Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

[CWSapp757]

I took my girl to the carnival this past weekend and needless to say there were plenty of teenagers there (I'm 24 years old just in case anyone was wondering). Well, anyway, I do not go out nearly as much as I used to several years ago so a lot of things I haven't seen in a while. Anyways, as we stood in line for the first ride (Music Express, hopefully some of you know what I'm talking bout, lol) we saw a female (about 18 or 19) who had to be the loudest, most obnoxious person in the world. For the entire ten minutes, she is dancing, lifting up her shirt and yelling "come here cutie, let me holla at you" to every "cute guy" she saw walking by. Her friends looked embarrassed, and guys were just walking past her shaking their heads. And of course, she was pretty unattractive.
So as me and my girl stood in the line for another ride a little while later, I saw something that just brought back horrible memories from my teenage years (I was a vulture back then, lol). A guy politely asked a female how she was doing and before he could even complete a full sentence she responds, "Goodness, can you get away from me. Why are you even talking to me". Couple minutes later, another guy approaches. Her response, "I swear I'm so sick of wack dudes trying to talk to me. Looking good can be a curse sometimes". All of her little groupie homegirls sitting there laughing and co-signing. Smh.

Anyway, just thinking back about the old days made me wanna ask you guys (or females if any are reading this) which one do you think is more frustrating and aggravating to see: The obnoxious, loud "I need to be the center of attention at all times" female or the conceited, "I am so stuck on myself that no one should even approach me or attempt to speak to me" female. Just curious. What do you guys think?

[jmood88]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

Both of them suck equally.

[Blzer]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

Stuck up.

[Watson]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

stuck-up


it'd unbelievable how close it is though

[CWSapp757]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

Lol, I feel you guys on that. I'm talking to my female co-worker about it and she says that the only reason they act stuck up is because guys are so obnoxious and 90 percent are disrespectful. I understand that, but as I told her, that is still no reason to be rude towards the guys that are showing you respect.

[Trevytrev11]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

I think the loud and obnixious ones are worse. You can, for the most part, avoid stuck up and cocky people by just ignoring them or staying away from them, but unless you can leave a situation or carry ear plugs on you, loud and annoying or obnoxious people are for the most part unavoidable. When someone craves attention, they will stop at nothing to get it.

It's funny though, for the most part (not always) the stuck up girls that act like they don't like the attention, really enjoy it. Usually the girls getting hit on, commented about, stared at and approached are the ones wearing flashy, revealing clothing and showing skin, which is what draws the attention to begin with. If they just put on conservative clothing, 90% of the "problems" would probably go away.

[Brandwin]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

I think the loud and obnixious ones are worse. You can, for the most part, avoid stuck up and cocky people by just ignoring them or staying away from them, but unless you can leave a situation or carry ear plugs on you, loud and annoying or obnoxious people are for the most part unavoidable. When someone craves attention, they will stop at nothing to get it.

It's funny though, for the most part (not always) the stuck up girls that act like they don't like the attention, really enjoy it. Usually the girls getting hit on, commented about, stared at and approached are the ones wearing flashy, revealing clothing and showing skin, which is what draws the attention to begin with. If they just put on conservative clothing, 90% of the "problems" would probably go away.

As a great poster at OS used to say.
B-I-N-G-O!

[JBH3]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

Both of them suck equally.

My sentiments exactly.

[CWSapp757]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

Beautifully stated Trevy. Couldn't have said it better myself.

[Chaos81]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

I think the loud and obnixious ones are worse. You can, for the most part, avoid stuck up and cocky people by just ignoring them or staying away from them, but unless you can leave a situation or carry ear plugs on you, loud and annoying or obnoxious people are for the most part unavoidable. When someone craves attention, they will stop at nothing to get it.

This.

[TheLetterZ]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

I think the loud and obnixious ones are worse. You can, for the most part, avoid stuck up and cocky people by just ignoring them or staying away from them, but unless you can leave a situation or carry ear plugs on you, loud and annoying or obnoxious people are for the most part unavoidable. When someone craves attention, they will stop at nothing to get it.

It's funny though, for the most part (not always) the stuck up girls that act like they don't like the attention, really enjoy it. Usually the girls getting hit on, commented about, stared at and approached are the ones wearing flashy, revealing clothing and showing skin, which is what draws the attention to begin with. If they just put on conservative clothing, 90% of the "problems" would probably go away.

I disagree. It's easier to avoid loud people because they're easy to identify and you can simply leave. The other group? You can't spot them right away like you can loud people.

And the "stuck-up girls" absolutely do it for attention. It makes them feel good about themselves to be able to hold themselves in higher esteem than others.

[Cebby]

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Attention seekers tend to be whores.

So I'll choose stuck up girls as worse

[Trevytrev11]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

I disagree. It's easier to avoid loud people because they're easy to identify and you can simply leave. The other group? You can't spot them right away like you can loud people.

And the "stuck-up girls" absolutely do it for attention. It makes them feel good about themselves to be able to hold themselves in higher esteem than others.

Yeah, but a cocky person can basically be a non factor if you don't talk to them or ignore them. A loud person, not so much. If your 10 feet from a cocky person at a movie, a baseball game, waiting in line at an amusement park or at a restaurant with your family, you'd probably never know it since you wouldn't strike up a conversation with them. A loud person will make their precense known and the only way around it is for you to find another seat, ask for another table, find a different ride or punch them in the face .

Sure you can avoid loud people by way staying away, but then your forced to adapt to their personality and then change your plans. However, if you talk to someone and find out you don't like their personality it's a risk you take and you can leave leave just the same.

In my experience, I've had more movies, meals and other things ruined due to some loud *** than some girl or guy who think's their god's gift to the word...in fact, I usually find it amusing to watch those people.

[CWSapp757]

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I think I would lean towards the stuck up girls. I say this simply based off of my experiences though. With that being said, most of the loud obnoxious girls that I know are not very attractive and portray this image of extreme confidence but in actuality have low self esteem. I feel many of them do it because they feel being "out there" like that is the only way to get the attention that they want. Just as Cebby said, attention seekers tend to be whores and that's because taking the D is another form of attention. I feel sorry for most of them actually (I say most cause I know some people are just straight up loud and obnoxious for no good reason).
But them damn stuck up girls..... as I said in my OP, it just brings back childhood memories. I swear I would try to approach certain girls and you could just see the thrill they got out of playing me or turning me down. It's just a game and an ego booster for them. I had one of my friends from college tell me she wouldn't even converse with a guy unless he dressed like he had mad money. We got into such a heated argument it was weeks before we spoke. It's just so shallow. BUT, as I said, that's just my opinion.

[Lordcledus]

Re: Stuck up vs. Attention seeker.... which one is worse?

They both suck, but it's a lot easier to ignore the stuck up person.