you believe. We will use your example DC. We would all believe that young girls acting like that and not being modest is inappropiate, right? Well there came a time where people began to believe being a stripper is ok. Personally, I believe anything involving lust like that is wrong, but that's just me. There came a point though where people started to accept stripping as something that wasn't taboo, so to say, and quit being so harsh towards it. You can see it now, I could go to my school and find many people who would say that they would have no problem with a young girl exposing herself in order to pay her way through school or to get out of a rough situation. These people start the diffusion of their beliefs with their friends and to their children if they have them. That's why the world is the way it is today. Things are being accepted that, in my honest opinion, should not be accepted because they are just wrong. These subjective beliefs that are so common in our postmoderism world today have pretty much let everyone act the way they want, and we are becoming afraid to say anything to them because of this "If it works for me, then it is right" mentally that is being instilled in our youth today. If we try to point out an absolute truth then we get immediately attacked.

I'm in no way saying I'm perfect, I make mistakes too. Just something I have observed as someone who lives against the cultural norm these days.

Amen.

literally.

[DC]

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Lol you went by yourself?

Of course not. I am not depressed or a criminal

[rockchisler]

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Of course not. I am not depressed or a criminal

I feel you on the "We" issue as parents handling their business, But now its getting to be that girls in general feel that acting like Video vixens is the way to be. Just like the great Stephen A Smith said. " Men don't objectify women, women objectify women". Be proud of yourself, act like a lady not a tramp.

[GSW]

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I feel you on the "We" issue as parents handling their business, But now its getting to be that girls in general feel that acting like Video vixens is the way to be. Just like the great Stephen A Smith said. " Men don't objectify women, women objectify women". Be proud of yourself, act like a lady not a tramp.

thing is they think they are acting how a lady is supposed to act.

we need Michelle Obama to do a reality show before these girls catch any sense.

[DC]

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Man Michelle doesn't relate to those girls, why would they listen to her?

[Dice]

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So I went to the "Univer-Soul" Circus last night, and it was a very entertaining show, but one thing throughout the show bothered me.

Two rows in front of me was this little girls (probably no more than 8), and ANYTIME a song was played, this girl would act like she was in some type of strip club. I mean this girl was sticking her butt out, "poppin it", slow grinding and just thought she was a stripper basically. THe thing that made me mad? Her mother was sitting RIGHT there encouraging it all. Her mother was probably in her early 20s.

So there comes a point in the show where they called "kids" onto the stage for a dance-off. So guess who RUNS down to the front to be in the contest. Yes, the little stripper.

So first the ring-master introduces the 3 girls by name, and ALL three of them have hood names (thats another issue in itself), and once "the girl" gets announced, her mother is screaming to the top of her lungs. I am saying to myself, "Oh man."

So the music starts and the little girl just goes crazy. Doing splits and her "normal" routine. Her mother is cheering her on. . People in the crowd had this disgusted look on their faces, but for the most part, people were encouraging it.

Anybody that knows me knows that I hate foolishness like that. I swear to god I wanted to punch her mother right between the eyes. It was almost as if she was PROUD of her daughter.

"We" need to do better is all I am going to say.

Everyone doesn't need to be able to have kids man.

Looks like their father wasn't there. Which if he was there (and was a real father) that would have never happened. If saw my daughter doing that I would ring her neck right on the spot and wouldn't care what anybody else thought.

That's probably why they acted like that, their fathers are either non-existent or they are around and they ain't really doing their jobs.

A real father would never have his daughters act like that.

[Eton Rifles]

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this reminded me of a wrestling event I went to in the late 90's. I think it was a RAW broadcast around '99 or so and Stone Cold was at his height of popularity. of course he is in the ring giving everybody the finger and then just in front of me A 10 year old boy is doing it too and his mother is urging him on. I got a good laugh out of that but its also kind of sad too.

[Gotmadskillzson]

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Hood names hmmmm ? Let me guess......

Lexus
Porche
Mercedes

You know people in the hood love naming their daughters after cars LMAO

Hell I even knew some girls named Caprice, Chevyette & Malibu.

[J.R. Locke]

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DC moralizing again.

I don't understand it? Who cares. Everyone is going to have sex. I think the shame is when we act like we need to give kids all kinds of material possessions and all the other kinds of stuff instead of just the love and support they need. Those gals just like every other gal will be sucking a dick around the age of 12-15 then they will progress to intercourse etc....way the worlds always worked.

Bad parents for having children dance sexually? Is it better when the 21 year old girls do it in the club?

[jct32]

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DC moralizing again.

I don't understand it? Who cares. Everyone is going to have sex. I think the shame is when we act like we need to give kids all kinds of material possessions and all the other kinds of stuff instead of just the love and support they need. Those gals just like every other gal will be sucking a dick around the age of 12-15 then they will progress to intercourse etc....way the worlds always worked.

Bad parents for having children dance sexually? Is it better when the 21 year old girls do it in the club?

So what do we do? Just let our kids do whatever they want because we know it's going to eventually happen? Sure, that might be the road that these girls go down these days, because of peer pressure and popular culture. So are we just going give up on them because we know that they are going to have sex one day? No, do your job as a parent and instill some real values in your kid, not all the subjective values we have these days. In my opinion, I think a parent that does that and fails is a lot better than a parent who just lets their kid do whatever because they know it will happen eventually.

If you can't tell, I don't like where our society is going. I think our generation needs to wake up or we are going to have big problems in the future.

[Jackdog]

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So what do we do? Just let our kids do whatever they want because we know it's going to eventually happen? Sure, that might be the road that these girls go down these days, because of peer pressure and popular culture. So are we just going give up on them because we know that they are going to have sex one day? No, do your job as a parent and instill some real values in your kid, not all the subjective values we have these days. In my opinion, I think a parent that does that and fails is a lot better than a parent who just lets their kid do whatever because they know it will happen eventually.

If you can't tell, I don't like where our society is going. I think our generation needs to wake up or we are going to have big problems in the future.

As a parent that is trying to raise a young man in a society that excuses bad behavior from children and their parents more and more everyday. I agree.

[DC]

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DC moralizing again.

I don't understand it? Who cares. Everyone is going to have sex. I think the shame is when we act like we need to give kids all kinds of material possessions and all the other kinds of stuff instead of just the love and support they need. Those gals just like every other gal will be sucking a dick around the age of 12-15 then they will progress to intercourse etc....way the worlds always worked.

Bad parents for having children dance sexually? Is it better when the 21 year old girls do it in the club?

You missed the whole point

[DC]

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DC moralizing again.

I don't understand it? Who cares. Everyone is going to have sex. I think the shame is when we act like we need to give kids all kinds of material possessions and all the other kinds of stuff instead of just the love and support they need. Those gals just like every other gal will be sucking a dick around the age of 12-15 then they will progress to intercourse etc....way the worlds always worked.

Bad parents for having children dance sexually? Is it better when the 21 year old girls do it in the club?

You missed the whole point of the thread.

[jmill703]

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Is it illegal to whoop your kids now?

LoL... People thought Obama coming into office would change the AA community. I knew nothing would change. Is it me or does just about everyone lack accountability in America? If something goes wrong it's somebodies elses fault...

I'm 22 years old, I kind of like how most people my age are idiots and don't get it. It'll be easier for me to take over...